So what's the accepted no. of partners 4

1. Women One

2. Men minus one

3. Freaks I am one

J0eyC0c0 said:

What?

nesseone said:

So you wouldn't tell your partner if you had murdered someone if it was a few years ago?


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Slave2daGroove said:

Me too...and "Chasing Amy"

TheOrgerFormerlyKnownAs said:

That's interesting Would you lie or simply not answer? I'd drop somebody that refused to answer the question, it would just bug me out...

PoorLittleBastard said:

Hmmmm why would your mama know how may people she slept with if ya took her home - it would not be your mama's biz - so it shouldn't matter - if ya want a freak have a freak - cause if ya don't your just gonna sleep around on the good girl anyway - so find a freak that can act like a lady in front of mama.
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PoorLittleBastard said:

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That is SO LAME!!

Sweeny79 said:

Nothin'...I don't wanna come across as a manwhore.

J0eyC0c0 said:

This is like George Bush Jr saying; I don't wanna come across as dumb....

gooeythehamster said:

CalhounSq said:

Well, I guess I would hope it would never come up but if it did, I guess I would lie.

If I'm fortunate and if I decide to date a man again, he would be someone who would not care how many came before him.

TheOrgerFormerlyKnownAs said:

Wow, that's dumb. Guys might be "that way", but so can women. I'm sorry, but I don't live my life to impress some hypothetical future partner who will demand some kind of moral resume declaring my unspoiled freakin' gender, and I don't think anyone else should either, male OR female. Jeesh. I'm so glad my baby's a perv.

Anxiety said:

Do me a pleasure and please do not apologize for being the wisest, smartest person to post on this thread!

Your view is the one without prejudice, straight forward and true. Serious; you RULE!

Anxiety said:

DAMN RIGHT. what is all this stuff about sex - if we're all adults and we're all safe and sensible, then it's just some real good fun. I wouldn't expect my partner to be bothered about how many chocolate bars i've eaten so what's the big deal about how many sexual partners I've had?

If i've slept around cos I'm some mysoginistic commitment-phobe then i'm sure that would show up in some of my other behaviour and you'd know to leave me alone. But if i've just been waiting for the right person (ie you) to come along for a meaningful relationship then what's wrong with enjoying myself in the meantime. were you expecting me to be celibate?

don't get me wrong sex in a real relationship is just the best thing, but when that isn't available 'single' sex is a pretty decent consolation!

gooeythehamster said:

Aw shucks - thank yuh, cutiepie.

I just can't believe we're all grown-ass adults in the 21st century and people are acting like it's frikkin COURTING TIME on "Little House on the Prairie" and shit. Promiscuity exists. It's always existed. It's just in the past generation or two that people are finally starting to feel A LITTLE BIT comfortable talking about it. We're human beings. Human beings like to screw. It's just how it is. Some of us have certain initiatives or conditioning that lead us to more restrictive behavior; others of us don't have those restrictions. It is what it is. I think as long as folks aren't spreading diseases around or hurting other people's feelings, everyone should do whatever's clever. I *will* say this, though - I'm finding more and more, especially in the present climate, that delayed gratification and a bit of sexual discipline can be HUGE turn-ons in their own ways...but maybe that's just where I am in life right now.

Anxiety's dead on.
And I'll just add to say I'm 29, I'm still single, I'm not much for relationships and I've been sexually active since I was 17. You do the math. Anyone who can't deal with it is probably has such different ideas about sex than my own that we wouldn't be compatible anyway.

PS If you don't wanna know, don't ask.

CarrieMpls said:

Carrie + JD =



Class dismissed.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

awwww...

CarrieMpls said:

i felt like that for the past couple of years - i just wanted to goof around for a while and have fun. ain't nothing wrong with that. heck, made a couple of good friends along the way and i think i got a lot out of my system. every person is wired differently. some people look at their sexuality like a delicate flower made out of cake icing; others look at their sexuality as a cast iron swing set with a lubricated curly-slide.

Anxiety said:

I am DELICATE I tell you!!!!!



But seriously, any ideas where I can order one of those playsets?

jesus, if 43 and 27 are too much... i am sooooo screwed

cborgman said:

hell, i didn't think to break my grand total into two different numbers.

CarrieMpls said:

fingerhut

Anxiety said:

my grand total exceeds the culmination of those two numbers. i am kinda to the point where i have to give a ball park estimate.

i had some really fun years with expiremental str8 boys during junior high and high school...

cborgman said:

YOU TOO?! everyone got to play with the straight boys in high school except for me.

Anxiety said:

oh honey, i did my time on "expiremental str8 boy" drive. so much so, that when i die, i should be made the patron saint of horny drunk straight boys. "suffer the hotties unto me"

PoorLittleBastard said:

... so why wouldn't persistent "invading" make you just as much of a sleaze, according to this theory?

Heiress said:

I'm sayin' Men are a TRIP!