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Reply #30 posted 12/02/04 7:46am

RocknRollDave

If you really wanna take that weird, strange step and venture out into the so-called "real" world, at least it's clear you've got the personality and intellegence to do something worthwhile and make something of yourself...but shhhhh don't let anyone catch me being nice lurking
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Reply #31 posted 12/02/04 7:48am

madminx

RocknRollDave said:

If you really wanna take that weird, strange step and venture out into the so-called "real" world, at least it's clear you've got the personality and intellegence to do something worthwhile and make something of yourself...but shhhhh don't let anyone catch me being nice lurking


dave i do believe thats the first time you have been nice to me hug

what are you after hmmm

i'm guessing the next time i post I'm going to get the "too many replies" message i see far too often sigh
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Reply #32 posted 12/02/04 7:53am

Heavenly

RocknRollDave said:

If you really wanna take that weird, strange step and venture out into the so-called "real" world, at least it's clear you've got the personality and intellegence to do something worthwhile and make something of yourself...but shhhhh don't let anyone catch me being nice lurking

she's taken, it won't help you to suck up to her. So just tell her the sad truth biggrin
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Reply #33 posted 12/02/04 7:53am

RocknRollDave

madminx said:

RocknRollDave said:

If you really wanna take that weird, strange step and venture out into the so-called "real" world, at least it's clear you've got the personality and intellegence to do something worthwhile and make something of yourself...but shhhhh don't let anyone catch me being nice lurking


dave i do believe thats the first time you have been nice to me hug

what are you after
hmmm

i'm guessing the next time i post I'm going to get the "too many replies" message i see far too often sigh




Not after anything - just being honest!


..I'm not normally horrible to you am I?! innocent

You got me all worried now..Let's take a poll:

Is Dave normally a bit of a wanker or what?




actually.....let's, um, give that poll a miss, eh? boxed
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Reply #34 posted 12/02/04 7:54am

madminx

Heavenly said:

RocknRollDave said:

If you really wanna take that weird, strange step and venture out into the so-called "real" world, at least it's clear you've got the personality and intellegence to do something worthwhile and make something of yourself...but shhhhh don't let anyone catch me being nice lurking

she's taken, it won't help you to suck up to her. So just tell her the sad truth biggrin



giggle am indeed taken poor bloke having to put up with me and my mood swings mushy
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Reply #35 posted 12/02/04 7:55am

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RocknRollDave said:

madminx said:



dave i do believe thats the first time you have been nice to me hug

what are you after
hmmm

i'm guessing the next time i post I'm going to get the "too many replies" message i see far too often sigh




Not after anything - just being honest!


..I'm not normally horrible to you am I?! innocent

You got me all worried now..Let's take a poll:

Is Dave normally a bit of a wanker or what?




actually.....let's, um, give that poll a miss, eh? boxed


Good question Dave....well actually...


Oh... I just read your last sentence..... shrug

As you were biggrin
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Reply #36 posted 12/02/04 7:56am

madminx

RocknRollDave said:

madminx said:



dave i do believe thats the first time you have been nice to me hug

what are you after
hmmm

i'm guessing the next time i post I'm going to get the "too many replies" message i see far too often sigh




Not after anything - just being honest!


..I'm not normally horrible to you am I?! innocent

You got me all worried now..Let's take a poll:

Is Dave normally a bit of a wanker or what?




actually.....let's, um, give that poll a miss, eh? boxed



yeah lets not put that to the vote smile

and actually you are not normally a wanker to me, we are both meanies to alive lol
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Reply #37 posted 12/02/04 7:57am

RocknRollDave

madminx said:

RocknRollDave said:





Not after anything - just being honest!


..I'm not normally horrible to you am I?! innocent

You got me all worried now..Let's take a poll:

Is Dave normally a bit of a wanker or what?




actually.....let's, um, give that poll a miss, eh? boxed



yeah lets not put that to the vote smile

and actually you are not normally a wanker to me, we are both meanies to alive lol





...who is a Brummy, and therefore deserves it lol
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Reply #38 posted 12/02/04 7:58am

madminx

RocknRollDave said:

madminx said:




yeah lets not put that to the vote smile

and actually you are not normally a wanker to me, we are both meanies to alive lol





...who is a Brummy, and therefore deserves it lol



woot! i totally agree although since he told me he liked it when i got mean i prefer not to boxed
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Reply #39 posted 12/02/04 8:03am

RocknRollDave

madminx said:

RocknRollDave said:






...who is a Brummy, and therefore deserves it lol



woot! i totally agree although since he told me he liked it when i got mean i prefer not to boxed




omg I hope you aren't suggesting that we should actually be nice to him....are you....?!
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Reply #40 posted 12/02/04 8:04am

madminx

RocknRollDave said:

madminx said:




woot! i totally agree although since he told me he liked it when i got mean i prefer not to boxed




omg I hope you aren't suggesting that we should actually be nice to him....are you....?!


no aparently he likes that too

ignoring him may cause him some damage though thumbs up!
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Reply #41 posted 12/02/04 8:24am

RocknRollDave

madminx said:

RocknRollDave said:





omg I hope you aren't suggesting that we should actually be nice to him....are you....?!


no aparently he likes that too

ignoring him may cause him some damage though thumbs up!



