ok, so I met a guy on gay.com about a month ago and he seemed nice, I thought I could be his friend, but now he keeps messaging me everyday, talking about how he thinks we should be together for ever. I keep trying to drop hints, but he doesn't seem to take them well. What should I do? I don't wanna be rude, he claims his father is dying and just wants someome to talk to, however, everytime he messages me, he tells me how hard his cawk iz and wants to know when i can come up and visit him. HELP ☼☼☼☼☼

2the9s up to his ol tricks again

Did he try to "voom" you?

It was shausler.

so week so week

your slippin chumly

shausler said:

alexnevermind319 said:

Delete yourself off of the site. Change your messaging name and info.

gay.com was the aol for the new melu.....now its just gross.....

2the9s said:

alexnevermind319 said:

Don't be rude just tell him straight out: "Sorry, but I'm not interested!"

Anxiety said:

"is there a taste to the caulk?"

LittlePill said:

CokeJohnson said:

I didn't see that! But maybe that would work. He should tell the guy that he's straight and was just curious.

alexnevermind319 said:

Try using Chattage. It's a chat client that works with Gay.com. You can block people and it completely hides all their comments in the room as well.

alexnevermind319 said:

Thats really kak and I feel for you. i think all u can do is count yourself lucky he doesnt know where u live

I had a kinda stalker he followed me down a road near my house (till i lost him) and then I saw him later that week whilst I was at work and he kept trying to hang around where I was, then as soon as I got in I got a phonecall from a strange guy who knew my name and said he wanted to meet me. V. freaky. I've had afew bad experiences similar to this and its affected me badly- I'm a worrier most of the time but obviously I feel worse and I don't feel comfortable by myself anywhere anymore.

But enough on me to cut a long story short sweetheart I think u jus gotta be straight up with him. Tell him that your not interested in him in that way but that your willing to be friends 9if that is the case). no its awkward to do but you've gotta be strong.

JaneyX

alexnevermind319 said:

If you are dropping hints and he's still saying stuff like this, then he's being rude. I would just say "look, you're making me uncomfortable, I just want to be friends." Something along those lines.