subhuman09 said:

i'm just talking about us *grown* women (18+)....

most women know that men mature at slower rate then we do (obviously there are exceptions). i used to think dating older men was gross, but since i turned 30 (last week) i'm ok with it... but they better not have any kids... i want to start an anti-babymomma/babydaddy club, but that's another thread

I ask my 15 year old girlfriend the same question.

The best part was when their mom liked you anyway and was cool with it.

....or better yet guessed your age way under what it really was and therefore in by default. haha

When I was 18 I dated a woman that was 32 It went on for about 2 years then I outgrew her.

Byron said:

Because all the good ones are already taken by this point.

Hey people, aren't we being a bit too harsh? When I was 17 I had a boyfriend who was 23. It lasted for one year and it was a pretty serious relationship. I'm 23 now and my recent boyfriend is 30. We're living together and the relationship is superb.

But these are not the most extreme examples. Let me tell you this, one of my best friends was 15 when she had a relationship with a man who was about 28 at that time. It was a pretty serious thing too. Now she has been together with a boy who is only 2 years older than she is for almost 6 years. But she loves to bring out the good memories of this older man. He wasn't too pushy, and she was the one to decide what happened sexually. If no one is manipulated, what's the problem with it?

MarieLouise said:

its illegal for a start, and can leed to being imprisoned !!! 14/15 yr olds are not ready emotionally for sex/relationship love and war, heartache !! let them grow up first , then they can shag anbody they damn well please !!! then they can deal with there emotions a little bit better prepared !

Girls usually mature earlier than guys

danielboon said:

Illegal, yeah right. That may be true, but IMHO that's a weak argument, because it doesn't say anything about the emotional side. And every country has its own laws for that. Every one has its own way and tempo to grow up emotionally, I know 30-year olds who are in a way less mature then my 17-year old sister. I'm not saying every 15 y old girl should fuck 30 y old men, or vice versa. It may be a very abusive and manipulative situation, and as an adult, we could keep an eye on it. But not every situation causes damage. That is sth I'm pretty sure about. I mean, if some one would have told my friend 'you can't have sex with this man cause he's too old', the situation would have damaged her more.

Novabreaker said:

I've found just the opposite to be true...

danielboon said:

I don't understand why some folks aren't seeing or realizing that messing around with a 14/15 CHILD (when the other person is much, much older...) isn't just merely creepy or strange - it's illegal.

What on earth would a 28 year old GROWN MAN have in common with a 14/15 year old CHILD?!? And I'm sorry, I have a difficult time accepting that a child of that age is capable of having a truly 'serious' romantic relationship at that age.

MarieLouise said:

Novabreaker said:

That's true. In my experiences many women by 25 already had kids!! So I went for the 17-18 year olds. Plus they seemed less bitchy and less angry at guys in general.

my last girlfriend was older....well, only 3 months...but still, I was her boy-toy!

Because most women are sick and perverted. There ya have it. Case closed.

JoweeCoco said:

Or the women are naiive and the men are dirty old perverts trying to hold onto their youth!

REDFEATHERS said:

I could seriously answer the question, but I've done that in the past and people at the org are simply not interested in the truth.

JoweeCoco said:

Go on then... I mean I can vouch for myself.. Older men fancied me.. and I did date them.. Nowadays young men fancy me...

Maybe you can tell me in private..

REDFEATHERS said:

Those who do like to be dominated, used, so they can say they're not accountable for any kinky shit they've done.

Then there's also the ones who have daddy issues who are looking for a man with the same qualities as their father, only better and of course the best part is that they're not their father.

Then the last group is the money and power hungry girls. Younger men are generally still struggling to get their shit together. It's just nature, these women fall for the alpha-males.

Now watch people say I'm full of shit because I didn't give the answers they wanted to hear...

JoweeCoco said:

Yes thats true.. but thats what has prolly fucked me up from day one..

That's why

Byron said:

Okay, okay. All the mini-skirt-n-pink-high-heels-wearing ones are taken by this point then.

Seriously speaking, I don't think I have met a single nice, available woman that would have been exactly my own age in, perhaps, two years.

luv4u said:

That wasn't the question though.

what is "ALOT" older ?

i have always dated older men ... since high school days ... most 5 or more yrs older

is that ALOT older ?


my reasons... thats what i was attracted to ...alittle wiser and more experience in life then my peers

my husband is 6 1/2 yrs older then i am

Mach said:

Thats not alot older.. for instance I went out with an older man, I was 19 and he was 42

That is ALOT older..

Mach said:

See Mach that was the same thing I was wondering, what is older? Im 24 and I have a child, I have a decent job, and a work ethic I have a mortage and just have priorities
SO everyone I tend to date is older than me, the last time I tried to date someone close to my age, we didnt have any thing in common, so I stick with the older men