if you are in a commited relationship, is phone sex cheating ?

even if you know you will never be able to see that person, is it still cheating of the mind ?

what do you think ?

nakedpianoplayer said:

YES it is cheating.....

Cheating is basically based on what you wouldn't want your partner doing and/or what you would be afraid of telling your partner you did. If you're looking for somewhat of an open relationship and your partner agrees (before it happens) that phone sex isn't cheating, then it's not. But in most cases, it would be.

CarrieMpls said:

Yes. CHEATER CHEATER, PUMPKIN EATER Hopefully, we won't eventually see you on the show "Cheaters".

listening to voicemail isn't phone sex

I definitely think that's something that would need to be discussed. I personally don't have a problem with it. If I had a boyfriend right now, I really wouldn't care. I would, however, toss him on his ass if he actually boned some other chick.

Some people see it as harmless; others don't. I would have no problem engaging in phone sex with someone if I were seeing someone else exclusively - unless, of course, my s/o disapproved. Then I would not.

i can understand it from both sides

if you are in a commited relationship, you shouldnt want to hear another person expressing things they want to do to you, and imagining what that would be.

but, if you use that as an outlet for sexual energy, and your partner doesnt mind, is it ok ?

i think probably not, because, i know me well enough, i wouldnt like it if he did it to me oh, but i will miss those nights

Yes, unless the person you're with it cool with it ofcourse.

Nope... not at all.

Yes it is still a form of cheating. You are still being intimate with someone other then you spouse or significant other .

IS this the old Tracy..Tracy Tracy?

indytracy said:

I wanna hear how you work that stuff, baby. Ahhhhh....yeah. Let me hear it. Totally rave. Mash that strawberry. Mash it! Oh baby, my whacker is about to pop.

nakedpianoplayer said:

CarrieMpls said:

first of all, its NOTHING like that

CCII said:

YES

Yeah CC baby it is "Old" Tracy. BTW thanks for putting it that way..lol I am younger then you But yeah it tis me the old the naughty the MEAN ass Tracy069/070/ whatever else I was back in the Old org days

if you have to ask then the answer is probably yes.

JasmineFire said:

bingo!

Hey you!

CarrieMpls said:

hey babes! what's up?

well, its sad, but, i have to agree --- guess that part of life is over


its like the end of an era

indytracy said:

Oh shit Naked...I didn't figure. My bad....seriously. Boy oh boy

nakedpianoplayer said:

[This message was edited Mon Aug 2 21:29:41 2004 by CCII]
[This message was edited Mon Aug 2 21:53:46 2004 by CCII]

Acts are not cheating. Breaking agreements is cheating. Whether or not phone sex is cheating depends on the agreements in your relationships.