lillith said:

can i come 2?
id b happy just 2 watch...
i know, im a naughty gurl
but seriously, if janet jackson ever asked me 2 go with her, id jump on that shit

although people question my heterosexuality

doesnt bother me one bit though

Those two... their style is rather different. I think they would compensate each other when struggling in my bed



AND

And this beautiful woman...

MrSquiggle said:

A few posts ago, you said that you wanted to kiss John Mayer's "baby face". Are you sure you're not gay?

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BinaryJustin said:

He might be too young to realize. Leave him alone!

AsianBomb777 said:

Damn!!!

He's not ugly!

I know what you mean about performance energy though.

Ok, I'll bite...

Angelina
Drew Barrymore
Bjork
Tori Amos
Madonna
Sade
Christina Ricci

Chico1 said:

You're not heterosexual!

So, uh. . .

Have any of you "straight" people with freakin' LISTS of same-sex folks you're attracted to stopped to consider the possibility that you might be, well, bisexual?

I'm just sayin'.

tackam said:

Once I was with my friend in her car and I was giving directions. I told her to go straight, and she says "Always forward, never straight, keep your options open."

VinaBlue said:

was kinda thinkin the same thing

tackam said:

Most people don't like labels. There's a continuum (however that's spelled), you know.

CarrieMpls said:

Yeah, I know. That's sorta my point. Don't get hung up on that whole "straight" bit.

tackam said:

yup. sexuality is somewhat fluid. i think many people would be very shocked if they knew how many heterosexuals have had homosexual expierences and vice-versa. one of my favorite things about the quiz phenomanon was listing "sex with a woman" as an answer to "which of the following have i never done" and finiding out a vast majority selected that question and lost points for it.

cborgman said:

yeah, i dont think many people can honestly be labeled as completely "straight" or completely "gay"

4 me personally, i would label myself as a 2 or 3 on the kinsey sexuality scale
(2=predominantly heterosexual with more than incidental homosexuality
3=ambisexuality)

darlinkia said:

Yeah, the Kinsey scale is useful. I'm like a 2.75.

Have you seen the Kinsey movie? It's wonderful.

cborgman said:

It only makes sense to me. Sexuality is so much more complicated, so much more a headspace thing, than who-has-what-genitalia.

I find people who are very firmly on one side of the sexuality fence or the other pretty confusing, actually. I mean, I BELIEVE y'all, I just find it hard to grasp. . .how can gender be SO crucial to attraction?

You guys are sooooo gay.

The only guy that ever had me question my sexuality for a moment was Brad Pitt in Interview With a Vampire. I got all conflicted when I saw that one for the 1st time (I had to tell myself it was 'cause he looked like a woman in it).

tackam said:

yeah, im more open 2 different possibilities- y limit oneself, right? at least thats how i look at things

no, i havent seen the movie...the kinsey scale was something that we had talked about in my forbidden knowledge class...i thought it was interesting and useful

AsianBoi777 said:

u say it like its a bad thing

tackam said:

I'm with you there, Tackam! If you're keepin' a list of same-sex people you wanna bone, it's time to do some thinkin'!

how about nia long
id give her a hand any day

darlinkia said:

james dean is quoted as once saying in an interview when asked if he was gay "well, i'm not gonna go through life with one arm tied behind my back, but i don't identify as gay" (paraphrased from memory limitations)

RipHer2Shreds said:

For me, it goes in stages or (hate to use the word, but) phases. I once figured I just really admired these women and wanted to be like them, so I became attracted to them as a way to merge with their energy. I guess I figure gay people want to have relationships and fall in love with the same sex... I don't, but I'm not completely closed to the possibility. There was one woman that I knew to have that affect on me, but she agreed with me that sooner or later we would want a dick.

Plus, just because you're attracted to someone, doesn't mean you want to "bone" them.

Pagey said:

Androgyny is a beautiful thing, isn't it?

Brad said something about this in a documentary about the movie and it's homoerotic overtones. He said (paraphrasing) it's just energy, not male or female, but just the energy... so anything goes for vampires.

VANITY! And Susan was kind of a turn on and Apollonia sometimes