Ignoring...who?!
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Reply #42 posted 12/02/04 8:28am

madminx

RocknRollDave said:

madminx said:



no aparently he likes that too

ignoring him may cause him some damage though thumbs up!



Ignoring...who?!



erm I'm sure theres someone we shouldn't pay any attention too but i just can't put my finger on it hmmm

never mind

i just realised we jacked my thread, it's far more fun now anyway woot!
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Reply #43 posted 12/02/04 8:30am

Heavenly

madminx said:

RocknRollDave said:




Ignoring...who?!



erm I'm sure theres someone we shouldn't pay any attention too but i just can't put my finger on it hmmm

never mind

i just realised we jacked my thread, it's far more fun now anyway woot!

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Reply #44 posted 12/02/04 8:38am

kisscamille

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ermmmm yes smile

I'll more than likely be back but today i don't feel too great about the fact i am sitting in a bath towel at 3:10pm letting my life slip by

i should be doing something


No offence to you, but yes you sure as hell should be doing something. Sitting in front of your pc all day chatting away to people you don't know or barely know is no way to live ones life. Tell me to stfu if you like, but you have to do something. If you don't have a job, get one and if you can't do that, take a course or do volunteer work. Nobody has to leave the Org, just don't spend every waking minute here. Go do something useful.
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Reply #45 posted 12/02/04 8:41am

RocknRollDave

madminx said:

RocknRollDave said:




Ignoring...who?!



erm I'm sure theres someone we shouldn't pay any attention too but i just can't put my finger on it hmmm

never mind

i just realised we jacked my thread, it's far more fun now anyway woot!



lol


That's more like it!
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Reply #46 posted 12/02/04 9:13am

hIsMiRRoR

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ella731 said:




well dotn delete your accounts,just step away from the computer, and go have a long weekend away, see how you feel then


hug


i guess confused

still on tuesday i know what I'll be doing again rolleyes it's an addiction

this is why i have NEVER smoked or done any kind of drug, i have got such an addictive personality mad


I don't know you too well, dear, but I'm always sad to hear someone announcing that they're leaving us. I know the Org is addictive but don't delete your accounts. Just make a point to go out and do something different one day. We'll be here when you get back. Fill your day with more productive things and come back at night to tell us all about it. Good therapy and a smoother transition, plus all the support in the world. Right guys? smile

But no matter what you do, don't say you have an "addictive personality". If you want, I could tell you stories for days about why hearing that term misused makes me so mad. "Addictive personality" isn't a real word, but when it is used it's taken to mean that other people get easily addicted to being around you, addicted to your personality (thus "addictive personality"). It doesn't mean your personality makes YOU get addicted to things any easier than other people. But congrats on not smoking or doing drugs, though! I'm not trying to yell at you, though. Seriously, I'll tell you a story some time and you'll understand everything... wink
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Reply #47 posted 12/02/04 10:08am

madminx

kisscamille said:

madminx said:

ermmmm yes smile

I'll more than likely be back but today i don't feel too great about the fact i am sitting in a bath towel at 3:10pm letting my life slip by

i should be doing something


No offence to you, but yes you sure as hell should be doing something. Sitting in front of your pc all day chatting away to people you don't know or barely know is no way to live ones life. Tell me to stfu if you like, but you have to do something. If you don't have a job, get one and if you can't do that, take a course or do volunteer work. Nobody has to leave the Org, just don't spend every waking minute here. Go do something useful.


FIRSTLY HEAVENLY NO NOT MAXED OUT ALL MY POSTS giggle saved a couple


and i don't really just post on the org, i do have a life of sorts, when my partner gets home i do not post, but i have had a very stressful time lately and can't seem to "pull myself together"

hate to make excuses for myself and i know i sound lame shrug

oh and most of the day i sit in front of my computer talking to the person who means most to me. mushy
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Reply #48 posted 12/02/04 10:16am

madminx

hIsMiRRoR said:

madminx said:



i guess confused

still on tuesday i know what I'll be doing again rolleyes it's an addiction

this is why i have NEVER smoked or done any kind of drug, i have got such an addictive personality mad


