Ever been dumped by phone or (gulp) text? Ever actually done the reverse.....


....um yes I let a girl go by phone before and I felt horrible afterwards but I had to be honest with her etc.....but in hindsight I was a twat and I never done it since.....hiw about u?

thesexofit said:

Baby...don't even GO there right now. I TOTALLY feel ya

I've dumped someone by phone before and afterwards.....I felt GRRRREAT!!!

He was an asshole and deserved it

Smooches;)

That's cool, good 4u.....

Yes, and he was an ass and deserved it too!

But finishing with someone who you care for but don't have "those feelings" for, face to face is heartbreaking It's so hard.

Well, in High School I had relationships end on the phone all the time (99% of the time, I was being dumped). I just can't imagine an adult not having the guts to do it in person though.

Yeah, I feel u there, we all been heartbroken face to face on both recieving and "not my type" ends though havn't we?.....Telling them "Sorry, no thanx" never gets easier 4 me (not that I do that often though)

thesexofit said:

Yeah, I don't do it often either, but it doesn't get easier. Just to see their face eurgh. I told my last boyfriend face to face and I kept putting it off for aggeees 'casue I just couldn't do it.

sawah said:

Ugh, it's horrible. I much prefer being the dumpee than being the dumper, even if that means I have to deal with rejection and feeling like a big loser and all that stuff. At least when you get dumped your friends will get you drunk and you can act all melodramatic and get away with it. When you dump someone, everyone just thinks you're a prick.