subhuman09 said:

on his cheek? yes. not to metion the sharpie tattoo.

Christopher said:

What the hell does "MC Nugget" mean anyway?

subhuman09 said:

m.c. nugget

Christopher said:

He keeps looking around for his back up band to show up.

Who are the "Honey Mustard Crew"?

subhuman09 said:

barbie,ken,g.i joe,and Skipper

Christopher said:

He's in the toy aisle again?!?

The management'll throw him out for that.

You know he tried to free the produce section the other day?

He said the celery sticks weren't "getting they fix, so set them free, none of these tricks."

What the ?!?

Christopher said:

I used to have a battle of the DJs with him, back when I was known as "M.C. DLT". I kept the hot side hot, and the cool side cool!!!






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Janfriend said:

I was just thinking that. I used to work in Property Management, and I strongly advise you to take it to the manager. Don't write anything to the neighbor.


Don't know how to spell this early in the morning without my coffee edit
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Janfriend said:

I don't blame you for being pissed, I would be too. Is there any way you can move away from there? The woman upstairs sounds like a real bitch, and getting complaints from the police is not real good either, especially the evening when you weren't even home.

I know what you mean about feeling like you have to bend over backwards to please your neighbor, I feel the same way about where I live. Your situation sounds similar to mine. I live upstairs in a two floor, apartment style condo. The people who live downstairs make noise, but when I make noise that they feel is too late at night, they pound on the ceiling. Not just a light tap, but HARD (pisses me off totally!).

For instance, about a month back, it was about midnight, and I was walking around in my room doing things. Unfortunately, the floors in this place creak because this building is over 40 years old. My bedroom is right above the neighbors downstairs, and you guessed it, the woman downstairs got pissed so she decided to pound on the ceiling instead off coming to talk to me about it personally (bitch!).

Then what really got me was the next morning, I'm trying to sleep in, and the bitch downstairs has her music playing LOUDLY, so loud that I can almost hear the words to the songs from where I'm at. I banged on the floor several times, the bitch either decided to purposely ignore me, or just didn't hear me because of the volume of the music. So now I find myself catering to this bitch, making sure that I don't walk around much in my room after 10 pm (since I was told that that was when she went to bed). It sux, because I feel like I have no freedom to do what I want, because if I do, it will piss her off some more.

Several days later, I was talking to another woman from my building who is friends with the bitch. I guess the bitch was complaining about me walking around at night, and my nice neighbor told the bitch that I was walking around because I was depressed (which is true, I have kind of been down in the dumps lately). Apparently, the bitch must have told the nice lady that she banged on the ceiling when she heard me walking around, because she told the nice neighbor, "Oh, I feel bad." Bitch, that's a damn lie, because if you "felt bad" about banging on the ceiling, you would not have been blaring your music early the next morning when I was trying to sleep. Then the nice neighbor told me that the bitch suffers from migraines. I felt like saying, "Hey, that's not my problem, man." If she suffers from migraines, then she should be living in a HOUSE, not an apartment style condo, where there's people living above or below you, across and down the hall from you. People in this building slam doors, closets, you name it. Not a good place for a person with migraines to be living, in my opinion. Unfortunately, moving for me right now is not an option, since this place is paid off, and I don't have the income for a house payment. But as soon as my financial situation improves and I can swing it, I'm outta here!!!!

Good luck with your situation, I hope it gets better.

Janfriend said:

I agree with your friend.
Anything and everything you do should be done face to face, so there would be no confusion/misunderstanding about what's going on.

Well, I happen 2 be in a situation with my neighbor as well. I live in a condominium unit, but they're all built like apartments. And my neighbor next 2 me is deaf, so she doesn't even know when she's making noise. Every morning between like 5 and 6 and every night after 10 she starts banging things around and she irritates the hell out of me. I have complained to her several times and all I get is a temporary apology only 2 hear her start up again within a few days. Then when I complain to the building association, they get all sensitive about the situation because she is deaf. And then they tell me that I can only file so many complaints before I have 2 take it 2 court, which I don't want 2 do. My solution 2 this frustrating problem, 4 now, is 2 sleep in my living room (I actually brought over the mattress and laid it on the floor) just 2 get away from the noise. I hope 2 God she moves out during this lifetime.

