Is it real?

maybe!

CCII said:

It is very real I met my first 5 wives on the interweb, all the marrages were a great success while they lasted.

Do you feel guilty if you have someone at home then you're attracted to someone online? How could that be? Do you feel guilty?

I never feel guilty..

REDFEATHERS said:

Red, you're simply dangerous to men. You'd hurt a man's feelings.

CCII said:

I would not!

Ok, I have broken a few hearts and made some men cry, but they all deserved it.. Really!

it is real, and yes you do feel guilty when you have someone at home


and in my opinion yes it is cheating let that be a warning to you

I never cheat

lollyp0p said:

yep.

HollowellSA said:

Where should the line be drawn?

CCII said:

if you love someone you know where to draw the line, you know whats right and wrong and I wouldn't do anything i wouldn't feel happy with my partner doing too,

flirting on the boards fair enough but flirting in PM's yahoo and msn is different it is more personal and can develope further, and you don't want to be doing that behind your lovers back,

in other words only do what you would do if your partner could see you

lollyp0p said:

wow lolly all these serious answers coming from you lately j/k

ella731 said:

are you shocked, i was thinking that when i posted it actually



I'll go back to the silly idiot posts now

lollyp0p said:

I would even go a step further by not flirting at all even on the boards because it can be taken the wrong way. And yes it can go further...you have to ask yourself this....how would you feel if your mate was doing this and said it was all innocent? Something innocent can always take a turn and if you are flirting in the first place then there is already a problem. Now I can't sit here and say I am some innocent person and never cheated. I've never physically cheated but to me I did something worse and commited emotional adultery. To me flirting is flirting if you don't want your mate,spouse or what ever doing it then don't flirt yourself. BUT this is my oppinion and I can only judge myself. Because no one truly know what another is going through.

HollowellSA said:

ever we are really to serious today wanna go and get drunk

lollyp0p said:

REDFEATHERS said:

yes, It is real. the feeling guilty part is up to the individual. Some do, some don't.
Cheating is not about the physical, it's about the mind, and about where your heart is.

lollyp0p said:

Word. Hey, lolly - how 'bout you and me start an advice column?

I especially love this part:


Exactly.

REDFEATHERS said:

FRIDAY

Ace said:

I'll do the emotional part you can do the s&m section ok???

lollyp0p said:

already started

lollyp0p said:

Actually, if you'll examine my Org oeuvre in more depth, you'll see I'm about so much more than that. I mean, Madonna's work has numerous BDSM references (including a book and an album that were almost exclusively devoted to the subject), but is she pigeonholed as the "S&M" woman? I don't think so. But, fine - ignore the rest of my work; I don't mind.

Ace said:

better than being pigeon holed as the dull and boring one

HollowellSA said:

your a woman after my own heart

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CCII said:

be careful whatcha axe C... yup...it's the Great Pumpkin Charlie Brown

Generally,any romantic emotional attachment to another person besides your partner is cheating.

Heavenly said:

Beautiful answer!