in this build where i am ....


on my floor there are 2 couples one across the hall and one down the hall.. and in both of those rooms at night i here these men beat the shit out of there women... then in the morning they look at me and say hey whats up man....as if i was one of there homey's...

i curse them with every plauge i can amagine.

It happens everywhere and it is always the men you least expect.

domestic violance is one of the most demeaning and soul destroying things that can happen within a relationship and can kill every feeling there ever was

lollyp0p said:

AMEN!

There's a special place in hell for those kind of bastards.

Bring marshmallows!

subhuman09 said:

believe me I'll be there

lollyp0p said:

i mean with the marshmallows i really don't fancy a stay in hell

lollyp0p said:

"Welcome to hell, here is your musical entertainment package for the evening:

Yanni

John Tesh

Celine Dion

Enjoy your stay."


Remember though-hell is for children, according to Pat Benatar.

What's up her ass?


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FECKING FINGERS FROM HELL! edits
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one of the few things that makes me really, really angry.

irresistibleb1tch said:

irresistibleb1tch said:

yanno...why are you just listening.....

you are participating...by not doing anything....

It's a pretty dickless act in my opinion. Don't even get me started on people that beat children....

I mean, I don't advocate domestic violence at all, but I mean children have no idea, at least grown adults know what's going on (not that that makes it better, but you know what I mean)

That's horrible

But there really isn't much you can do if the women aren't going to defend themselves


Smooches;)

"i can't stand punk ass guys who hit there women..."

...or punk ass women who hit there guys

CynthiasSocks said:

C0-sign on that one..abuse is abuse. It doesn't discriminate. Physical,verbal or mental..Adults or children it's ALL WRONG

MsMisha319 said:

it's easy to say that there isn't alot you can do if the women won't defend them selves but it's not as easy as that.

A lot of domestic violance involves not just the slaps, punchs and kicks but the mental attacks which can make the women feel they not only can't get out of the relationship but that they actually deserve to be treated the way they are.

it is usually alot of help from outside, or when a family member member or friends find out that the woman will realise she is not to blame and even then it can be a long and difficult way back to confidence and the ability to leave and as such "defend" themselves

lollyp0p said:

Agreed and until you wake up so to speak you have no idea it's even happening to you. So unless a person knows what it's like to deal with that people should never say "why don't they just leave?" or "if that was me I would just walk out" It's not that easy...btw .....good morning sweetie

Women who take this kind of abuse make me so angry...
grrrrr!

sag10 said:

why are you angry with them.....sometimes it takes a lot to leave difficult situations.....

Rhondab said:

True. Never underestimate the power of fear.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

This is true!

I guess you never know ones story!

sag10 said:

right

I got out of a domestic violence relationship.

There is help out there and if you don't have money, no matter if you are a man or a woman experiencing abuse - you don't have to accept it. Take the power and control back. Speak up and get help. Always go to a shelter, they have a lot of supports to help you to get help and your own place to live.

luv4u said:

Much respect to you.

It's actually, really true. Sometimes EVERYBODY says something that makes sense, no matter how crazy they seem. I never knew.

could you put up the number to a domestic abuse hotline in the lobby or laundry room? might make one or the other think twice...

ElectricPurple said:

nothing but weak, cowardly bastards

to all the women (and indeed anyone out there who are physically harmed) there IS ALWAYS help out there...there's always somewhere to go and you NEVER EVER have to go through it alone

In the U.S. call ~ National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY)

In the U.K. call ~ Freephone 24 Hour National Domestic Violence Helpline on 0808 2000 247

sag10 said:

Thanks

Rhondab said:

You sound like you've been bitched slapped before.

CCII said:

CC I'm surprised at you!!!

I agree with Rhonda...sometimes it's extremely difficult to get out of these situations - you don't know unless you've been there