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Reply #30 posted 08/13/04 3:11pm

Case

Sweeny79 said:

I posted this on the other thread I think it answers both qustions.

Honestly, the answer to both this question and the question about men being "easy" here is one in the same, and I can speak from experience here.


For the most part, people who come to the org and post lots everyday (this includes me) are missing something in their lives, they are lonely, or they feel misunderstood by those around them, at the org we all relate to each other on at least one level and it's easy to make connections with others when basically everyone posting here is in the same boat as you.

Another thing that may not be that pretty to think about but is very much the truth is, many of us are in unsatisfying relationships and the org is an easy way to cheat and not feel bad about it, hell your never gonna actually meet the person you are having phone/cyber sex with right? So it's not really doing any damage to your loved one is it? You can still kiss your husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend at night and feel secure in the fact that you have not slept with anyone else and when they finally fall asleep after the 11 o'clock news you can hop on yahoo and tell your hopes and dreams to someone else....things you could never tell your mate...but hell it's only the org right?


This idea, that it's only the org, leads us to do and say things we never would do in a real life situation. We tell our secrets to strangers, we "make love" to those we will never see, because we are empty and we need someone to love and we need someone to love us.


I'm sorry if this offends anyone. It's just my twocents


True, true words. You said the dirty truth that few people can own up to.
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Reply #31 posted 08/13/04 3:21pm

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Case said:

Sweeny79 said:

I posted this on the other thread I think it answers both qustions.

Honestly, the answer to both this question and the question about men being "easy" here is one in the same, and I can speak from experience here.


For the most part, people who come to the org and post lots everyday (this includes me) are missing something in their lives, they are lonely, or they feel misunderstood by those around them, at the org we all relate to each other on at least one level and it's easy to make connections with others when basically everyone posting here is in the same boat as you.

Another thing that may not be that pretty to think about but is very much the truth is, many of us are in unsatisfying relationships and the org is an easy way to cheat and not feel bad about it, hell your never gonna actually meet the person you are having phone/cyber sex with right? So it's not really doing any damage to your loved one is it? You can still kiss your husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend at night and feel secure in the fact that you have not slept with anyone else and when they finally fall asleep after the 11 o'clock news you can hop on yahoo and tell your hopes and dreams to someone else....things you could never tell your mate...but hell it's only the org right?


This idea, that it's only the org, leads us to do and say things we never would do in a real life situation. We tell our secrets to strangers, we "make love" to those we will never see, because we are empty and we need someone to love and we need someone to love us.


I'm sorry if this offends anyone. It's just my twocents


True, true words. You said the dirty truth that few people can own up to.


Thanks sweets! I'm not gonna hide from the truth others shouldn't either. hug rose
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Reply #32 posted 08/13/04 3:27pm

axestream

Sweeny79 said:

I posted this on the other thread I think it answers both qustions.

Honestly, the answer to both this question and the question about men being "easy" here is one in the same, and I can speak from experience here.


For the most part, people who come to the org and post lots everyday (this includes me) are missing something in their lives, they are lonely, or they feel misunderstood by those around them, at the org we all relate to each other on at least one level and it's easy to make connections with others when basically everyone posting here is in the same boat as you.

Another thing that may not be that pretty to think about but is very much the truth is, many of us are in unsatisfying relationships and the org is an easy way to cheat and not feel bad about it, hell your never gonna actually meet the person you are having phone/cyber sex with right? So it's not really doing any damage to your loved one is it? You can still kiss your husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend at night and feel secure in the fact that you have not slept with anyone else and when they finally fall asleep after the 11 o'clock news you can hop on yahoo and tell your hopes and dreams to someone else....things you could never tell your mate...but hell it's only the org right?


This idea, that it's only the org, leads us to do and say things we never would do in a real life situation. We tell our secrets to strangers, we "make love" to those we will never see, because we are empty and we need someone to love and we need someone to love us.


I'm sorry if this offends anyone. It's just my twocents


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Reply #33 posted 08/13/04 3:28pm

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axestream said:

Sweeny79 said:

I posted this on the other thread I think it answers both qustions.

