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Why do girls go after guys ALOT older then they r? Yet another one of my friends, who is female gets dumped by someone who is in his 20's.....
my freind is 18 and he was 26. I told her but she ignored me. He just left her out cold..... What I'm saing is why do girls go after older guys? As u may know, that example is not extreme at all, but still wrong. I knew a girl who lost her virginity at 14 willingly 4 het boyfriend of 32!!! Guess what? Some girls r so desparate as a teen it is just pathetic..... | |
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I'm more curious as to the other side of that coin: why do guys go after women who are ALOT younger than they are??... | |
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Byron said: I'm more curious as to the other side of that coin: why do guys go after women who are ALOT younger than they are??...
Me too. I've never dated anyone who was a ton older than I am. | |
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applekisses said: Byron said: I'm more curious as to the other side of that coin: why do guys go after women who are ALOT younger than they are??...
Me too. I've never dated anyone who was a ton older than I am. When my father was about 67 years old, he was dating a 35 year old... ...and HE ended up breaking up with HER..lol... I guess I should be happy, tho...it means I'll still be pullin' them in when I'm 70. | |
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Byron said: applekisses said: Me too. I've never dated anyone who was a ton older than I am. When my father was about 67 years old, he was dating a 35 year old... ...and HE ended up breaking up with HER..lol... I guess I should be happy, tho...it means I'll still be pullin' them in when I'm 70. WOOO WOOO!!! | |
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I had friends like that. There are some 20...18 year olds who date 13....14 year olds. This world is crazy. | |
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thesexofit said: I knew a girl who lost her virginity at 14 willingly 4 het boyfriend of 32!!!
Okay that's just SICK AND DISTURBING, NOT TO MENTION CRIMINAL. What kind of a mentally sick man would have sex with a 14 year old little girl? Makes me wonder where her mother was in all that... As for why girls go after guys a lot older than they, my opinion is that in many cases an 'older man' makes the girl feel special, like "Oh he picked ME!" Also many older men usually have a few more material things to their name, be it money or cars or whatever. Mostly though I think it's the cache of being with an 'older man'. Guys who go for much younger women - easy. Makes THEM feel young, younger women are considered more "desirable and sexy" (ego boost there for the men), and lots of younger (materialistic or shallow or who have an agenda) women willingly will accomodate the older men if they think there's something in the deal for THEMSELVES. | |
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There was this program on t.v about men from the U.S going to other coutries to prostitute little girls like 10 and under. This little girl around six asked this man if he wanted "boom boom" which mean oral I think. | |
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In all sincerity, when women/girls go after men who are a lot older than they are, I think it's usually a case of seeking a father figure, trying to attain their father's love and attention which they never felt the received during childhood and while growing up. | |
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Byron said: In all sincerity, when women/girls go after men who are a lot older than they are, I think it's usually a case of seeking a father figure, trying to attain their father's love and attention which they never felt the received during childhood and while growing up.
yeah, I guess | |
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applekisses said: Byron said: I'm more curious as to the other side of that coin: why do guys go after women who are ALOT younger than they are??...
Me too. I've never dated anyone who was a ton older than I am. Well it is kind of hard to set a romantic mood in a nursing home. | |
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early last year I was dating a 23-year old girl, I'm 33....it was cool! She was cool and dug my lederhosen, she played the violin and was hot!
But ofcourse, it didn't last.....I found out it was all about the lederhosen, and I am so much more! | |
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Why do guys go after guys older than- you know what? let me shut up since i'm fucking an 18 year old. GlamSlamKid...The resident clown on Prince.orgy
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thesexofit said: Yet another one of my friends, who is female gets dumped by someone who is in his 20's.....
my freind is 18 and he was 26. I told her but she ignored me. He just left her out cold..... What I'm saing is why do girls go after older guys? As u may know, that example is not extreme at all, but still wrong. I knew a girl who lost her virginity at 14 willingly 4 het boyfriend of 32!!! Guess what? Some girls r so desparate as a teen it is just pathetic..... i'd say it was the guy who talked the 14 yr old into sex who is pathetic and a paedophile ! thats a seriously dodgy "BOYfriend" | |
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danielboon said: thesexofit said: Yet another one of my friends, who is female gets dumped by someone who is in his 20's.....
my freind is 18 and he was 26. I told her but she ignored me. He just left her out cold..... What I'm saing is why do girls go after older guys? As u may know, that example is not extreme at all, but still wrong. I knew a girl who lost her virginity at 14 willingly 4 het boyfriend of 32!!! Guess what? Some girls r so desparate as a teen it is just pathetic..... i'd say it was the guy who talked the 14 yr old into sex who is pathetic and a paedophile ! thats a seriously dodgy "BOYfriend" thats right it's the men who is pathetic. They lure the poor girls into their sticky web and use them [Edited 1/10/05 14:10pm] | |
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unlucky7 said: danielboon said: i'd say it was the guy who talked the 14 yr old into sex who is pathetic and a paedophile ! thats a seriously dodgy "BOYfriend" thats right it's the men who is pathetic. They lure the poor girls into their sticky web and use them [Edited 1/10/05 14:10pm] Thats true but why do u think men try? It is sick but it is because some girls r insecure enough to go out with them..... | |
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Byron said: I'm more curious as to the other side of that coin: why do guys go after women who are ALOT younger than they are??...