I don't know you too well, dear, but I'm always sad to hear someone announcing that they're leaving us. I know the Org is addictive but don't delete your accounts. Just make a point to go out and do something different one day. We'll be here when you get back. Fill your day with more productive things and come back at night to tell us all about it. Good therapy and a smoother transition, plus all the support in the world. Right guys? smile

But no matter what you do, don't say you have an "addictive personality". If you want, I could tell you stories for days about why hearing that term misused makes me so mad. "Addictive personality" isn't a real word, but when it is used it's taken to mean that other people get easily addicted to being around you, addicted to your personality (thus "addictive personality"). It doesn't mean your personality makes YOU get addicted to things any easier than other people. But congrats on not smoking or doing drugs, though! I'm not trying to yell at you, though. Seriously, I'll tell you a story some time and you'll understand everything... wink


your advice, like what my better half has been telling me makes perfect sense....

i know this, i know what i should be doing, I'm not an idiot (not saying you were implying i was) it's just hard to explain. Not sure i want to, but this isn't just about me being lazy and not wanting to do things

I have moved areas away from my family and friends and i'm finding it really hard to adjust, I don't know really where many places are and going from being popular with people just popping in, working and studying to not having any of that is just strange.

I finally realised today that i was using my computer as a crutch, a friend and family substitute, which is basically not good



i guessed you were not trying to yell, but really I get addicted to the most silly of things a mental health lecturer called me an obbessive sigh
I'm a creature of habbit :sulk:

anyway I'm gonna pull myself together and ermmmmm do something
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Reply #49 posted 12/02/04 10:31am

hIsMiRRoR

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madminx said:

hIsMiRRoR said:



I don't know you too well, dear, but I'm always sad to hear someone announcing that they're leaving us. I know the Org is addictive but don't delete your accounts. Just make a point to go out and do something different one day. We'll be here when you get back. Fill your day with more productive things and come back at night to tell us all about it. Good therapy and a smoother transition, plus all the support in the world. Right guys? smile

But no matter what you do, don't say you have an "addictive personality". If you want, I could tell you stories for days about why hearing that term misused makes me so mad. "Addictive personality" isn't a real word, but when it is used it's taken to mean that other people get easily addicted to being around you, addicted to your personality (thus "addictive personality"). It doesn't mean your personality makes YOU get addicted to things any easier than other people. But congrats on not smoking or doing drugs, though! I'm not trying to yell at you, though. Seriously, I'll tell you a story some time and you'll understand everything... wink


your advice, like what my better half has been telling me makes perfect sense....

i know this, i know what i should be doing, I'm not an idiot (not saying you were implying i was) it's just hard to explain. Not sure i want to, but this isn't just about me being lazy and not wanting to do things

I have moved areas away from my family and friends and i'm finding it really hard to adjust, I don't know really where many places are and going from being popular with people just popping in, working and studying to not having any of that is just strange.

I finally realised today that i was using my computer as a crutch, a friend and family substitute, which is basically not good



i guessed you were not trying to yell, but really I get addicted to the most silly of things a mental health lecturer called me an obbessive sigh
I'm a creature of habbit :sulk:

anyway I'm gonna pull myself together and ermmmmm do something


You sound a lot like a friend of mine. As I've told him many times, though he doesn't listen as well as you do apparently, lots of people have trouble adjusting to new situations, especially when they're far away from their family and friends and their situation is much different. But always know that there are people who are there for you no matter where you go. biggrin You gotta force yourself to do things sometimes. It sucks, but it's worth it. Go exploring for a day and find out where places are. Chances are you'll learn some things and meet some people on the way too. I find thinking of it like this is pretty effective: go out and do everything interesting and constructive that you possibly can, and keep in mind the whole time that when you get home there will be people waiting to hear all about it, so make it good! You wouldn't believe the stuff I get myself into just so I can tell a good story later, and ya know what, it makes for a pretty interesting life. lol

Explanation for my enormous concern: The friend I keep referring to, he acts that way and says those things because he has Histrionic Personality Disorder. He doesn't know that. He wouldn't believe me if I told him. He's too caught up in what he thinks reality is to listen to anyone else, which is part of his problem. He's also missing quite a few braincells from drug use way beyond excess. He'll often talk about why his life is awful because _____(insert today's excuse here). And he'll misuse words even when he knows better, like "alcohol is a depressant and I get so sad whenever I drink, but I can't stop drinking because of my addictive personality", "I have a very addictive personality and that's why I can't allow change in my life, not even to change one thing in my plan for the day because it'll make me depressed", etc. That's why I got a little freaked out when I saw your post.