Honestly, the answer to both this question and the question about men being "easy" here is one in the same, and I can speak from experience here.


For the most part, people who come to the org and post lots everyday (this includes me) are missing something in their lives, they are lonely, or they feel misunderstood by those around them, at the org we all relate to each other on at least one level and it's easy to make connections with others when basically everyone posting here is in the same boat as you.

Another thing that may not be that pretty to think about but is very much the truth is, many of us are in unsatisfying relationships and the org is an easy way to cheat and not feel bad about it, hell your never gonna actually meet the person you are having phone/cyber sex with right? So it's not really doing any damage to your loved one is it? You can still kiss your husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend at night and feel secure in the fact that you have not slept with anyone else and when they finally fall asleep after the 11 o'clock news you can hop on yahoo and tell your hopes and dreams to someone else....things you could never tell your mate...but hell it's only the org right?


This idea, that it's only the org, leads us to do and say things we never would do in a real life situation. We tell our secrets to strangers, we "make love" to those we will never see, because we are empty and we need someone to love and we need someone to love us.


I'm sorry if this offends anyone. It's just my twocents




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Reply #34 posted 08/13/04 3:31pm

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It's easy to flirt on the internet. But how many here have actually gotten together to practice what they preach?
"You need people like me so you can point your fuckin' fingers and say, "That's the bad guy." "

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Reply #35 posted 08/13/04 3:33pm

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Reply #36 posted 08/13/04 3:34pm

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EvilWhiteMale said:

It's easy to flirt on the internet. But how many here have actually gotten together to practice what they preach?


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Reply #37 posted 08/13/04 3:37pm

axestream

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It's easy to flirt on the internet. But how many here have actually gotten together to practice what they preach?


Since this thread was created as a response to CC's thread about women I can say that it's not just flirting which he was talking about.
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Reply #38 posted 08/13/04 3:41pm

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axestream said:

EvilWhiteMale said:

It's easy to flirt on the internet. But how many here have actually gotten together to practice what they preach?


Since this thread was created as a response to CC's thread about women I can say that it's not just flirting which he was talking about.



That depends hon, many here rationalize the love letters and hours on the phone, the cyber sex and dirty pics...webcam "experiments" as flirting so they feel better in the morning.

If you actually had a list of the top 5 "players" here on the org I bet at least 4 of them would refer to what they were doing as "innocent flirting"

People are sick and they refuse to admit that they are causing harm to themselves, to their real life relationships, and also to those that they org meet.
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Reply #39 posted 08/13/04 3:45pm

axestream

Sweeny79 said:

axestream said:



Since this thread was created as a response to CC's thread about women I can say that it's not just flirting which he was talking about.



That depends hon, many here rationalize the love letters and hours on the phone, the cyber sex and dirty pics...webcam "experiments" as flirting so they feel better in the morning.

If you actually had a list of the top 5 "players" here on the org I bet at least 4 of them would refer to what they were doing as "innocent flirting"

People are sick and they refuse to admit that they are causing harm to themselves, to their real life relationships, and also to those that they org met.


I hate to admit you're right again. pout
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Reply #40 posted 08/13/04 3:46pm

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axestream said:

Sweeny79 said:




That depends hon, many here rationalize the love letters and hours on the phone, the cyber sex and dirty pics...webcam "experiments" as flirting so they feel better in the morning.

If you actually had a list of the top 5 "players" here on the org I bet at least 4 of them would refer to what they were doing as "innocent flirting"

People are sick and they refuse to admit that they are causing harm to themselves, to their real life relationships, and also to those that they org met.


I hate to admit you're right again. pout



woot! I'm on a roll! dancing jig
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Reply #41 posted 08/13/04 3:53pm

Slave2daGroove

Sweeny79 said:

I posted this on the other thread I think it answers both qustions.

Honestly, the answer to both this question and the question about men being "easy" here is one in the same, and I can speak from experience here.


