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can you love someone too much? i mean....feel so intense that you actually step back and think..."damn am i seeming a little much?"
would that person you love tell you if you are too much? or do you have to wait till you are dumped before you realise your behaviour How, i'm gonna make that booty boom...step back, give a girl some room....OH | |
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I hope you can love someone soooo much being next to them or making love to them is just not close enough...I guess someday I'll find out, but if you feel like that now, thats awesome!
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If that person doesn't feel the same way, yes...it can be very self destructive to cling to emotions when it's clear it will never happen
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PurpleThunder said: I hope you can love someone soooo much being next to them or making love to them is just not close enough...I guess someday I'll find out, but if you feel like that now, thats awesome!
How ya been hun?? thats a nice way of putting it i'm good honey. you? How, i'm gonna make that booty boom...step back, give a girl some room....OH | |
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2the9s said: and theres me thinking you were gonna say "is this thread about me" How, i'm gonna make that booty boom...step back, give a girl some room....OH | |
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msserendipity said: 2the9s said: and theres me thinking you were gonna say "is this thread about me" It took me like 5 minutes to decide between the two! | |
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I dont know sammy! [Edited 9/1/04 16:53pm] | |
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Yes and it's fucked up when you realize it. | |
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I dont think you can but you can obsess about a person too much. When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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i think you can love someone too much and the only time it is truly harmful if you start compromising your morals or being someone you are not.
be true to yourself first and everything else will fall in place. you're only as old as you feel..............so how old do i feel
Now that food has replaced sex in my life, I can't even get into my own pants. | |
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bkw said: I dont think you can but you can obsess about a person too much.
I know you're obsessed with me Brett | |
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Lleena said: bkw said: I dont think you can but you can obsess about a person too much.
I know you're obsessed with me Brett Especially when you're in that poncho When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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bkw said: Lleena said: I know you're obsessed with me Brett Especially when you're in that poncho I'll wrap you up in it. | |
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Lleena said: bkw said: Especially when you're in that poncho I'll wrap you up in it. <-----purring like a pussy cat! When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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bkw said: Lleena said: I'll wrap you up in it. <-----purring like a pussy cat! | |
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Ex-Moderator | I don't think you can love someone too much. You can behave badly (towards yourself or the object of your affection) and use love as an excuse, but love too much? nah. |
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CarrieMpls said: I don't think you can love someone too much. You can behave badly (towards yourself or the object of your affection) and use love as an excuse, but love too much? nah.
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I don't think you can love someone too much rather you can show that you love someone too much. If you invest too much in someone, the disproportion is such that neither really feels like a centered person in the relationship. One loves the other at the expense of themselves. Therefore you become hollow, reliant on being loved by the other, with a diminished capacity for self-love. Therefore, showing that you love someone and giving and recieving gifts of love from that person becomes somewhat unwholesome. | |
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How, i'm gonna make that booty boom...step back, give a girl some room....OH | |
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Sometimes you just don't realize too late that you're bordering on being a co-dependent freak that seems to think they can't survive without whoever it is you're with.
It's not a bad thing to keep in mind though-if you obsess too much over someone it's never healthy, cause you lose your own sense of self, what you bring to the situation-can't be the same without your own element being what it is. You can't love somebody by osmosis. Hopefully they'd tell you, but I doubt it'd happen that often. Probably find out too late. It all depends on the restraining order though, you know? | |
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J0eyC0c0 said: Yes and it's fucked up when you realize it.
agreed! I'm feelin kind of n-a-s-t-y
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JDINTERACTIVE said: I don't think you can love someone too much rather you can show that you love someone too much. If you invest too much in someone, the disproportion is such that neither really feels like a centered person in the relationship. One loves the other at the expense of themselves. Therefore you become hollow, reliant on being loved by the other, with a diminished capacity for self-love. Therefore, showing that you love someone and giving and recieving gifts of love from that person becomes somewhat unwholesome.
U do know I love U don't U | |
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BabyGirl said: J0eyC0c0 said: Yes and it's fucked up when you realize it.
agreed! | |
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It can be scary when ppl love too much, but I dont think it really is love... | |
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Yes, you can. I loved my first seriuos boyfriend too much and he hurt me too badly. Now my hubby is th one who loves more in this relationship, I still don't know if it's good or bad as I can so easily hurt him Time flies like an arrow
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i also think if you go into a relationship with barriers as a defence to save yourself from hurt..you can miss so much.
sometimes the risk is worth it. How, i'm gonna make that booty boom...step back, give a girl some room....OH | |
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yep I think so. And I'm done with it. It's not worth the emotional stress. | |
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Yes, in short. Unfortunately. | |
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Whateva said: JDINTERACTIVE said: I don't think you can love someone too much rather you can show that you love someone too much. If you invest too much in someone, the disproportion is such that neither really feels like a centered person in the relationship. One loves the other at the expense of themselves. Therefore you become hollow, reliant on being loved by the other, with a diminished capacity for self-love. Therefore, showing that you love someone and giving and recieving gifts of love from that person becomes somewhat unwholesome.
U do know I love U don't U Erm, do you?! | |
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