Generally they like them a lot younger because they can control them and mold them into the kind of person they want them to be. That's not love and IMO it's fucked up.
On the other hand I can understand them too. It's not always easy dealing with someone who has went through a few bad relationships and is projecting the issues they have with the other sex onto you, but if you truly love the person you love them for all they are. If not, then you're just looking for a toy, a lap dog...a servant if you want. I'd always pick a strong minded woman over the "whatever you like" kind. Ironically most of those people are looking for someone to manipulate because they're tired of dealing with strong minded people who have been manipulated and "ruined" by others and now know better. I say "ruined" because that is the way they see it. | |
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jbchavez said: It's never perverted to have sex with an 18 year old
Wait 'til your 18 year old daughter brings her 45 year old bf over for dinner. | |
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CCII said: lollyp0p said: I don't think it's right
My husband is only 8 years older than me, i met him when i was 16 and he was 24 and i resent the fact that i was a child and was easily lead... i think older people can unintentionally use there experience to mould a nice young play thing into what they want, young and eager to please partners don't realise until it's too late and they have been well and truely screwed in every way possible I thought i was old enough at 16 to handle a relationship but now looking back it wasn't the best thing for me. and i blame him cause he should have been old enough to know better. so knowing what i know i would not even consider may i use the word "abuse" ok maybe to strong a word but i can't think of another. ohhhh serious again You're right about this. And this is threading on shaky grounds. I don't agree with a 16 year and 24 year old being together. [This message was edited Sun Aug 29 7:44:50 2004 by CCII] Really??? Well, what about a 19 year old with a 42 year old???? | |
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REDFEATHERS said: CCII said: You're right about this. And this is threading on shaky grounds. I don't agree with a 16 year and 24 year old being together. [This message was edited Sun Aug 29 7:44:50 2004 by CCII] Really??? Well, what about a 19 year old with a 42 year old???? I'd have to think about that | |
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CCII said: REDFEATHERS said: Really??? Well, what about a 19 year old with a 42 year old???? I'd have to think about that Have you thunk yet? | |
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Well it really depends on the guys motive. Cause if he is just manipulating her for sex it isn't right until she has reached full mental maturity in the aspect of knowing how evil they can be and how used she can be by their lies.. If she is in fact mature in the knowings of the world or the guy has truly good intentions then as long as she is over 18 I guess it is ok. But it isn't if manipulation is involved. BTW I have to ask.. WTF does a older guy being even 30 want with someone he can't even take into a club or bar?? Seems almost nasty to me.. lol
I had it happen to me and the guy completely manipulated me. Had me so fooled cause I was not aware yet the real extent of men.. I was like 16 He was like 25 I think?? it was right before I got with who is now my X-husband. [Edited 8/29/04 17:57pm] Life is not measured by how many breathes we take, But how many we take away. | |
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REDFEATHERS said: CCII said: I'd have to think about that Have you thunk yet? Seems like a motive behind that. Doesn't seem right though. Like I said, she'd have to be rich and so would he. She would have to be a brick house too. And they just so happen to love to Funk. Prince did it with Mayte. [Edited 8/29/04 18:51pm] | |
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CCII said: REDFEATHERS said: Have you thunk yet? Seems like a motive behind that. Doesn't seem righ though. Like I said, she'd have to be rich and so woudl he. And they just so happen to love to Funk. Prince did it with Mayte. It wasnt right, actually. He was a sick twisted old man pervert and he fucked me up I am sooo happy I slammed his hand in the car door and he had to go to hospital | |
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REDFEATHERS said: CCII said: Seems like a motive behind that. Doesn't seem righ though. Like I said, she'd have to be rich and so woudl he. And they just so happen to love to Funk. Prince did it with Mayte. It wasnt right, actually. He was a sick twisted old man pervert and he fucked me up I am sooo happy I slammed his hand in the car door and he had to go to hospital | |
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I don't give a flying fuck U led me on thinking u was moses. Hurtin sheep blinded through a fantasy | |
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J0eyC0c0 said: jbchavez said: It's never perverted to have sex with an 18 year old
Wait 'til your 18 year old daughter brings her 45 year old bf over for dinner. Then the question would become Is it wrong to kill the 45-year old man who wants to date your 18 year old daughter? | |
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lollyp0p said: I don't think it's right
My husband is only 8 years older than me, i met him when i was 16 and he was 24 and i resent the fact that i was a child and was easily lead... i think older people can unintentionally use there experience to mould a nice young play thing into what they want, young and eager to please partners don't realise until it's too late and they have been well and truely screwed in every way possible I thought i was old enough at 16 to handle a relationship but now looking back it wasn't the best thing for me. and i blame him cause he should have been old enough to know better. so knowing what i know i would not even consider may i use the word "abuse" ok maybe to strong a word but i can't think of another. ohhhh serious again In fact, well said. VOTE....EARLY | |
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luv4u said: I agree. This is the stupidest thread i've ever read. Umm, isn't this "Prince.org"? Age is no more than a number when it comes to love - Prince & Mayte Ladies ya sounding like a bunch of grumpy old crabs | |
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LarrytheGOD said: luv4u said: I agree. This is the stupidest thread i've ever read. Umm, isn't this "Prince.org"? Age is no more than a number when it comes to love - Prince & Mayte Ladies ya sounding like a bunch of grumpy old crabs ohhh i get it this os "prince.org" That means i have to agree with everything prince does and says..... Hmmm I feel like going all christina " so what am i not supposed to have an opinion" | |
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lollyp0p said: LarrytheGOD said: I agree. This is the stupidest thread i've ever read. Umm, isn't this "Prince.org"? Age is no more than a number when it comes to love - Prince & Mayte Ladies ya sounding like a bunch of grumpy old crabs ohhh i get it this os "prince.org" That means i have to agree with everything prince does and says..... Hmmm I feel like going all christina " so what am i not supposed to have an opinion" Ok lets have an opinion then.. the song asks the riddle in the form of a question, have you got an answer? ok then, I read your profile says, "If u not got anything nice to say just shut up" LOL | |
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LarrytheGOD said: lollyp0p said: ohhh i get it this os "prince.org" That means i have to agree with everything prince does and says..... Hmmm I feel like going all christina " so what am i not supposed to have an opinion" Ok lets have an opinion then.. the song asks the riddle in the form of a question, have you got an answer? ok then, I read your profile says, "If u not got anything nice to say just shut up" LOL | |
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theVelvetRoper said: lollyp0p said: I don't think it's right
My husband is only 8 years older than me, i met him when i was 16 and he was 24 and i resent the fact that i was a child and was easily lead... i think older people can unintentionally use there experience to mould a nice young play thing into what they want, young and eager to please partners don't realise until it's too late and they have been well and truely screwed in every way possible I thought i was old enough at 16 to handle a relationship but now looking back it wasn't the best thing for me. and i blame him cause he should have been old enough to know better. so knowing what i know i would not even consider may i use the word "abuse" ok maybe to strong a word but i can't think of another. ohhhh serious again Similar situation here. Lately I've been feeling that way about my boyfriend. I met him when I was almost 17, and he was 26. Obviously it felt like love at the time , so you wanted it too. It shows love holds no boundries . You must've been watching too much Oprah or something to think this is sick. To me it's perfectly natural and NOT perverted , like some want you to believe. | |
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