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Thread started 07/23/04 1:29pm

applekisses

Has anyone ever had an in-law or girlfriend or boyfriend's parent hate them?

I was thinking about this today...I once had a boyfriend whose father HATED me for absolutely no good reason (except that he was a parinoid psychopath...lol.)
He was really mean to me from the first moment I met him and it never stopped. Has anyone ever experienced anything like that?
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Reply #1 posted 07/23/04 1:33pm

lollyp0p

Oh god yes

My mother in law hated me terrible called me the tart mad his sister hated me even more cause she was best friends with his ex, Had fun telling me all the things him and his ex got up and how much fun they had and how much more gorgeous she was compared to me!!!!


I really don't care though let them hate me

it's there problem!

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Reply #2 posted 07/23/04 1:35pm

Sinister

applekisses said:

I was thinking about this today...I once had a boyfriend whose father HATED me for absolutely no good reason (except that he was a parinoid psychopath...lol.)
He was really mean to me from the first moment I met him and it never stopped. Has anyone ever experienced anything like that?

mad mad mad mad How could anyone hate you Apples?!?!?!? Let me at em!!! I murtlize the bum!! mad
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Reply #3 posted 07/23/04 1:39pm

neesespieces

Yes. I dated a guy whos mother did not like me because of my skin color.
We where the same race, but she insisted that I wasn't. She was a bitch.....
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Reply #4 posted 07/23/04 1:40pm

lillith

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nope...they always love me.



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you're only as old as you feel..............so how old do i feel horny

Now that food has replaced sex in my life, I can't even get into my own pants.
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Reply #5 posted 07/23/04 1:44pm

irresistibleb1
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lol my mother-in-law thinks i'm a heathen, but she's very nice to me. so it's all good!
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Reply #6 posted 07/23/04 1:45pm

applekisses

irresistibleb1tch said:

lol my mother-in-law thinks i'm a heathen, but she's very nice to me. so it's all good!



falloff

That's what matters most biggrin
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Reply #7 posted 07/23/04 1:47pm

applekisses

lillith said:

nope...they always love me.



wink



lol

Um...exactly how many times have you been married? omfg
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Reply #8 posted 07/23/04 1:48pm

applekisses

Sinister said:

applekisses said:

I was thinking about this today...I once had a boyfriend whose father HATED me for absolutely no good reason (except that he was a parinoid psychopath...lol.)
He was really mean to me from the first moment I met him and it never stopped. Has anyone ever experienced anything like that?

mad mad mad mad How could anyone hate you Apples?!?!?!? Let me at em!!! I murtlize the bum!! mad



batting eyes My hero love biggrin
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Reply #9 posted 07/23/04 2:36pm

jerseykrs

My best friends parents hated his girlfriend for no reason, but she was a loser, so they probably saw that.....

and I would hope no one has ever hated me.....
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Reply #10 posted 07/23/04 2:49pm

MsSmartypants

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My third husband's mother hated me. mad

I don't know why.....all I did was acidently kill her dog. rolleyes
Love it or shove it!
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Reply #11 posted 07/23/04 2:53pm

3bogs

yup.

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Reply #12 posted 07/23/04 2:56pm

applekisses

MsSmartypants said:

My third husband's mother hated me. mad

I don't know why.....all I did was acidently kill her dog. rolleyes



OMG! It WAS an accident! rolleyes How dare she! hmph!
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Reply #13 posted 07/23/04 3:02pm

Nelly

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My mother in law hated me for no good reasons...

so I finally gave her a good reason to hate me...

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Hey! What's the verdict?
I don't like suspense...
How can U resist my burning touch?
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Reply #14 posted 07/23/04 3:06pm

Sweeny79

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Nope everybody almays loves me. batting eyes giggle


When I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago his mom cried. sad
In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular.
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Reply #15 posted 07/23/04 3:08pm

psychodelicide

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No, thank goodness, BUT my mom dislikes every guy I introduce to her. It's like no guy out there is good enough for her. rolleyes I remember when I used to live at home and I would introduce my mom to a guy that I was dating. He could be the sweetest, nicest person in the world, but my mom could find one little thing to hate on him for. rolleyes I remember once getting totally pissed at her and saying, "Mom, you NEVER like ANY guy that I introduce to you. Who do you expect me to bring home, superman??" Needless to say, she did not like that too well, but hey, fact is fact. I'm not perfect, and neither is anyone else in this world.
RIP, mom. I will forever miss and love you.
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Reply #16 posted 07/23/04 3:11pm