For the most part, people who come to the org and post lots everyday (this includes me) are missing something in their lives, they are lonely, or they feel misunderstood by those around them, at the org we all relate to each other on at least one level and it's easy to make connections with others when basically everyone posting here is in the same boat as you.

Another thing that may not be that pretty to think about but is very much the truth is, many of us are in unsatisfying relationships and the org is an easy way to cheat and not feel bad about it, hell your never gonna actually meet the person you are having phone/cyber sex with right? So it's not really doing any damage to your loved one is it? You can still kiss your husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend at night and feel secure in the fact that you have not slept with anyone else and when they finally fall asleep after the 11 o'clock news you can hop on yahoo and tell your hopes and dreams to someone else....things you could never tell your mate...but hell it's only the org right?


This idea, that it's only the org, leads us to do and say things we never would do in a real life situation. We tell our secrets to strangers, we "make love" to those we will never see, because we are empty and we need someone to love and we need someone to love us.


I'm sorry if this offends anyone. It's just my twocents


People are having cyber sex here?!?@! Flirting all day but one-handed typing...
So I can't get laid even on the internet, that's depressing.

O.K. so maybe lonely sometimes but I just love music and when I'm busy with life or work I leave. Prince is cool but the cool people here (like sweeny) with some kick-ass taste in music have taught me a few things. So while that explaination really enlightened me to a lot of people on the internet, it is not me.

I feel like today's my first day at the Org.


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Reply #42 posted 08/13/04 4:02pm

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Slave2daGroove said:

Sweeny79 said:

I posted this on the other thread I think it answers both qustions.

Honestly, the answer to both this question and the question about men being "easy" here is one in the same, and I can speak from experience here.


For the most part, people who come to the org and post lots everyday (this includes me) are missing something in their lives, they are lonely, or they feel misunderstood by those around them, at the org we all relate to each other on at least one level and it's easy to make connections with others when basically everyone posting here is in the same boat as you.

Another thing that may not be that pretty to think about but is very much the truth is, many of us are in unsatisfying relationships and the org is an easy way to cheat and not feel bad about it, hell your never gonna actually meet the person you are having phone/cyber sex with right? So it's not really doing any damage to your loved one is it? You can still kiss your husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend at night and feel secure in the fact that you have not slept with anyone else and when they finally fall asleep after the 11 o'clock news you can hop on yahoo and tell your hopes and dreams to someone else....things you could never tell your mate...but hell it's only the org right?


This idea, that it's only the org, leads us to do and say things we never would do in a real life situation. We tell our secrets to strangers, we "make love" to those we will never see, because we are empty and we need someone to love and we need someone to love us.


I'm sorry if this offends anyone. It's just my twocents


People are having cyber sex here?!?@! Flirting all day but one-handed typing...
So I can't get laid even on the internet, that's depressing.

O.K. so maybe lonely sometimes but I just love music and when I'm busy with life or work I leave. Prince is cool but the cool people here (like sweeny) with some kick-ass taste in music have taught me a few things. So while that explaination really enlightened me to a lot of people on the internet, it is not me.

I feel like today's my first day at the Org.


twocents



I was here at the org for about 5 min before I was initiated into this shit.

Thanks Slave I think you are cool too hug rose
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Reply #43 posted 08/13/04 4:37pm

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Men on the org are above normal society of men on being Horn Dogs. It has to be the prince music.. Lord knows over a ll these years if I would have done half the men who has hit on me in here I would have surpassed Tracy Lords..lol lol
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Reply #44 posted 08/13/04 4:38pm

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indytracy said:

Men on the org are above normal society of men on being Horn Dogs. It has to be the prince music.. Lord knows over a ll these years if I would have done half the men who has hit on me in here I would have surpassed Tracy Lords..lol lol


Oh hell yes me too nod
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Reply #45 posted 08/13/04 4:47pm

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cuz i'm a hoe u know i'm a hoe
Remember, today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.
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Reply #46 posted 08/13/04 5:02pm

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because we are fucking sluts that's why.


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Reply #47 posted 08/13/04 5:12pm

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Slave2daGroove said:

Sweeny79 said:

I posted this on the other thread I think it answers both qustions.

