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Father Christmas.....OMFG.....What the hell do I tell my... sat on the bus last night making my way home... all of a sudden it hit me you see my girls she's 7 years old now, maybe this is going to be the year she STOPS BELIEVING IN FATHER CHRISTMAS .... what the hell do you say ? I need to prepare for it because she's so flippin smart I am expecting it, she doesnt even want to write a letter to santa
Anyway....any bright ideas from peeps who have "been there" or can help ...would be appreciated. Am I worrying over nothing, I dont know how bigga deal this is going to be, but I need to prepare.. | |
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I would just continue on as usual and see if she says anything. I wouldn't change anything unless she brings it up first. Good luck THE ORGER OTHERWISE KNOWN AS APPLEKISSES | |
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CanvasBeauty said: I would just continue on as usual and see if she says anything. I wouldn't change anything unless she brings it up first. Good luck
Thankyou sweet one, I know what ur saying, kinda take it as it comes.just cant help thinking what a let down it is, ...hey!! maybe she will be cool about it,.like u say, I will wait and see. to you, | |
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Deny all accusations. | |
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Let her start the dialog.
(I was crushed when I found out.) | |
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I remember how I found out...
It was Christmas eve and I was so excited I couldn't sleep.. I heard footsteps coming up the stairs and thought.... 'Oh no.. it's Santa... I'm awake'... .. at which point the sound of jeans rubbing together entered my room, and plonked a big bag of presents down.... I though 'Santa doesn't wear jeans' and had a peek... Of course it was my dad! I don't s'pose this answered your question did it? | |
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For me it was about 5th grade when some kid said.."There is no Santa."
And I said.."There has to be..My Mom would never buy me all that stuff.." | |
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See, this is why parents need to be up front about this stuff from the get go. | |
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My oldest son was in third grade, when he asked me if the rumors about Santa Claus were true? I asked him what he thought, and he said that he thought me and dad were really buying all of the presents. I admitted it then, but made him promise not to tell his brother or sister. Now my middle son is in 4th grade, and still insists on believing. I really think though that he thinks it would hurt my feelings if he believed otherwise. Now my daughter who is in 2nd grade totally believes 100% in Santa Claus. I just figured that I would not bring it up until they do. If they think that me and dad are really buying the presents, then of course I will admit to it.
Now the Easter Bunny and the Tooth Fairy and two different things. I never let my kids believe in either of those things. I just thought it was ridiculous. | |
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OdysseyMiles said: See, this is why parents need to be up front about this stuff from the get go.
why lie to your kids at all? | |
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I remember how I found out there was no Santa
I wrote My Dear Santa letter and I gave it to my Dad. He said He was gonna mail out that day 3 weeks later he was going to the mall with my mom and he asked me to go get his jacket. I grabbed his jacket by the pocket and my Santa letter was inside. "Nobody makes me bleed my own blood...NOBODY!"
johnart says: "I'm THE shit" | |
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Aww,
One year when my GodDaughter was 6, I asked her what she wanted Santa to bring her for Christmas.. She said.... Now, Nini you know that Santa isn't real..! I pretended like I was devastated, she put her arms around me, and said "Nini, if you want us to pretend that he is real, then we will." So precious... ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect, it means you've decided to look beyond the imperfections... unknown | |
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I dunno, I think the gifts will mean more to her if she finds out they are coming from you rather than a complete stranger, who incidentally has been spying on her all year, which is really creepy. | |
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if you dont want to shatter the illusion yet just teller her that Santa has lots of helpers because he's so busy...thats who's dressed up in the Malls and thats who helps spread the presents.
But be warned -Id worked it out by 9 years old | |
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What's everyone talking about? Love it or shove it! | |
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MsSmartypants said: What's everyone talking about?
Lying to children . | |
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I usually post this here around the holidays...but, I think I'll post it a little early this year
Editorial Page, New York Sun, 1897 Editor: Francis Pharcellus Church We take pleasure in answering thus prominently the communication below, expressing at the same time our great gratification that its faithful author is numbered among the friends of The Sun: Dear Editor-I am 8 years old. Some of my little friends say there is no Santa Claus. Papa says, If you see it in The Sun, it's so.ยป Please tell me the truth, is there a Santa Claus? Virginia O'Hanlon Virginia, your little friends are wrong. They have been affected by the scepticism of a sceptical age. They do not believe except they see. They think that nothing can be which is not comprehensible by their little minds. All minds, Virginia, whether they be men's or children's, are little. In this great universe of ours, man is a mere insect, an ant, in his intellect as compared with the boundless world about him, as measured by the intelligence capable of grasping the whole of truth and knowledge. Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus. He exists as certainly as love and generosity and devotion exist, and you know that they abound and give to your life its highest beauty and joy. Alas! how dreary would be the world if there were no Santa Claus! It would be as dreary as if there were no Virginias. There would be no childlike faith then, no poetry, no romance to make tolerable this existence. We should have no enjoyment, except in sense and sight. The external light with which childhood fills the world would be extinguished. Not believe in Santa Claus! You might as well not believe in fairies. You might get your papa to have men to watch in all the chimneys on Christmas eve to catch Santa Claus, but even if you did not see Santa Claus coming down, what would that prove? Nobody sees Santa Claus, but that is no sign that there is no Santa Claus. The most real things in the world are those that neither children nor men can see. Did you ever see fairies dancing on the lawn? Of course not, but that's no proof that they are not there. Nobody can conceive or imagine all the wonders there are unseen and unseeable in the world. You tear apart the baby's rattle and see what makes the noise inside, but there is a veil covering the unseen world which not the strongest man, nor even the united strength of all the strongest men that ever lived could tear apart. Only faith, poetry, love romance, can push aside that curtain and view and picture the supernal beauty and glory beyond. Is it all real? Ah, Virginia, in all this world there is nothing else real and abiding. No Santa Claus! Thank God! he lives and lives forever. A thousand years from now, Virginia, nay 10 times 10,000 years from now, he will continue to make glad the heart of childhood. | |
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My friend was the 1st to find out at school, so she told everyone, ran around proud that she knew the truth thats kids for you
I think Im gonna tell her when she asks, that he did die, but all those she see'e in stores etc, are carrying on his good hard work...whadya think? | |
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fantasyislander said: OdysseyMiles said: See, this is why parents need to be up front about this stuff from the get go.