MsSmartypants

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Sweeny79 said:

Nope everybody almays loves me. batting eyes giggle


When I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago his mom cried. sad

Tears of joy!!!!! biggrin
Love it or shove it!
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Reply #17 posted 07/23/04 3:12pm

Sweeny79

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MsSmartypants said:

Sweeny79 said:

Nope everybody almays loves me. batting eyes giggle


When I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago his mom cried. sad

Tears of joy!!!!! biggrin



tease

That woman LOVED me! lol
In spite of the cost of living, it's still popular.
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Reply #18 posted 07/23/04 3:15pm

lillith

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applekisses said:

lillith said:

nope...they always love me.



wink



lol

Um...exactly how many times have you been married? omfg



boyfriends parents...never married.

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you're only as old as you feel..............so how old do i feel horny

Now that food has replaced sex in my life, I can't even get into my own pants.
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Reply #19 posted 07/23/04 6:54pm

Case

Hell, ever girl I dated prior to 98 had psycho parents. This girl Stephanie Whitman had a mom who hated me for some obscure reason (I think she thought I slept with the foreign exchange student who had stayed with them the previous year)...and for a year I dated this girl without her mother knowing. When I saw "Mallrats" and saw how Jason Lee made Shannen Doherty sneak in through the window to see him cuz of his mother....I sympathized.

Then my next girlfriend's parents were ultra-religious psychos and the mom would call me a devil worshipper...and then actually HIT ON ME once!!

Scary!!!!
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Reply #20 posted 07/23/04 6:57pm

mrbungle

my ex girlfriends parents didn't and probably still don't like me all because of somthing I have no control over. my race.
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Reply #21 posted 07/23/04 7:52pm

applekisses

mrbungle said:

my ex girlfriends parents didn't and probably still don't like me all because of somthing I have no control over. my race.



nod I understand. I think one of the reasons this guy hated me was because of my ethnicity too...he's a real piece of work rolleyes
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Reply #22 posted 07/23/04 8:16pm

mrbungle

applekisses said:

mrbungle said:

my ex girlfriends parents didn't and probably still don't like me all because of somthing I have no control over. my race.



nod I understand. I think one of the reasons this guy hated me was because of my ethnicity too...he's a real piece of work rolleyes



It killed me considering I felt I did everything the right way when it came towards her family. I never showed any negative feelings towards her family (until it was over). It took a lot to get over feeling like a second class person. It was the most hurtful experience I've had to deal with from the hands of another. Hurt worse than a swift punch in the stomach or face.

I grew from it, I'm a stronger person because of it but I still resent her and the family which isn't a feeling I like. It still lingers in the back of my head, haven't completely got rid of it yet.
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Reply #23 posted 07/23/04 8:17pm

althom

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mrbungle said:

applekisses said:




nod I understand. I think one of the reasons this guy hated me was because of my ethnicity too...he's a real piece of work rolleyes



It killed me considering I felt I did everything the right way when it came towards her family. I never showed any negative feelings towards her family (until it was over). It took a lot to get over feeling like a second class person. It was the most hurtful experience I've had to deal with from the hands of another. Hurt worse than a swift punch in the stomach or face.

I grew from it, I'm a stronger person because of it but I still resent her and the family which isn't a feeling I like. It still lingers in the back of my head, haven't completely got rid of it yet.

That's their problem mate!
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Reply #24 posted 07/23/04 9:06pm

applekisses

mrbungle said:

applekisses said:




nod I understand. I think one of the reasons this guy hated me was because of my ethnicity too...he's a real piece of work rolleyes



It killed me considering I felt I did everything the right way when it came towards her family. I never showed any negative feelings towards her family (until it was over). It took a lot to get over feeling like a second class person. It was the most hurtful experience I've had to deal with from the hands of another. Hurt worse than a swift punch in the stomach or face.

I grew from it, I'm a stronger person because of it but I still resent her and the family which isn't a feeling I like. It still lingers in the back of my head, haven't completely got rid of it yet.



hug heart

And...althom's right...it IS their problem. They will go through life carrying around all of that irrational hatred. And it IS irrational...it makes NO sense whatsoever...they didn't like you for where your ancestors came from? Please. They are missing out on knowing and probably loving a wonderful person...you! I actually sort of pity them. But, don't get me wrong...they suck! lol wink
My ex's dad used to make stereotypical jokes about my ethnic group right in front of me. So did the guy's friend.
As long as you know that you did everything right and you were yourself...that's all you need to be concerned with. hug
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