Honestly, the answer to both this question and the question about men being "easy" here is one in the same, and I can speak from experience here.


For the most part, people who come to the org and post lots everyday (this includes me) are missing something in their lives, they are lonely, or they feel misunderstood by those around them, at the org we all relate to each other on at least one level and it's easy to make connections with others when basically everyone posting here is in the same boat as you.

Another thing that may not be that pretty to think about but is very much the truth is, many of us are in unsatisfying relationships and the org is an easy way to cheat and not feel bad about it, hell your never gonna actually meet the person you are having phone/cyber sex with right? So it's not really doing any damage to your loved one is it? You can still kiss your husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend at night and feel secure in the fact that you have not slept with anyone else and when they finally fall asleep after the 11 o'clock news you can hop on yahoo and tell your hopes and dreams to someone else....things you could never tell your mate...but hell it's only the org right?


This idea, that it's only the org, leads us to do and say things we never would do in a real life situation. We tell our secrets to strangers, we "make love" to those we will never see, because we are empty and we need someone to love and we need someone to love us.


I'm sorry if this offends anyone. It's just my twocents


People are having cyber sex here?!?@! Flirting all day but one-handed typing...
So I can't get laid even on the internet, that's depressing.

O.K. so maybe lonely sometimes but I just love music and when I'm busy with life or work I leave. Prince is cool but the cool people here (like sweeny) with some kick-ass taste in music have taught me a few things. So while that explaination really enlightened me to a lot of people on the internet, it is not me.

I feel like today's my first day at the Org.


twocents


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Reply #48 posted 08/13/04 7:23pm

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Why are MEN so easy to hook up with on Prince.org?


Cause they listen to Prince.
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Reply #49 posted 08/13/04 8:08pm

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people are people. What gets me is that there are men and women on this site that are too quick to point a finger at another when they doing the same damn thing they are condoning in another. WOW! long sentence there! No doubt it's a run-on or some shit. biggrin shrug oh well, at least I have no misspelled words this time 'round! giggle
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Reply #50 posted 08/13/04 8:52pm

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theVelvetRoper said:

Whatever happened to the chase? To dignity? Men of the prince.org are so quick to pull down their drawers for some pussy? Are you quick to lick as well?
razz
I don't know.
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But got no love in return?
Did u understand the real meaning of love?
That it just is and never yearns"
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Reply #51 posted 08/14/04 6:36am

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dianne34 said:

people are people. What gets me is that there are men and women on this site that are too quick to point a finger at another when they doing the same damn thing they are condoning in another. WOW! long sentence there! No doubt it's a run-on or some shit. biggrin shrug oh well, at least I have no misspelled words this time 'round! giggle



I like you biggrin
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Reply #52 posted 08/14/04 9:05am

dianne34

Sweeny79 said:

dianne34 said:

people are people. What gets me is that there are men and women on this site that are too quick to point a finger at another when they doing the same damn thing they are condoning in another. WOW! long sentence there! No doubt it's a run-on or some shit. biggrin shrug oh well, at least I have no misspelled words this time 'round! giggle



I like you biggrin

hug thank you. I've always liked you too.
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Reply #53 posted 08/14/04 9:28am

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dianne34 said:

Sweeny79 said:




I like you biggrin

hug thank you. I've always liked you too.



hug woot!
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Reply #54 posted 08/14/04 11:36am

JDINTERACTIVE

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Reply #55 posted 08/14/04 12:25pm

Teacher

I think the majority of orgers both male and female have this phase in their orging but it really gets OLD after a while. These days it bores me to sleep, which should tell you what I used to do on here biggrin
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Reply #56 posted 08/14/04 1:15pm

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Slave2daGroove said:

Sweeny79 said:

I posted this on the other thread I think it answers both qustions.

Honestly, the answer to both this question and the question about men being "easy" here is one in the same, and I can speak from experience here.


For the most part, people who come to the org and post lots everyday (this includes me) are missing something in their lives, they are lonely, or they feel misunderstood by those around them, at the org we all relate to each other on at least one level and it's easy to make connections with others when basically everyone posting here is in the same boat as you.

