Or has this happened...

I work around many men...and the men I work with have friends. Well one of the friends of a co-worker has a housemate. That housemate has been pushing up to me for about 3 years...I kid you not. I never paid him any mind and besides I was very far up an undeserving man's ass for two of those years. Well anyway since the spring, I've really gotten to know the "admirer". Talk about cerebral! gentle! and incredibly interesting! So anyway since March I've been getting to know him, all the while saying to myself "he's not getting a bit of this" ha ha! So...more or less we started going out in September, October. And before you know it....that boy got them goodies!

At first I was shy about it because he works somewhat closely with a co worker who is a very close friend of mine. But now, I really like him so I'm starting to just not care. And this boy is so attentive (we women love that!) and we aren't even officially a couple...yet...or maybe not...you never know.

Fellas,have you been thru this? Ladies, has this happened to you? I really slept on this guy

KatSkrizzle said:

Nothing to worry about. Sounds like this guys really gets you, where it matters. Enough to start a thread. See it for what it is. This could be something.

Don't watch Sex In The City or any of that BS!!!!!

Go with your instincts, be spontaneous. There's the key to it all.

I think I'll follow your advice, Fauxie

Thanks!

KatSkrizzle said:

Best advise you can get !!

Go for it !!

well i dont kown if this counts or not, but my husband and i used to be bitter enemies... our biggest most "famous" flamewar (lol) was a eyar to the day before we got married. what a turn-around! aapje

If it feels good, go with it. Fuck all that shit people say you're supposed or not supposed to do. You'll miss out on a lot of stuff, some bad, but lots of good things too.

..and yes, some things need a bit more time. It's not always love at first sight.

JoweeCoco said:

or firstpost

KatSkrizzle said:

It's funny that you ask, because yes, I'm going through that right now. I too had my head up a man's ass for a few years. All the while, I had a friend who admired me. Well, long story short, I am now exclusive with this friend, and he waited ten years to be with me. I say, take a chance if he is interesting.

All the best KatSkrizzle. Orgnote me anytime.

Thanks folks! It sounds like it may be OK. I guess we as people have to be hit over the head to see some sense
Thanks again!

cuntroversial said:

Talk about a turn around!

i've made friends with people i started out disliking, but i've never ended up in a relationship with someone i started out not being at all attracted to. with that kinda thing, either i feel a click from the first moment, or i just don't. it took me a long time to realize it can work that way (and that it's okay that it does), and during that long time, nobody could "convince" me to go out with them unless i wanted to, nor could i "convince" anyone if they weren't into me.

ummmm no