Janfriend said:

Get a few microphones and have them hung right up against the cieling, record your nieghbor in the act of banging. then the next day when she needs her quite time play it back really fucking LOUD!!!!

Christopher said:

h lawd:

Janfriend said:

I sooooo understand where ur coming from. I have almost the exact same situation happening at my place. My next door neighbor is the bitchiest person I have ever had the displeasure of living next 2 in my entire adult life. The first year, she never had a word 2 say about me. I would see her and her husband/boyfriend all the time walkin around the building. They would smile and say hi, etc. But, everything changed in 2004. Suddenly, my music is soooo loud that its "blasting through her walls and making her furniture shake" as she put it.

The boiling point 4 me came on 10/1/04. I decided 2 have an engagement party 4 my fiance and I. Because I am so nice and considerate, I typed up a quick note 2 put on the doors of all the people around me and below me. The note said that I was having about 20 people over 2 celebrate my recent engagement...that it would probably start 2 wind down @ 11 or so....and that we would have music on, etc. I put this note on everyone's doors 24 hours b4 the party started.

Friday nite rolls around and there is a note stuck on my door ONE HOUR b4 my party is 2 begin. 2 this day I can't find that note anywhere, but if I find it, I'll scan and post it here cuz it is EVIL. It was basically a 5 paragraph rant about "how dare u have that many people at ur loft.....its a fire hazard" "u can be assured that we WILL call the cops if it goes past 10pm per the bylaws of our lease" "u should rent a facility out if u wanna have that many people over" etc. etc. etc. And here's the best part.....it was signed MANY OF US.

Needless 2 say, I was fuckin furious. I got on my computer right then and there and started 2 type a kick ass response which began with "I don't know who wrote the letter signed "MANY OF US" but.....and then I proceeded 2 put a copy of my response on everyone's doors (including the manager who interestingly enough lives in one of the units below me). Never heard a word back from the bitch....I know it was her too cuz no one else has EVER complained about my noise levels. Anyway, the manager ended up showing up at my door the nite of the party at around 9:30. She was clueless as 2 what was going on. She got my response note on her door and so she wanted 2 know if everything was okay. I showed her the psycho letter from the bitch next door and she laughed it off and said, "Screw them....congrats on ur engagement....enjoy ur party.....looks like ur having a blast."

SIDE NOTE: A few days later I ran in2 my neighbor 2 the right of me and he said that he barely heard anything that nite and that my music is never too loud 4 them (and my stereo and TV are on the wall I share with them!)

So, that takes me 2 the present. About a week or so ago, bitch came knocking on my door (4 the first time ever...usually she just leaves stupid notes on my door). It was 6:30 on a Tuesday nite. I was cooking dinner and my fiance and I were listening 2 Sade. My fiance answered the door and when he finally shut the door and came back in2 the living room he looked kinda stunned. I asked what the bitch said and he told me that she was WEARING A FREAKIN OXYGEN MASK and she told him that we had 2 turn the music down cuz she was trying 2 write a term paper....her and her husband work 3 jobs AND go 2 school.....she has cancer.....that she's considering filing a lawsuit against the management company 4 all the noise they have had 2 suffer through...blah blah blah. All I can say is #1 I have NEVER seen her with oxygen any other time over the past 2 1/2 years I've lived there #2 If she's so damn sick with cancer that she requires oxygen, how/why would she be workin 2-3 jobs and going 2 school? #3 Why would u choose 2 live in a loft right on a busy Promenade filled with shops/restaurants/people/cars if total silence was ur goal?

So, after hearing her mention a lawsuit, I emailed the manager about the entire conversation so that she has a heads-up. That's where it all stands right now. Everything that goes on between that unit and my unit I will email 2 the manager cuz I want a strong paper trail. Who knows that this bitch has got up her sleeve. I suggest u do the same!

Sorry ur going through this. I truly empathize with u.

paisley2002 said:

The things we do because of selfish/ignorant people around us. I used to sleep on the couch in my living room because my asshole neighbors downstairs would open and close their closet doors repeatedly at 8:30 am on weekends, when I was trying to sleep. I complained to the neighbors directly once, only to have it stop temporarily. When I told the police about it, they must have said something to the assholes downstairs, because the noise has now stopped. Let's hope it stays that way!

