A couple of weeks ago my boyfriend asks me if I knew how to make Banana Nut Bread. I say "I've never made it before but if I found a good recipe I could do it"

He says he would like to give some out to his clients for the holidays
I say "Thats nice"
I know he's implying he wants me to make some,but he never asked me
Wednesday night he came home with all the supplies to make it

So yesterday he says "The bread needs to be made today sweetheart "
Excuse me????

So I make the freakin bread last night
I was so tired so I ask him to help me cut the bread and wrap it up in the pretty saran wrap.
He says "No sweetie,I like the way u cut it" I've never made this crap b4 so how des he know how I make it???
I say "please"
He says nothing and he GOES TO BED!!!
I scream at him and tell him if he cant help me cut the freakin bread for HIS clients its not getting done.
He says "Whatever"
I throw the bread in the frig and I started to read a book

This morning he looks in the frig and says "You didnt finish cutting the bread!"
I reminded him of what I said. He goes on to say,I made it I should cut it.
I ask him why couldnt he help (cuz he's a lazy fukk,thats why)
Anyway,he starts screaming,I scream back
So I threw the bread in the trash

Now Im angry!terribly upset.
Because I worked hard and now its all in the trash and I was doing something nice for him and he could lift a finger to help. And Im upset because I'll probably end up making more bread later this week.

15 minutes later,he hugs me and says "I forgive you"
What a dick!!
I am now ignoring him


Oh God

Divorce is very common....dial 1-800-LAWYERS and get one.....

Oh thats right he is yer boyfriend....LOL.....tell him to have his shit moved by sundown or the Russian mafia will show him how things are sliced.....he will get the picture

ThreadCula said:

Exactly.

DICK!! WHERE!?!?!



you shoulda cut HIS ass.

One thing...you let him be

AndGodCreatedMe said:

True. As one incredibly overrated band once sang, "You do it to yourself, you do/And that's what really hurts".

Now Im angry!terribly upset.
Because I worked hard and now its all in the trash and I was doing something nice for him and he could lift a finger to help. And Im upset because I'll probably end up making more bread later this week.


i dont understand this at all

you were "doing something nice for him" ... and added expecataions to your deed

expecting him to help you... with your choice... in doing something nice for him ?

you're angry and upset ... very much so

and yet you will "end up making more for him later this week" ??



i dont understand

anyway

a for you cuz you are upset

You couldn't give me that recipe, could you?

Not to sound judgemental, but your boyfriend sounds like a chauvanist. First hinting around that you should make the bread, but not being polite enough to ask you outright if you could do it for him. You were sweet enough to make the bread for him when he brought all the ingredients to make it home with him, even though he still did not outwardly ask you, and you were tired that night. Your boyfriend wasn't even nice enough to help you cut up the bread to make it look nice, even when you nicely asked. He acted like a selfish brat and went to bed, instead of being nice enough to help you, which is what he should have done, since you were doing HIM a favor.

The line that really got to me was when your boyfriend told you that you made it you should cut it. What kind of shit is that???? You're right, he does sound lazy, and the way he reacted to this situation is terribly immature and selfish on his part! Kudos to you for refusing to cut the bread because he wouldn't help you with it, and for throwing it into the trash when your boyfriend got pissy about it again. I don't know how long you have been with this guy, but if I were you, I would have thrown the boyfriend out with the bread, he doesn't sound like he cares too much about you or your feelings. You have every right to be angry and upset, I would be too. And if your boyfriend wants you to make more bread and AGAIN refuses to help, I would tell him to, "Get your lazy ass to a bakery and get it YOUR DAMN SELF!" Also, your boyfriend hugging you and telling you he "forgives you" is just plain wrong too. It's like he's insinuating that YOU did something wrong, when you didn't. Your boyfriend should be apologizing to YOU for what HE did; he clearly knows deep down inside that he was in the wrong. Stories like this make me glad I'm not dating anyone. Too many asshole guys out there who pull this shit and expect the girlfriend/wife to smile and act like nothing is wrong. Not to sound overly opiniated, but reading stories like this pisses me off!!

I'm suprised he didnt ask you to go to the store and get the supplies too.

Maybe he wanted you to do it because he feels he would screw it up somehow. Some people are terrified of trying to cook or do anything in the kitchen, even the simplest things.

ThreadCula's Boyfriend,

Bastard!

Don't you let him treat you that way. And here this is for you.

Tom said:

Or maybe he wanted you to do it because he's a lazy, controlling bastard.

ThreadCula said:

good for you!

all the while I was reading your story I was sayin to myself
"trash the bread, throw it out!!"

and you did. aaaah sweetheart. don't let the dickhead

boss you around like that. if he can't even be bothered to do

a simple thing like cut a damn piece of bread he should give

his clients pens for holiday gifts and leave you alone

Ace said:

Co-sign. And a for you, ThreadCula. I was so busy sounding off on my previous post, that I forgot to hug you.

Hmmm, maybe you should go to the shop and buy all the ingredients of something you would like him to make you - and make him feel exactly the way you did.

It sounds like your in a prison ! Does he let you leave the house ?
Don't feel right to me. I hate relationships . I can't relate. {happily divorced}

psychodelicide said:

Thankyou
You are so right. It was very piggish of him and I cant believe he would act this way.He started his business in August and since then he's been all about work.
We've been together for 4 years & I know breaking up over banana nut bread sounds stupid but I really dont care.If I let him, he will do it again and forever be a jerk.
I've NEVER put up with bullshit and Im not about to start now.

Tom said:

No way would I go get the supplies

and no he wasnt afraid to screw it up,Ive never seen him in the kitchen doing anything

Atta girl, ThreadCula, that's the spirit!

CherryMoon said:

LMAO!!!!

sag10 said:

Thankyou

IstenSzek said:

LMAo Im so glad I did it now

Half of his clients are asses anyway,maybe thats where he's getting it from

ladymisskat said:

he would probably combust



Excellent!

FLUX said:

Oh no
Its not like,I would probably be in a real prison for murdering him if it was like that

He's been like this for the past week and because he's decided to be a pig he's losing a good woman.
He's not even thinking about what he's doing which is unlike him

You'd better NOT bake any more!!

ThreadCula said:

Wonder why he's acting this way all of a sudden? If you do break up with him and he apologizes over and over again and says that he won't do it again, don't take him back. Too many smart, beautiful women like yourself make this mistake.

Didn't I tell you already that I'm still available and will NEVER treat you this way?

MinneapolisFunk said:

Fuckin' A!