Domestic violence is about one thing, control. Not Just any kind of control, but mind control. There's a atribute 2 this crime, which is cause anxiety 2 the victim 4 whatever motive the predator has behind it. This is how it works. In most case when the victim is envovled in violence, the esteem is the first thing to go. Often times when the predator picks his victim he brings the victim down so low until all hope is lost and the victim is totally dependant upon the predator. The predator feels connected to the victim in some strange way, however.His only motive is destruction and he controls the victim by fear.
A lot of times the predator feels as if he can't get caught.Although he may have been in trouble in the past, he enjoys the suffering of his victim knowing that all the control in his hand. The truth is somewhere down the line in the predator life he lost control at one time in his life. He has a lot of insecurities himself, alot of issues unsolved and in desperate need of much therapy, however. In most cases the predator always make the victim feel as if their the crazy one's and put all their insecurites upon the victim instead of taking in action 4 themselves. In a lot of these situations.the predator knew his victim once or met somewhere once. The victim may have said something 2 embarrass the predator and the predator felt as if there was need 4 retalition.
Most of the time the predator is white/caulcasion of the male speicies. He wants to expose the victim, yet he hides behind the crimes he does to the victim.

I'll do some more research this is all i have 4 now

ElectricLover said:

That's often the key. A weak person usually tries to bring others down (at whatever cost) to make themselves look stronger.

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[Edited 11/23/04 14:18pm]

I wrote about my own personal acount...

http://www.prince.org/msg/100/114206

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I have been a victim of this crime called mind control, but instead of crying over my situation I got fed up and decided to do something about it. It's not so much about prosecuting my enemy, because I know the enemy gets the satisfaction,
but more of the fact that once I set my mind to do something I can do it and often at times I do. In other words I'm proving it to myself. not the person who wanted to abuse me, but to myself in knowing that I know how 2 come over my obstacles in life. I'm beginning to undersand it all perfectly now. It might've taken me a while, but I finally get it, See some people may have gone through my situation 4 years, in my case it's been a few several months and I know it's only a matter of time b4 the whole truth comes out.

ElectricLover said:

Thank God 4 Vision, Prophecy and Truth

ElectricLover said:

Thank God for your strength. Sounds like you found it

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

it's already over in my eyes