I just got in from walking the dog.
While she was taking a poop, this old ass guy stops and says "Hey baby,How u doin?"
I ignore him,because I knew if I would have said hello,it would lead to a bunch of time wasting bull. I would probably still be out there trying to get him to leave me alone.
Anyway,He repeats himself but louder... I give him a dirty look. So he says "That dog looks almost as good as u."
Right...I was your "baby" 3 seconds ago. So he actually got mad because I didnt speak to him. Poor baby WAH WAH
First of all,If he would have addressed me in a proper manner instead of "baby" I would have been pleasant. Secondly,I dont have to speak to anybody if I dont want to,I have a man so I dont need to impress strangers.
Why do people do this? Why dont they think before approaching people?...I witnessed the same incident last week while waiting for the train. This woman was being very forward with this guy and he told her several times he was married. She kept telling him he was fine and sexy and that they should get together. And she got angry when he didnt accept her number.

Anyone else experience this? Or were u the pushy aggressive person who wouldnt take no for an answer?

Why didn't you just speak to him?

I agree completely, baby...


Actually, I had something a little similar happen to me...once while getting gas, this woman was walking back to her SUV (another woman was standing next to the gas pump as if waiting to pump some gas into it)...she approached me and asked if I had some spare change cuz she needed to get some gas to get home...I gave her whatever little change I had (I didn't believe her, for some reason..some part of me just said "Yeah, sure, right"), and she thanked me and went into the gast station ahead of me...

By the time I got in there (she jogged in, I walked leisurely) she was standing behind a few guys to buy gas, and I felt a little guilty....so I reached in and pulled out a $5 bill...handed it to her, and said "Here...I'm sure you'll need more than a few cents worth of gas."..She took the money and just stared at me n shock...thanked me and then approached the cashier, and then bought $1 dollar worth of gas, saying "We can use the rest of this money for food"...Now if you saw her, you would have said "Yeah, right sure" in response again..lol...I felt a little irritated (the entire amount should have gone for gas, but oh well), and as I started paying for my gas, she turns to me and said "Are you married?"....I said "No, divorced"...she said "Do you want my number?"...I laughed and said no, thanks...the cashier's trying not to laugh, too...she's persistent, though, and said "Here, let me give you my number, you can call me anytime honey"...I once again said no, thanks, wasn't necessary...she says "Do you have a pen?"...Now I'm getting irritated, and said "I didn't give you the money for any reason than to help out..don't worry about it"...She says "I'll give you my number, maybe we can hook up, just as friends if you want"...

She asks the cashier for a pen, at which time I start to leave almost shaking my head at her persistence...she follows me outside, saying again "Let me give you my number"...I stopped and very sternly said "I really did only give you the money to help you out...I don't want anything in return for doing so"...she says one last time "It's ok, let me give you my number, maybe we can hook up"...I said no thanks then turned and walked away, just ignoring her after that...

Women..sheesh...

Yo, shorty, can I holler at you fo' a second?

the beautiful people have it so tough

Byron said:

I hate it too when women pester you for a date. So annoying.....

3mta3 said:

doctormcmeekle said:

This wasn't a woman pestering me for a date...this was a woman with a few Cokes shy of a 6-pack.

Byron said:

Beggars can't be choosers.





ps, you don't have her number do you?

Byron said:

Revolution said:

He wasnt out just for a hello...trust me...He had his pimp swagger going on...licking his lips,business card (or whatever) in hand to give out...I didnt have time for that

Byron said:

doctormcmeekle said:

NWF said:

LOL
I always answer that with..."For what?"

3mta3 said:

Fine...

ThreadCula said:

Just kidding.

But I'm pretty sure you've been a victim of that a number of times. I don't know why dudes think they're gonna get chicks attention with those kind of calls.

see, this is exactly why I'm terrified to approach any woman, the attitude.....

mind you, i have more tact than either of those examples.....

Byron said:

Since we're on the topic of "stupid people". I'm sitting in the computer lab right now...and this girl is havin' a full fledge conversation(once on speaker phone)...LOUDLY. It's bad enough I have to hear "Sunshine" played loudly through her phone as her ringtone...but to hear the loud and ghetto ass convo to go along with it. How stupid is it to use speaker phone on your cell in a public computer lab? inconsiderate idiots

typo
[Edited 10/11/04 16:30pm]

jerseykrs said:

If u approach her with a simple "Hi my name is [insert your name here] u shouldnt have a problem, instead of...."Hey shawty lemme hit dat!"

NWF said:

Its ok...
yes I have been a victim of this too many times,but it could be worse. At least no one's trying to stuff me in a sewer

doctormcmeekle said:

MrJoker said:

nice emoticon.

I can't believe it!! Another f'n idiot havin' a phone convo. in the computer lab. Please make it stop.

AnckSuNamun said:

Yeah i getcha!! I fink i posted up here da time dat this strange man kept beggin me on da train to go out with him..when i eventually just ignored him...and i got off da train..he started crying "why!?!? WHYYYY?!?!' ... Poor idiot

ThreadCula said:

and then he would've kept on and on if you said you had a man or not interested. its really a time waster. and you just feel like awe man-here we go. and you just wish they would go away:-x have i experienced this -yes and it gets on my nerves especially when your in a hurry or your trying to do something.

I feel that all women should give up the booty for men who are persistantly annoying.