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Printabledating is difficult when you can't get your mind off someone else. it will be almost impossible to really get to know the person you are on the date with if you only give it half a chance. i don't think that is fair to you or your date. my suggestion is to spend some time alone...get to know yourself to figure out what you are looking for in a partner. just don't stay alone TO long then it will be very difficult to get back in the 'game'. do what feels right...if you have reservations about dating then you're probably not ready.
good luck. i've been there. 
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JDINTERACTIVE said: MarySharon said:    Is there any place of refuge one can flee from this insanity | |
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i'd just say that DOING is almost always better than THINKING. you might not be ready for anything long-term yet, but just be clear with people about that and the dating will eventually help to get you somewhere where you might be ready for something long-term. All those who believe in telekinetics, raise my hand...
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lillith said: dating is difficult when you can't get your mind off someone else. it will be almost impossible to really get to know the person you are on the date with if you only give it half a chance. i don't think that is fair to you or your date. my suggestion is to spend some time alone...get to know yourself to figure out what you are looking for in a partner. just don't stay alone TO long then it will be very difficult to get back in the 'game'. do what feels right...if you have reservations about dating then you're probably not ready.
good luck. i've been there.
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J0eyC0c0 said: lillith said: dating is difficult when you can't get your mind off someone else. it will be almost impossible to really get to know the person you are on the date with if you only give it half a chance. i don't think that is fair to you or your date. my suggestion is to spend some time alone...get to know yourself to figure out what you are looking for in a partner. just don't stay alone TO long then it will be very difficult to get back in the 'game'. do what feels right...if you have reservations about dating then you're probably not ready.
good luck. i've been there.
Best advice on this thread. You're such a wise woman. Now marry me damnit!  Some of you orgers are so deceptive.....using my styles like a contraceptive.... | |
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Not being able to be with the one I love or am in love with hurts, but it doesn't break my heart. Sometimes I wish she'd break my heart so I can move on. Take lilith's advice and don't settle for anything less than what's perfect in your opinion. | |
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nakedpianoplayer said: does it really help to go out and date ?? or is it best to nurse your broken heart till you are completely over it ??
I can only say what applies to me, and I always am stupid enough to try and get over it by dating but I know that for me it never works. So now it's solitude until I get over it. If I get over it  | |
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nakedpianoplayer said: ok.. so, you are thinking of someone else, but dating someone completely different....
is that fair ?? i mean, to both sides.. the unknown guy, he gets the goods and emotions that the other guy should have .... the first guy, he loses all the stuff he worked to achieve  though, i guess if the guy wanted all that he "worked" for, he'd be here gettin it huh ???
man, why are matters of the heart so complicated ??? matters of the heart arnt ...its the mind that complicates ... | |
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thanks guys.... all of you  you give great advice !!!
doesnt it seem like theres a lot of broken hearted orgers ???  we are all great people, and deserve someone nice - whats wrong with this picture ??  One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
love is a gift 
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nakedpianoplayer said: thanks guys.... all of you
you give great advice !!!
doesnt it seem like theres a lot of broken hearted orgers ??? we are all great people, and deserve someone nice - whats wrong with this picture ?? No we're not. | |
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J0eyC0c0 said: nakedpianoplayer said: thanks guys.... all of you
you give great advice !!!
doesnt it seem like theres a lot of broken hearted orgers ??? we are all great people, and deserve someone nice - whats wrong with this picture ?? No we're not. the folks i talk to here are all very nice  lots of great dating material to be found in this group of people..One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
love is a gift
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nakedpianoplayer said: J0eyC0c0 said: No we're not. the folks i talk to here are all very nice lots of great dating material to be found in this group of people..You thought the same about the bookstore. | |
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J0eyC0c0 said: nakedpianoplayer said: the folks i talk to here are all very nice lots of great dating material to be found in this group of people..You thought the same about the bookstore. you never forget anything do you ??  One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
love is a gift
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nakedpianoplayer said: J0eyC0c0 said: You thought the same about the bookstore. you never forget anything do you ?? I know, it's like a curse. | |
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J0eyC0c0 said: nakedpianoplayer said: you never forget anything do you ?? I know, it's like a curse.  One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
love is a gift
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nakedpianoplayer said: J0eyC0c0 said: I know, it's like a curse. I mean the memory thing in general.  | |
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J0eyC0c0 said: nakedpianoplayer said: I mean the memory thing in general. well, use it to your advantage.... theres gotta be something you can do with it besides using it against me
j/k One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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