Maybe if ur mother (main attachment figure as a young infant) went into hospital 4 a while or maybe she just was not very caring and loving towards u? Maybe U were not given enough attention etc.....?

U reckon there is some truth in this? That separations, deprivation,even if not Mums fault, can lead to harmful and unsocial behaviour as an adult? (eg:- find it hard to be in a realtionships etc.....)


Hey, I know I was deprived thanx to generally my Mum just maybe not making the effort maybe she shoulda done (unlike my older first born sister!)


Any thoughts on ur infant experiences? Any link between bad infant experiences (i.e not a caring mother/caregiver) and later emotiona maladjustment? Any comments?

Yes.

Cloudbuster said:

Cloudbuster said:

Absolutely. My parents are both incredibly intelligent, loving individuals so I'm sure the opposite also rings true.

thesexofit said:

our mother is our 1st experience in "relationship"

so yes, it would/can lead to our adult lives, and does

its very important ... but there are also so many other factors in it

yes. this is true. quite a bit has been written about it, actually

Maybe.

give my daughter another 10 years and i'll let you know...