and the steps to do this so you can find that special place in one's mind witch equals tranquility.

2 different spectrums of emotion on opposite ends yet they are so close together. It's strange how close these emotions are when the actual feelings are so far away.

Why would a winter day in new york while having herpes, living with your parents being in your late twenties and having an unrealistic view of what you do and who you are be so close to tranquility?

Why would having a nickname that means something so pure yet not living that lifestyle while constantly criticizing others to avoid your own issues and not being able to admit your wrong be as close to tranquility?

If you have similar thoughts like the above mentioned and you consider yourself happy are you really happy or do you avoid and push away the negative deep within your inner soul thinking you are fine? If you do what's the outcome when you unleash your sad fury?

Do you avoid your weakness or do you challenge it and or face it? If you face it what's usually the end result?

If you avoid your weakness do you supress your feelings until you can't hold it and you unleash this same weakness at a time when you're not at the best of your thinking abilities? What usually is the outcome?

bungle, i love u and all like a brother...but i can't answer all those questions, so instead i'll post this picture --->

ArdeoTheMerciful said:

I think that could very well be the best response one could possible make unless you're including irresistibleb1tch. If thats the case then she gets it all the time. What would you except from a women who is running with Ralph Nader as the next Vice President

mrbungle said:

hey, i have an even better idea... how about a Ralph Nader/Cornel West ticket??? now THAT idea gets me excited!

(ok, or a Cornel West/I.B. ticket, if you insist... )

mrbungle said:

I am heatin up the BBQ tonight....freshly sacraficed goat head anyone???

mrbungle said:

Ok to seriously answer this and to not antagonize for the fun of it like I did above...sorry. I could not help myself.


Why would a winter day in new york while having herpes, living with your parents being in your late twenties and having an unrealistic view of what you do and who you are be so close to tranquility?

In this person's mind what they are and who they are makes them feel tranquiltiy inside. Yes they may be fooling themselves but in their mind they are who they are even if it is fake. Some people have the ability to trick themselves into thinking they are happy. When deep down inside they know they are not. Yet doing this and fooling themselves helpes them get through life easier, but yet alot of the time it makes it harder for other to deal with them. In all reality fooling yourself will only set you to fall on your face later, its just hard for them to see that. But when they fallout they will realize.



Why would having a nickname that means something so pure yet not living that lifestyle while constantly criticizing others to avoid your own issues and not being able to admit your wrong be as close to tranquility?


Nicknames represent people in alot of different ways. For example mine here at the org is because TMBGITW is my favorite Prince song. I don't by all means believe I am truly the most beautiful girl in the world, yet I am not a fucking butt ugly heffa either. Alot of the time people do not have a nickname that fits their lifestyle. Nicknames also represent what people would like to be. Nobody in this world lives a 100% pure lifestyle. Those people who constantly criticize others most likely do have some sort of issues. Everybody has issues in life, some people are not quite sure how to deal with them. So they avoid them by using other people as an excuse. People also have problems admiting they are wrong. There are those people in this world that are always right no matter what. They are just to stubborn sometimes to see, that maybe what they are saying or how they are seeing things is wrong. These type of people will always be around and we have to learn how to deal with them and accept them for who they are. Because believe it or not we have our own faults and quirks that other people do not like. They learn to deal with ours so we must learn to deal with theirs.



If you have similar thoughts like the above mentioned and you consider yourself happy are you really happy or do you avoid and push away the negative deep within your inner soul thinking you are fine? If you do what's the outcome when you unleash your sad fury?


I think everyone has done this atleast one time in their life. Its called denial. Something has caused us as humans to not want to deal with something because dealing with it, is either scary, hurtful or something that makes us feel uncomfortable. The person may be happy, but we all go through tough times and there are things that make us shut down and scare us. Eventually if it is suppressed long enough you will blow up inside and most likely the results will not be good. However, there are those people like me that it just takes longer to be able to deal with certain things. Sometimes I really have to sit down and sort out my feelings. No I am not perfect yes I have try to fool myself before, but it did not work. As long as you are able to eventually deal with things, in some constructive way you will be ok in the end and everything will work out. However there are those people that live in a constant state of denial about who they are and their world around them. This is not good, in the end they are just hurting themselves and others around them.



Do you avoid your weakness or do you challenge it and or face it? If you face it what's usually the end result?

Depends on the situation. If I am totally freaked out about something and I start to feel uncomfortable about it, I do shut down and have to ease into confronting it. When I do face it and try to improve the weakness I am successful. Some things I can confront right away, and somethings take time. Past experiences can also be a great factor in this....no matter how hard we try they are never forgetable and they will creep up and bite us in the ass when we least expect them to or want them to. Its part of life.


If you avoid your weakness do you supress your feelings until you can't hold it and you unleash this same weakness at a time when you're not at the best of your thinking abilities? What usually is the outcome?


This happens to everyone. I always find it better to fix or confront what you can at the present time. If you need to leave something and come back to it when you have clear thoughts and can express yourself fully and clearly that is always good. However that is not always possible and in the heat of the moment, something can set a person off and it is all over from there. Not only do the suppressed feelings come out but the weakness does to. Its not good, but it happens to everyone in life. Without it life would not be life and we would not be human.

life sucks

mrbungle said:

good question, what is the outcome?

Ohhhh I get who this is about! Duh.....im slow sometimes....