Iam 18 and I know people my age who have sex with 14 yr olds, now when I was 16 i did it with a 15 yr old (my first) but 4 me, at 18 yrs old.....16 would be my limit!


Were u simular to this? I know it maybe tempting, and girls do lie their asses off in clubs, but u gotta be carefull about underage sex.....Iam talking 13/14 yr olds.....anyone "Acidently" done it with a girl 13 or 14 and they were 18/19? Heck I did with a 15 yr old the other day (iam 18 years old so don't shoot me yet!!!). i did ask her and she lied about it....I do feel bad though.....anyone else had experiences like this?

I was a good pretty little girl until I was 19

do you think it wise to admit to a criminal act here?

REDFEATHERS said:

19 months?

TheFrog said:

19 years!!!!

I'm 19. I've fooled around (but not actually had sex with, so maybe it's not so bad) a 15 year old boy and a 16 year old girl. Not at the same time, mind you -but that could've been interesting.

TheFrog said:

It's rape. In the eyes of the law.

doctormcmeekle said:

that's what concerns me.

Hey, I know this is a serious subject, but where i live (on a naff estate in UK.....) this shit goes on all the time.....I know guys (who r 18) who would not mind if she was 13 yrs old! They say "who gives a shit?"

TheFrog said:

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thesexofit said:

uhm...the police give a shit.

thesexofit said:

I believe the law is there to protect those under the age of 16 from paedophiles/predators.

Like fuck they do? They leave our area alone.....only if girl confesses but that ain't gonna happen as girls want it! They would see no point to confess...unless blackmailed of course!


Heck i swear i did not know when I was 18 and she was 15.....she was well developed lets say and i asked her a dozen times.....

thesexofit said:

i'm beginning to see why the law is there. "girls want it" eh.

Gulp, i'm digging my own grave here I know but I' surprised knowone dares to confess.....should I bother asking y sex is 16 years old illegal? Maybe lower the sex law to 14.....but only if guy is around same age of course!!! Please understand that!!!.....Oh shit I'm gonna be in trouble now!

thesexofit said:

no, there's no problem with debating whether the law should be changed, though i happen to believe that to lower the age of consent to 14 would be outrageous and totally wrong. you're not digging your own grave, though - you're entitled to your opinion. It's cool to debate stuff like that.

but the law is the law is the law right now, and statutory rape is statutory rape.

TheFrog said:

Co-sign, be carefull mate. Stick to 16 likw you say and you will be fine.... and like a big brother - remember to take the right precautions!!

I was 19 yrs old but I've learned my lesson long since.

Girls want it at 13? Adults don't even know what they want let alone a 13 year old CHILD! And where the hell are the parents? ok I'm done now

thesexofit said:

a pregnancy kinda confesses the fact someone had sex with her.....

there are health things for the girl that make early intercourse risky aside from STD's and pregnancy, early intercourse raises the risk of cervical cancer and if your willing to risk breaking the law and having sex with a minor i can't believe you would be responsible enough to use precautions agains't STD's or birth control.


there must be a lot of fucked up little girls around your area if there are guys willing to sleep with them at 13-14, it's sad

Which area do you come from? I come from the UK too, and even in my area (which is pretty good), girls still lose it at 13/14.





Exactly But some might feel pressured if their friends say they've done it...and of course, there's 13 year old's and younger girls who mix with a lot of older kids now, especially boys.

sawah said:

I know I have a 13 year old son and I worry about him mixing with the older kids and getting pressured to do things he's not ready for

HollowellSA said:

I'm always afraid of having children because of the fact they might get mixed up in some things like that. But the thing is, you can't wrap them up in cotton wool, and whether they've been brought up right or not by their parents, kids make their own decisions.

I had to make choices when I was a bit younger too, but I think I made the right ones, even though at times I was pressured to do things.

sawah said:

True. And my sons know that they can come to me or their father. I've tried to stay close with them without taking away their independence. I've been blessed with 4 wonderful and caring boys. I just hope they are smarter then their mother

The best way to do it!

What a messed up world this is.

I swear girls r getting more 'developed' earlier all the time, if u know what I mean! or is it just that wonderbra's r better then ever?

thesexofit said:

Come near my 14 year old daughter and you're a dead man.

It's not like that, just saying they lie is all! Plus "some" like the attension and maturity of it all!

jackflash said:

I don't even have kids but this is my immediate thought for this future date-rapist.