Another thing that may not be that pretty to think about but is very much the truth is, many of us are in unsatisfying relationships and the org is an easy way to cheat and not feel bad about it, hell your never gonna actually meet the person you are having phone/cyber sex with right? So it's not really doing any damage to your loved one is it? You can still kiss your husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend at night and feel secure in the fact that you have not slept with anyone else and when they finally fall asleep after the 11 o'clock news you can hop on yahoo and tell your hopes and dreams to someone else....things you could never tell your mate...but hell it's only the org right?

This idea, that it's only the org, leads us to do and say things we never would do in a real life situation. We tell our secrets to strangers, we "make love" to those we will never see, because we are empty and we need someone to love and we need someone to love us.
I'm sorry if this offends anyone. It's just my twocents


Slave2daGroove said:
People are having cyber sex here?!?@! Flirting all day but one-handed typing...
So I can't get laid even on the internet, that's depressing.

O.K. so maybe lonely sometimes but I just love music and when I'm busy with life or work I leave. Prince is cool but the cool people here (like sweeny) with some kick-ass taste in music have taught me a few things. So while that explaination really enlightened me to a lot of people on the internet, it is not me.

I feel like today's my first day at the Org.
twocents

It's a breath of fresh air to hear Slave2daGroove's comments.Some of us here at 'theORG' are
here to exchange ideas about all sorts of things,from Art, Philosophy,Religion,Music..whatever.
Everyone is at their own discretion to do what they may.Sex and Relationships is another good reason to visit smile because there's such a lot of it going around.This site is so big i often wouldn't know what was going on in all the Forums!
Was good to hear sweeny79 expressing the reasons behind some of us being here. There's no likely hood of me , in Australia getting too caught up in the social side of things as i'm about 5,000 miles from away from most ORGERS. So i find it just a great place to belong to a community of people who are like minded, mainly Music.
Hey, Slave2daGroove, i remember saying"Voodoo Groove" in a post, and you asking if you could use that term, that's the sort of relationships i have to people here, not Prom Dates, which is a really cool, & funny idea, but 2 share ideas.Thought i'd put my 2 cents in here, as i reckon ORG relationships are pretty innocent yes hug lol peace
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Reply #57 posted 08/15/04 9:40am

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Sweeny79 said:

axestream said:



Since this thread was created as a response to CC's thread about women I can say that it's not just flirting which he was talking about.



That depends hon, many here rationalize the love letters and hours on the phone, the cyber sex and dirty pics...webcam "experiments" as flirting so they feel better in the morning.

If you actually had a list of the top 5 "players" here on the org I bet at least 4 of them would refer to what they were doing as "innocent flirting"

People are sick and they refuse to admit that they are causing harm to themselves, to their real life relationships, and also to those that they org meet.
I mostly agree with the first statement you made on both of the threads but i have a problem with the last sentence of this one. There are cases where it is what it is.
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Reply #58 posted 08/15/04 9:08pm

Anxiety

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I ain't gonna say how many Org men been trying to slip me the salami. zipped


Hell, I tried to slip TOFKA the tempeh loaf last weekend and she wasn't having it. mad
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Reply #59 posted 08/15/04 10:02pm

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TheOrgerFormerlyKnownAs said:

Sweeny79 said:




That depends hon, many here rationalize the love letters and hours on the phone, the cyber sex and dirty pics...webcam "experiments" as flirting so they feel better in the morning.

If you actually had a list of the top 5 "players" here on the org I bet at least 4 of them would refer to what they were doing as "innocent flirting"

People are sick and they refuse to admit that they are causing harm to themselves, to their real life relationships, and also to those that they org meet.
I mostly agree with the first statement you made on both of the threads but i have a problem with the last sentence of this one. There are cases where it is what it is.



Give me ONE example of someone who is seriously emotionally involved with an orger and that involvment does not do damage to a real life relationship.

(btw I was talking about myself, from my own experiences, when I made that last statement I realize it might sound heavy handed, but that's really how I feel)
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