A while ago i posted a few really dull but honest and heart wrenching posts funny enough on general discussion.

I don't think anyone reading them would have thought i was not being serious the tone was infact very low, and yes probably was a cry for attention as i was feeling the lowest i had felt for a very very long time.

I read the posts and most were really kind and the authors had the time to try and make a really dark point in my life a little easier as i sat here with my kleenex and cried over the key board others on the other hand and there wasn't many decide that now would be a great time to be insensitive and critical.

this may only be a web site but there are people on the other end of the screen we can all get on our high horse and feel superior and think yeah it's only words but it's not only words i think the fact some people lack compassion shows a true reflection on them.

If in serious situations where people are hurting you can't say anything nice please keep it to yourself, even if you think it's not serious we all have different thresholds of pain.

the internet is a powerful medium never under estimate your effect on others
People get hurt on these kind of things all the time and i got hurt when i was at my lowest ebb, but thanks anyone who was mean spirited you taught me i NEVER want to be like that.

please be nice to each other (unless your friends and you both know it's in jest)

sorry this is really boring but i wanted to say it.

Lolly people are mean everywhere, and yes they do suck

lolly..

glad you shared and hope you continue to do so...

shine and brite 's always

ella731 said:

i love people i really do, i think thats my bloody problem I'm too nice and kinda expect others to be the same

how are you any way cutie?

lollyp0p said:

This thread is not boring!.....

pippet said:

I'm going to try and be my silly self again soon this thoughtful side of me is quite boring

but yes i shall be sharing lots in the future got sooooo many things going on

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Steadwood said:

SpcMs said:

oh and

btw that pin is an accident waiting to happen

Lolly, it is NOT boring at all This is the other side to your fun threads and posts, they both make you who you are.

you put the lolly
in the lolly pop

F the negativity
old fools
fresh crop

your thread was
up lifting
far from a flop

always be the lolly
baby never

stop

shausler said:

SHAUSIE!!


And, yes, lolly...there are some jerks everywhere...I almost feel sorry for them sometimes...how horrible must their lives be that they can't feel compassion?

lolly your posts are anything but boring

lollyp0p said:

So very true...

A lot of people post what they post without really giving much thought into how it might effect the people who read/see it...it takes so little effort to show some empathy and put yourself in someone else's shoes for a moment or two.

i love you silly girl

for Lolly


you rock sista friend !

lollyp0p said:

Lolly, I'm a good listener.....

Miguel

i read and responded to many of your posts both negatively and positively lolly and i stand by all that i say good or bad when you post in places like this and open your heart to people you don't know and in most cases never will, you open yourself up to all kinds of criticisms(spelt wrong oops)anyway what i'm saying is we all have our opinions wether you like them or not, don't take it all to heart.we aren't perfect and neither are you,just because some folk didn't respond to your posts the way you would have liked them to doesn't make them mean spirited or bad people.

Yes, there are some mean-spirited cunts at this website.

lolly!



Tell me who they are, me and and can make 'em dissapear!



(I saw a JEM DVD set at the store the other day.)

shausler said:

couldn't agree more, lolly...sometimes people forget that there are people behind the PC that are living and feeling emotions just like anyone else

cammille said:

I think you totally misinterpreted what i said....

all i intended was please think before you reply, I really am tougher than i look, I've had to be but i would NEVER to use a old saying Kick someone when they are down.

There is no way you can expect people to react but to react to someone who obviously is having problems be it your idea of a bad time or just plain petty why must we show a need to judge, why can we not just support each other.

I'm far FAR from perfect and i have in the past used words and actions to hurt others i just think it is not needed and i think alot of people do on here what they can't do in person and be vile, I wasn't insinuating that there should not be freedom of speech but i do think people underestimate sites such as these where you can get emotionally attached.

I was just trying to make people a little more thoughtful in there posts thats all, People can be hurt on here the same as in person. I just think if you don't know the person and have never met them and never will why should that person feel the need to show such negative opinions.

but hope your well.

ALot of people are mean to me all the time.

I think it's different becuase I crave attention, but I don't necessarily need to be liked? So if I get hate mail--so be it. I'm just here to have fun anyway.

I think you're point is very valid--yes, you're post is boring as hell to me, but who am I in the large scheme of things? Just some nerdy guy who's found a website that occupies too much of his time sometimes.

I'll make sure I don't offend if at all possible.

to everyone who replied, only got the one account now so if i replied to all of you i'd have no posts left

shausler yay i have a new one for my virgin profile

AsianBomb777 said:

AB you're not making any sense...you're saying lolly's posting is boring in one breathe (not cool) and then saying you won't offend if at all possible...she's a person and is online RIGHT NOW so she will read this and the words will sink in JUST LIKE ANYONE ELSE

Natisse said:

I see. What I meant by all of that is that no matter what I think, bear in mind that my opinion doesn't mean very much.

Lolly, it wasn't meant as an insult--I tend to not mince words. I'm really not here to make enemy's. Just trying to have some fun.
If it's at your expense, I'll refrain from doing so in the future.