Don't worry; I don't think you have a personality disorder. It's a natural human thing to get all out of whack when things change like that. Keep your chin up and be strong, and if you need support, well you've got hundreds of people waiting to hear about your day. I promise you that. smile I hope things get better for you. If you need someone to talk to, I'm always around somewhere. wink
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Reply #50 posted 12/02/04 10:49am

madminx

hIsMiRRoR said:

madminx said:



your advice, like what my better half has been telling me makes perfect sense....

i know this, i know what i should be doing, I'm not an idiot (not saying you were implying i was) it's just hard to explain. Not sure i want to, but this isn't just about me being lazy and not wanting to do things

I have moved areas away from my family and friends and i'm finding it really hard to adjust, I don't know really where many places are and going from being popular with people just popping in, working and studying to not having any of that is just strange.

I finally realised today that i was using my computer as a crutch, a friend and family substitute, which is basically not good



i guessed you were not trying to yell, but really I get addicted to the most silly of things a mental health lecturer called me an obbessive sigh
I'm a creature of habbit :sulk:

anyway I'm gonna pull myself together and ermmmmm do something


You sound a lot like a friend of mine. As I've told him many times, though he doesn't listen as well as you do apparently, lots of people have trouble adjusting to new situations, especially when they're far away from their family and friends and their situation is much different. But always know that there are people who are there for you no matter where you go. biggrin You gotta force yourself to do things sometimes. It sucks, but it's worth it. Go exploring for a day and find out where places are. Chances are you'll learn some things and meet some people on the way too. I find thinking of it like this is pretty effective: go out and do everything interesting and constructive that you possibly can, and keep in mind the whole time that when you get home there will be people waiting to hear all about it, so make it good! You wouldn't believe the stuff I get myself into just so I can tell a good story later, and ya know what, it makes for a pretty interesting life. lol

Explanation for my enormous concern: The friend I keep referring to, he acts that way and says those things because he has Histrionic Personality Disorder. He doesn't know that. He wouldn't believe me if I told him. He's too caught up in what he thinks reality is to listen to anyone else, which is part of his problem. He's also missing quite a few braincells from drug use way beyond excess. He'll often talk about why his life is awful because _____(insert today's excuse here). And he'll misuse words even when he knows better, like "alcohol is a depressant and I get so sad whenever I drink, but I can't stop drinking because of my addictive personality", "I have a very addictive personality and that's why I can't allow change in my life, not even to change one thing in my plan for the day because it'll make me depressed", etc. That's why I got a little freaked out when I saw your post.

Don't worry; I don't think you have a personality disorder. It's a natural human thing to get all out of whack when things change like that. Keep your chin up and be strong, and if you need support, well you've got hundreds of people waiting to hear about your day. I promise you that. smile I hope things get better for you. If you need someone to talk to, I'm always around somewhere. wink



hug woot! it's still letting me post hmmm

i know i haven't got anything wrong with me to be honest it's just been one of those days and i have been feeling sorry for myself

going to have a long weekend away and forget about everything woot!

thankyou sweetie
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Reply #51 posted 12/02/04 11:10am

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Lolly I just saw this thread so sorry for this late response redface


Do what's best for you sweetie hug

I will miss you sad
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Reply #52 posted 12/02/04 1:10pm

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Reply #53 posted 12/02/04 1:26pm

Christopher

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madminx said:

I am thinking of leaving the org sad

it's just i seem to spend too much time posting rubbish and frankly i should be trying to get my real life back on track

might just give it a couple of days and see how i feel but right now I think i would be best deleting my acccounts (all three of them) and focusing on what really matters.

Lollyp0p x



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j/k do whatcha have to do miss hug
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Reply #54 posted 12/02/04 3:15pm

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Don't leave!

I might actually have to do something!

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Reply #55 posted 12/02/04 4:02pm

Natisse

madminx said:

I am thinking of leaving the org sad

it's just i seem to spend too much time posting rubbish and frankly i should be trying to get my real life back on track

might just give it a couple of days and see how i feel but right now I think i would be best deleting my acccounts (all three of them) and focusing on what really matters.

Lollyp0p x


OMG I've just seen this hon...you didn't say anything to me sad PLEASE PLEASE let me know when you're home after your weekend away so I can call you sad

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Reply #56 posted 12/02/04 6:32pm

Jamzone333

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I don't know what i wanted to achieve by starting this thread but....

I can see now it looks like a cry for attention, redface thats not what i intended

sorry

boxed



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"A united state of mind will never be divided
The real definition of unity is 1
People can slam their door, disagree and fight it
But how U gonna love the Father but not love the Son?
United States of Division"
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Reply #57 posted 12/02/04 6:38pm

Natisse

madminx said:

I don't know what i wanted to achieve by starting this thread but....

I can see now it looks like a cry for attention, redface thats not what i intended

sorry

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no it doesn't, sweetie, don't worry hug just remember you're loved and you have lots of people (with me high on the list hug ) that love you and are there for you rose
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