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Its only been a month and I'm going crazy.... I let my partner move in with me. I thought I would like it but I don't. I really hate it. After a five year relationship, I'm thinking of breaking up. I can't pick up after them, or wash another dish, or be kept up all night by the TV.
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What do you mean by "them"? Do you have more than one partner? | |
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althom said: What do you mean by "them"? Do you have more than one partner?
Sorry, just one partner, I meant one person. | |
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slm4m said: althom said: What do you mean by "them"? Do you have more than one partner?
Sorry, just one partner, I meant one person. Ok! Well.....there's a lot of give and take when you live with someone. I'm sure you knew the person well if you've been dating them for 5 years before hand, but you always learn new things when you move in whith someone. Maybe you should sit down with your partner and discuss, with them, what it is that's annoying you. It could be that they just didn't know they were doing anything wrong and this could be easily worked out. | |
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REMOVE THEM!!! | |
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Anxiety said: REMOVE THEM!!!
Reported! | |
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althom said: slm4m said: Sorry, just one partner, I meant one person. Ok! Well.....there's a lot of give and take when you live with someone. I'm sure you knew the person well if you've been dating them for 5 years before hand, but you always learn new things when you move in whith someone. Maybe you should sit down with your partner and discuss, with them, what it is that's annoying you. It could be that they just didn't know they were doing anything wrong and this could be easily worked out. I've been trying all ofthat, but it didn't last. I know about give and take. I have too ask my partner, for example, to "take out the trash" or "pick up your clothes" If I don't ask, it doesn't get done. | |
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althom said: Anxiety said: REMOVE THEM!!!
Reported! BANNED!!!! ya filthy slob! | |
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slm4m said: althom said: Ok! Well.....there's a lot of give and take when you live with someone. I'm sure you knew the person well if you've been dating them for 5 years before hand, but you always learn new things when you move in whith someone. Maybe you should sit down with your partner and discuss, with them, what it is that's annoying you. It could be that they just didn't know they were doing anything wrong and this could be easily worked out. I've been trying all ofthat, but it didn't last. I know about give and take. I have too ask my partner, for example, to "take out the trash" or "pick up your clothes" If I don't ask, it doesn't get done. Well....if you've already asked then he's just being a lazy slop then. I think you need to take some action and make him realise that his sorry arse is going to be leaving soon if he doesn't do things now. | |
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Anxiety said: althom said: Reported! BANNED!!!! ya filthy slob! Reported for being a neat freak! | |
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althom said: Anxiety said: BANNED!!!! ya filthy slob! Reported for being a neat freak! DOUBLE-BANNED!!!! for moving my cheese!!! CHEESE-MOVER!!! | |
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Anxiety said: althom said: Reported for being a neat freak! DOUBLE-BANNED!!!! for moving my cheese!!! CHEESE-MOVER!!! I'll cut the cheese for you then. | |
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althom said: slm4m said: I've been trying all ofthat, but it didn't last. I know about give and take. I have too ask my partner, for example, to "take out the trash" or "pick up your clothes" If I don't ask, it doesn't get done. Well....if you've already asked then he's just being a lazy slop then. I think you need to take some action and make him realise that his sorry arse is going to be leaving soon if he doesn't do things now. Thanks, I think I will talk to my partner later tonight. I have a feeling I will blow my relationship, I always seem to say the wrong thing. | |
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slm4m said: althom said: Well....if you've already asked then he's just being a lazy slop then. I think you need to take some action and make him realise that his sorry arse is going to be leaving soon if he doesn't do things now. Thanks, I think I will talk to my partner later tonight. I have a feeling I will blow my relationship, I always seem to say the wrong thing. Well.....it's not worth having the relationship if it's bugging you this much. | |
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althom said: slm4m said: Thanks, I think I will talk to my partner later tonight. I have a feeling I will blow my relationship, I always seem to say the wrong thing. Well.....it's not worth having the relationship if it's bugging you this much. Yeah, I understand, but I think its still worth discussing and trying to resolve the problem, | |
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