A good friend of mine also lives in an apartment, and has been having problems with the person who lives below her. Luckily, this dickhead is moving at the end of this month. I wish the assholes downstairs would move the hell out, but I can't see it happening anytime soon.

mchotsie said:

That sucks! I thought I had it bad, but it sounds like you have it much, much worse. I hope, for your sake, that you and your fiance are able to get the hell out of there. That woman sounds like nothing but trouble.

mchotsie said:

Wow thats a story


I live in Vegas and the home I lived in Prior to this one was in a community where a lot of people had bought homes to use them as rental properties.

Accross the street these college kids moved in, there were 4 of them and between them they had 6 cars parked all over the street in a really nice nieghborhood. Keep in mind I'm paying a mortgage they are just renting.

This one kid who was probably about 22 insisted on parking in front of my house, which is fine but he parked so damn close to my driveway it was sometimes hard to back out and Impossible to put out my garbage during collection days.

So I left him a note on his car " could you please pull forward a bit so I can get my garbage out" the next day the letter is ripped up and on my doorstep.

Keep in mind everytime I went over there they would never answer the door.

after several notes each one getting increasingly vulgar

He writes this note and sticks it on my door "how he is going to kick my ass" I am nearly 2 feet taller than him in shape and a kickboxer. He is not in shape

I have had trouble in the past and been arrested for getting into a fight outside a bar. So I called the cops in case anything did happen I can establish a history with the police and make a case with my lawyer.

The cops came told me to not engage him, that they would talk to him. Of coarse they didn't answer the door.

The next night he came over kicking my door in, luckily for me I had a friend over who could witnees the situation, I lost my temper opened the door and kicked him in the throat chin area it happened pretty fast. Knocking him on his ass, I picked him up off my lawn took him to the street where I admisistered him the beating of his life. His roomates called the cops.

When the cops arrived we where both handcuffed, my friend explained to the cop that he had been kicking in my door and showed him the proof of the damage of my door. During this the cops discovered that he is a registered sex offender, and had not registered his new address a parole violation. So he was going away, the cops determined I was merely protecting my property and let me go.

The moral of the story you never know who your neighbors are
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DO NOT leave that note for her. I think she'd totally use it against you. Instead, go through your landlord regarding EVERYTHING.

Lammastide said:

Good advice you want to make as many people aware of the situation as possible.

psychodelicide said:

I know.....I would hate 2 have 2 leave there though cuz its such a fun place 2 live. If I can push her ass out that would be great. Maybe things will come 2 a head with their lawsuit against the management company and she'll just leave. That's my hope. I really wanted 2 live there once I'm married and my fiance moves in BUT I don't wanna live in hell much longer. And, being newly married already requires some adjusting....I don't want that psycho making things even more stressful 4 us when we're just startin out

lil1 said:

lil1 said:

Good for you kicking his ass and beating him up, he was asking for it. It's great to know how to defend yourself in situations like the one you just described.

mchotsie said:

I hear ya on that, you hate to leave a place you enjoy living all on account of one person being nasty. Let's hope the bitch next store loses her lawsuit, gets pissed, and moves. Wouldn't that be awesome?

I posted an update above

psychodelicide said:

To be honest with whenever I fight I feel like the loser in the situation, because it means I wasn't intellectual enough, to reason and use words, to turn the situation.

However some people just do not respond to reason.

Its nice to be able to defend myself or somebody that can't defend themselves, but fighting in my opinion is a lose/lose situation.

just make sure if you do talk with her this evening, that you have someone to moderate the situation

Janfriend said:

That's not a recommended idea. What kind of rinky-dink manager is running your place?? EEK!

The manager shouldn't be relaying messages back and forth like that. What you should do is meet up WITH the manager as a mediator.

gemini13 said:

Yeah, I was gonna say the same thing. Maybe I misunderstood the update though. Maybe the manager WILL in fact be there??

mchotsie said:

I would insist on it.

lil1 said:

FUCKING AWESOME!!!!