why lie to your kids at all? I don't know if it's lying to your children. There was a St Nicholas, there is a giving spirit personified by Santa Claus, and there is the fact that you don't want your kid to be "different" or be the kid that spoils it for others. "Always do sober what you said you'd do drunk. That will teach you to keep your mouth shut." Ernest Hemingway | |
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damnedifido said: My friend was the 1st to find out at school, so she told everyone, ran around proud that she knew the truth thats kids for you
I think Im gonna tell her when she asks, that he did die, but all those she see'e in stores etc, are carrying on his good hard work...whadya think? Sounds good you could also tell her that Father Christmas or St. Nick is the SPIRT (not a ghost that might scare her ) of Christmas...the fun and magic and giving spirt of the season and that FOR SURE exists | |
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applekisses said: damnedifido said: My friend was the 1st to find out at school, so she told everyone, ran around proud that she knew the truth thats kids for you
I think Im gonna tell her when she asks, that he did die, but all those she see'e in stores etc, are carrying on his good hard work...whadya think? Sounds good you could also tell her that Father Christmas or St. Nick is the SPIRT (not a ghost that might scare her ) of Christmas...the fun and magic and giving spirt of the season and that FOR SURE exists thats is sweet and so was ur post from the ancient newspaper, such old and wise wisdom, I think never , ever dies, love to u applekisses...I am waiting for the day I know it wont be long, and I do hope its next year, U c I get a huge cut out of a foot print and infill it with scent free talc and traipse it from the fire to her presents, she was so excited ,she nearly burst, It was fantastic, and when shedoesnt belive it means shes growing up, which is happening so fast its scary.. | |
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damnedifido said: applekisses said: Sounds good you could also tell her that Father Christmas or St. Nick is the SPIRT (not a ghost that might scare her ) of Christmas...the fun and magic and giving spirt of the season and that FOR SURE exists thats is sweet and so was ur post from the ancient newspaper, such old and wise wisdom, I think never , ever dies, love to u applekisses...I am waiting for the day I know it wont be long, and I do hope its next year, U c I get a huge cut out of a foot print and infill it with scent free talc and traipse it from the fire to her presents, she was so excited ,she nearly burst, It was fantastic, and when shedoesnt belive it means shes growing up, which is happening so fast its scary.. Awww... that's so cute to you too! I remember something similar happened to me when I was about your daughters age...the kids at school were saying there was no Santa...and I was starting to believe it wasn't true either...but, my dad...the sweet man he was...left a note for me on Christmas morning...from Santa...as "proof" that he did exist It gave me one more magical, childhood Christmas. | |
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It gave me one more magical, childhood Christmas. [/quote]
thats what its all about isnt it magical memories, thank you for understanding and hoping even though 'we' dont believe that u have a magical christmas.. | |
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JDINTERACTIVE said: Deny all accusations.
ha ha, I usually do,,,, | |
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Wish you were my mum... I know you are so good to your daughter, Im sure you'll do just fine when ever it arises, Im sure of it.
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damnedifido said: It gave me one more magical, childhood Christmas.
thats what its all about isnt it magical memories, thank you for understanding and hoping even though 'we' dont believe that u have a magical christmas..[/quote] Awww...thank you sweetheart You're an awesome mom! I'm sure we'll both have a magical Christmas! | |
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petski said: Wish you were my mum... I know you are so good to your daughter, Im sure you'll do just fine when ever it arises, Im sure of it.
xx awww thanxs P | |
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Awww...thank you sweetheart You're an awesome mom! I'm sure we'll both have a magical Christmas! [/quote]
Yes .....I think we will | |
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OdysseyMiles said: See, this is why parents need to be up front about this stuff from the get go.
i agree 100% and have always been with my children explained that we are all "Santa" ... ( the real Santa is satan !! ) we steer more towards "Yule" traditions more then that "Santa" shit anyway | |
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I technically found out when i was 7! I saw a "big W" price sticker on my fisher price bubble mower (which is alll i wanted) with $79.95...I remember pointing it out to my parents, and before they could say anything i said 'huh! Santa went shopping!!' I turned a blind eye to it...and then finally da boom came when i was 10...my cousin knew about my yellow BMX bike and dat gift tag said "Love, Santa XOXO" ...I was like
I was muuuuch more upset about da easter bunny though- i actually started cryin quite bad I think cause da easter bunny is cute n fluffy...made me all sentimental and emotional Let em find out for themselves!! No hablo espanol,no!
Pero hablo ingles..ssii muy muy bien... "Come into my world..." Missy Quote of da Month: "yeah, sure, that's cool...wait WHAT?! " | |
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