Even being me, seems wrong...

REDFEATHERS said:

dont be silly you seem to be a great person, which means you are doig something right

Hey Feathers dont be so hard on yourself honey , we all have days like that

Always remember you ARE FABULOUS

Well I have just been told, cos I like Dior handbags, makes me attract the wrong type of man

Quote: Hangbag, shoes, stockings, jewelry, places you go, people you make eye contact with...everything

REDFEATHERS said:

It's true though.

J0eyC0c0 said:

GRRRRR!!!!

Check your email LOL

REDFEATHERS said:

What horse crap is that

Feathers you deserve all the best

REDFEATHERS said:

Be strong and turn your weaknessess into strength.

You are strong enough to tell them to fuck the hell off, aren't you?

But if I always attract the wrong type of man, how can I attract the RIGHT kind of man, and know it too?

REDFEATHERS said:

You do attract some that are good, however you don't pay them any attention because they're not very outgoing and you think they're boring. They're most likely not the kind that will just walk up to you on the street or in a bar. It takes them some time. You want excitement, but the kind of excitement you get is quite destructive.

J0eyC0c0 said:

Wise words.

Self knowledge is the way that leads to wisdom
To know thyself is to know where to make changes.

Be patient.
Be reflective.
Be cool.
Be A Baracus.

J0eyC0c0 said:

So you are calling yourself boring huh?

j/k

I dont want excitement, I just want someone to love me for who I am.

No matter what I do or say, or whichever handbag or shoes I wear.

I mean come on, I am in the fashion business, I gotta dress up to date

So because or that, my love life will be doomed?

I just wanna be unhappy.

REDFEATHERS said:

Who ever told you that?

Are you in the insecure phase of your life? How many appreciation threads does a girl need?



Be strong, woman!

I just wanna be me and not change, but people just to accept me as a person, as me.

gooeythehamster said:

Just been chatting to a dear friend who pointed these things out to me, which has got ma wondering about my whole self image, not as on the Org, I mean as in RL. I was ok before, now it got me thinking, could he be right?

REDFEATHERS said:

I am boring to people I'm not compatible with.

ok, I am trying to understand this, because you wear designer shoes and purses ect. You attract the wrong type of man? How does that have anything to do with each other

red people are assholes, they just try to bring themselves up by putting others down
[This message was edited Tue Aug 17 7:01:41 2004 by ella731]

Red u a supastar,
A legend.
U cool.
Have faith.
It dont matter what people think.
beleive in yaself.
Your the good shit!
xxx

REDFEATHERS said:

I don't think he said that was the only reason why you haven't been in any good relationships lately. You can attract all the good men in the world, but if you keep picking the bad ones out the bunch it's still not doing you any good.

As I said before, if you keep ending up with the wrong men more often than not, you have to realize you're part of the problem.

ella731 said:

How is this putting her down? There's a distinct difference between what he said and the way she's interpreting it and the conclusions she drew.

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[This message was edited Tue Aug 17 7:37:19 2004 by shausler]

J0eyC0c0 said:

Thats what I said. I must be the problem. But how do I know, and how can I correct that?

I mean I hid myself away for a long time, then when I came out I wanted to just have fun. The men I put my trust in abuse that, the others, well just dont seem interested.

J0eyC0c0 said:

He wasnt putting me down, just my shoes and handbags

But still, I mean, fuck!!!

This is freaking me the fuck out!!!

Ya know I luv's ya Red..

Read over some of those cards I sent ya again...

Truely special to me..

shine & brite 's from me to you..

pippet said:

Yes I know, and I love you too But the point of this thread is, not how I am on the Org, its about the people I attract in RL...