I'm much more attracted to older women. | |
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hmmmm.
My guess is: (in no particular order) 1) Money 2) Maturity 3) Older men have a plan in life I personally love younger women--they're so cute and niave. And alot of them still want to beleive that love is the most important thing in life. | |
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AsianBomb777 said: hmmmm.
My guess is: (in no particular order) 1) Money 2) Maturity 3) Older men have a plan in life I personally love younger women--they're so cute and niave. And alot of them still want to beleive that love is the most important thing in life. Naive eh? that's pretty dangerous if u ask me.....girls r asking 4 a brokenheart to go after an adult in their early teens, as I have seen a couple of times now. Girls get a grip! | |
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thesexofit said: Naive eh? that's pretty dangerous if u ask me.....girls r asking 4 a brokenheart to go after an adult in their early teens, as I have seen a couple of times now. Girls get a grip! I wouldn't date a girl younger than 20. BUt I like them between 20 and 25. And yes, I like that their niave and trusting. It's very attractive. Older women are great too, but they set the playing field much more evenly and intimidate me alot.... alot. | |
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Ex-Moderator | I don't like the idea of children dating adults, and that has more to do with mentality than physical age...
But once you reach a certain maturity, age is only a number. I once fancied dating a man many years my senior. It wouldn't have worked (for other reasons) so ultimately I decided not to, but I don't think it would have been a big deal. |
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CarrieMpls said: I don't like the idea of children dating adults, and that has more to do with mentality than physical age...
But once you reach a certain maturity, age is only a number. I once fancied dating a man many years my senior. It wouldn't have worked (for other reasons) so ultimately I decided not to, but I don't think it would have been a big deal. ...and younger men? | |
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CarrieMpls said: I don't like the idea of children dating adults, and that has more to do with mentality than physical age...
But once you reach a certain maturity, age is only a number. I once fancied dating a man many years my senior. It wouldn't have worked (for other reasons) so ultimately I decided not to, but I don't think it would have been a big deal. age ain't nothing but a number. I like to beleive that, but look at R Kelly? Heck even Prince was getting borderline with Mayte. No seriously it depends on individual circumstance I guess, but most men just want the control. And yet girls take this? | |
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Ex-Moderator | JDINTERACTIVE said: CarrieMpls said: I don't like the idea of children dating adults, and that has more to do with mentality than physical age...
But once you reach a certain maturity, age is only a number. I once fancied dating a man many years my senior. It wouldn't have worked (for other reasons) so ultimately I decided not to, but I don't think it would have been a big deal. ...and younger men? same thing. Though, since you ask, there is a certain younger man I admire... |
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CarrieMpls said: I don't like the idea of children dating adults, and that has more to do with mentality than physical age...
But once you reach a certain maturity, age is only a number. | |
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There are a lot of older men who prey on young girls coz they are young,naive, stupid, vulnerable and confused.
Then again there are a lot of older women who prey on young boys..... Ohh purple joy oh purple bliss oh purple rapture! REAL MUSIC by REAL MUSICIANS - Prince "I kind of wish there was a reason for Prince to make the site crash more" ~~ Ben |
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I always get hit on by younger women for some reason. I look a bit younger than my age.....but it's bit embarressing when a 18 year old is flirting with you. | |
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althom said: I always get hit on by younger women for some reason. I look a bit younger than my age.....but it's bit embarressing when a 18 year old is flirting with you.
Maybe they think you're a gumball machine. | |
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althom said: I always get hit on by younger women for some reason. I look a bit younger than my age.....but it's bit embarressing when a 18 year old is flirting with you.
Those 18 year olds are trying to steal you from the cradle Ohh purple joy oh purple bliss oh purple rapture! REAL MUSIC by REAL MUSICIANS - Prince "I kind of wish there was a reason for Prince to make the site crash more" ~~ Ben |
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When I was 24-25 I dated a girl younger than me by a few years. My last g/f was years younger than me. "Did u love somebody
But got no love in return? Did u understand the real meaning of love? That it just is and never yearns" ...Prince | |
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