I just thought after being hurt earlier this year, I could go out and have some fun without strings and just date.

I mean WTF????

Yes Red dear..I realise this....I do happen to know you have attracted some very nice folks in RL....Do I need to name names...

Hope to meet you some day in person...




It's not about what ya wear..or how ya do your hair....It's all about who ya are inside.

Personally I love stockings, thigh highs to be specific, and the rest is all candy RED.... maybe I'm boring?

I've been feelin' the same way lately though....

Things seem to movin' along nicely then BAM! ... it wears me down..... gonna smile through the pain though.... that's just me...

Me: No, cos I was just getting my confidence back you know after J***s and that. So I thought best just date a few men and not fall in love or be serious and just be treated out now and again and have some fun until someone who IS right will come along.

The things you have said today, even though you might think you are helping. I am devastated.

Him: You need to work on yourself first. As long as you don't do that you will continue to attract *and* pick the wrong men.

Me: Maybe if I completely change my personality and the way I look and become boring old plain jane, i will meet my boring man.

have no zest for life, no laughs, no nothing - just an easy life, cos mr average has me now, so I should be happy cos I am in a relationship


Dayum, I really think I should put myself up on ebay and be done with

Am I horrible for telling you the truth in order to help you? You're holding on to a certain lifestyle which you can't afford (anymore) because of your insecurities. If my crime is telling you the truth and what it is you need to think about and try to change because I CARE instead of telling you what you want to hear, then yes, I'm guilty.

You have a horrible lack of self-criticism which is showing once again. Once again someone else did you wrong and made you feel like shit. YOU never do anything wrong. That's unreal. I'm not the one who mistreated you, I'm not the one making the wrong decisions for you either, so tell me, what did I do wrong?

Don't paraphrase what I said cause it's not doing it justice. This is the last thing I will say about it here, cause this belongs in PM/orgnote/email.

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[This message was edited Tue Aug 17 8:03:21 2004 by REDFEATHERS]

REDFEATHERS said:

i love my dior handbag

and i believe that i have the right kind of man.

maybe you are just surrounded by silly people.

I can't discuss this anymore.


Mods, please lock this thread.

REDFEATHERS said:

Don't be silly, Red, I'm sure there's ALOT of things that you do right. We love you just the way you are. Don't be so hard on yourself.

REDFEATHERS said:

someone's been mean.

REDFEATHERS said:

Good idea;

ELIGIBLE BACHELORETTE SEEKS;

THE MOST BEAUTIFUL BOY IN THE WORLD

To spend the holidayz with.

All interested should send video and/or pictures to;

Redshoebox
Attenttion "That pretty fine lady"

I am sure that once you find your confidence again, you will be able not to be confused about what OTHER people think about you.

I know many of us build a self picture of themselves based on what others think, but the trick is too take it all in, pick out what you need or like and let the rest be what it is; someone else's opinion of you.

Sure, sometimes it matters what others think and sure, one cannot help but be affected what our beloved ones think of us, but still you need to stand firmly in your gorgeous red nine inch heels to put it all aside and BE WHAT YOU ARE.

In your case; an amazing woman that deserves to be loved, first of all by herself.

I luv you hunny.

In all due respect, this seems to be getting a titch personal - I'm gonna honor Red's wish and lock this sucker up.