APOO said:

nah, been with my guy 17 yrs, met him when i was 13, we have an amazing relationship, when i look around at others i see were very lucky, but dont get me wrong, last year for the first time we hit a really bad patch, but we are over it , and NO! no one else was involved, we dont relly argue and hve a mutual respect for each other, and an amazing daughter that we made 2gether,

but hey dont get me wrong,,,phew i have been tempted, oh yes , but would never would i commit the ultimate act of betrayal. thats where peeps go wrong, if thier relationship aint rite or they wanna sleep around and they do, u cant go back and have the same relationship,i dont belive u can anyway, so if your relationship makes u wanna sleeparound, u might as well get out of it rather than cause hurt,i would.

my best friend slept with her boss, he tunred out to be a right bastard ,i said omfg did u not realise the grass wasnt greener on the other side she said, no...lmfao, now her hubby is leaving and taking her for half shes gutted.

nah not in real life,

only at the ORG PROM

purpletiger said:

mutual respet 2 u sweetie

APOO said:

APOO are you feelin guilty???

No

Never have, never will

Not a chance.

No. Seven years and counting.

Yep, happened once. I have to say that only after going through that shit together I can honestly say that it will never ever happen again. Before that I thought I'd never do it, because I loved her yadda yadda yadda, but until you have experienced the pain from either side you don't know shit. And also only after being the one who cheated on a loved one and experiencing how painful that is for both, you know how important it is to forgive the person who cheated on you.

Everyone fucks up and love is no guarantee that it won't happen. So never ever say that stupid shit "if you truly loved me you wouldn't have done that". It's far more complicated like that. However there is a point where you have to draw the line or accept that this is just the way your loved one is. It's up to everyone to figure this out for themselves.

I see how y'all are. That's cool....

BabyGirl said:

86 hits and only two who admit. Hilarious.

Nope , faithful ole lap dog here

Never, when in a relationship.

I am single NOW though, hehehe.

@ Sunny.

J0eyC0c0 said:

actually i was just agreeing with you ....but sadly i have....only because i got hurt and it was the only way i knew to deal with it

*Pats the doggie*

Don't drewl...

Once, one boyfriend. I'm a very loyal, loving, and faithful person, but it happened it the midst of a lot of problems. I feel bad about it, but it was a while ago and it really helped me see my true feelings, so I don't regret it.

BabyGirl said:

Ah, well maybe I looked into my crystal ball and saw you'd admit it in a future post.

nope

gooeythehamster said:

Wags his tail

SunnyFunnyFace said:

Awwww.
I am taking him home!

BabyGirl said:

physically cheated..... no mentally and emotionaly yes...which I think is worse Sex you can always say... I did it but it ment nothing... when you cheat emotionaly that's harder for both people to get over..but that's just me

Not with my current partner of 6 years but I was a bit of a bad boy before that.

HollowellSA said:

well said

I've done both

I have not physically nor mentally cheated on my hubby. I respect and love him to much to do any of it..

indytracy said:

Your husband is a very lucky man to have a gem like you!

HollowellSA said:

Fuck that, fantasy is fantasy, unless you're in love, but I'd rather have my woman fantasize about someone else every now and then than actually jumpin' on some other dude's dick.

edit: typo
[This message was edited Sun Aug 15 15:44:42 2004 by J0eyC0c0]

theVelvetRoper said:

I understand exactly what you mean

I almost did once, and I still regret even coming that close.