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so, if you are in love with someone you cant have for whatever reason... does it really help to go out and date ?? or is it best to nurse your broken heart till you are completely over it ?? One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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? I'm feelin kind of n-a-s-t-y
I might just take you home with me | |
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It can take a long time to get over.....so therefore, i say, keep going out on dates. It'll take your mind off it, and give you a chance to meet someone you may fall in love with who will love you back. | |
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nakedpianoplayer said: does it really help to go out and date ?? or is it best to nurse your broken heart till you are completely over it ??
hell yes it helps I think, its called rebound baby rebound | |
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ella731 said: nakedpianoplayer said: does it really help to go out and date ?? or is it best to nurse your broken heart till you are completely over it ??
hell yes it helps I think, its called rebound baby rebound well thats not good.. then it would never last One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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I thonk you should do whatever you FEEL like doing - if you're up for a date, then go for it. If you just want to be with friends and have fun - do that. But if you need to mourn a lost love, allow yourself time for that too. Love will come again... sometimes when you least expect it!
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nakedpianoplayer said: ella731 said: hell yes it helps I think, its called rebound baby rebound well thats not good.. then it would never last no it wouldnt last but hell you should be having a litle fun while you are trying to get over your ex | |
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luv4u said: its ok honey..... One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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I just don't want to think about anything like that. It's too painful. | |
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JDINTERACTIVE said: I just don't want to think about anything like that. It's too painful.
im sorry honey One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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Moderator | One date won't help much, but a whole bunch of dates sure will!
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Sweeny79 said: One date won't help much, but a whole bunch of dates sure will!
thats what I said | |
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Abbie said: It can take a long time to get over.....so therefore, i say, keep going out on dates. It'll take your mind off it, and give you a chance to meet someone you may fall in love with who will love you back.
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ok.. so, you are thinking of someone else, but dating someone completely different....
is that fair ?? i mean, to both sides.. the unknown guy, he gets the goods and emotions that the other guy should have .... the first guy, he loses all the stuff he worked to achieve though, i guess if the guy wanted all that he "worked" for, he'd be here gettin it huh ??? man, why are matters of the heart so complicated ??? One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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Sweeny79 said: One date won't help much, but a whole bunch of dates sure will!
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nakedpianoplayer said: ok.. so, you are thinking of someone else, but dating someone completely different....
is that fair ?? i mean, to both sides.. the unknown guy, he gets the goods and emotions that the other guy should have .... the first guy, he loses all the stuff he worked to achieve though, i guess if the guy wanted all that he "worked" for, he'd be here gettin it huh ??? man, why are matters of the heart so complicated ??? you have to do what makes you happy. life is too short to sweat the small stuff. | |
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HollowellSA said: nakedpianoplayer said: ok.. so, you are thinking of someone else, but dating someone completely different....
is that fair ?? i mean, to both sides.. the unknown guy, he gets the goods and emotions that the other guy should have .... the first guy, he loses all the stuff he worked to achieve though, i guess if the guy wanted all that he "worked" for, he'd be here gettin it huh ??? man, why are matters of the heart so complicated ??? you have to do what makes you happy. life is too short to sweat the small stuff. so true girl One of the best days of my life... http://prince.org/msg/100/291111
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nakedpianoplayer said: does it really help to go out and date ?? or is it best to nurse your broken heart till you are completely over it ??
go out and date hon...without sounding tragic that's the story of my life always wanting the guy I can't have - it hurts like hell especially when you see them or hear of them with someone else but you DO move on and it does get easier there's someone out there for YOU and who deserves to be in love with YOU until that time comes, tho, don't settle for second best because you deserve the VERY best | |
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Is there any place of refuge one can flee from this insanity | |
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I hate this subject. I'm dealing with it right now Get out and date my sweet. Don't waste your time. I'm trying not too 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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nakedpianoplayer said: does it really help to go out and date ?? or is it best to nurse your broken heart till you are completely over it ??
I don't know. I still haven't tried dating and it's been like a year and a half since she became unavailable for good. Still got a broken heart, still want her, still love and in love with her. | |
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I'd start with the most difficult, harshest reality: that's life. That's the politics, baby. If u start from that basis then coping becomes easier.
I would let the reality sink in, but not too long. Just long enough to where you no longer feel that you have avoided it. Then get on with finding the other options available to you. It hurts even while you're seeing other people, I am sure, but you will cope and you will adjust. If you are blessed, and I believe you are, then you will stumble upon that good person who is good for you and good to you. Good night, sweet Prince | 7 June 1958 - 21 April 2016
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i so understand this predicament, and wish i had an answer. id give it to myself vi | |
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Just stay home, watch porn, drink beer and masturbate.
By the way, you can insert the above as an answer to almost any problem. Good luck! When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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Dating other people while you're nurisng your broken heart takes away the sting for a while, but you cant usually get serious about someone if you still carry a torch for someone else. I did this before...and it can be VERY painful. | |
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it just feels empty... although a good chat does wonders. | |
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there are really only two options that you've got.
1) you can stay home and focus all your spare attention on something that is not going to be. 2) you can meet other people and enjoy their company. either decision will not change what is into what can never be so you need to do what's best for you. sometimes what is best feels wierd but anything new always feels a little wierd at first. | |
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I'm tellin ya!
--> When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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