POOK said:

solandsky said:

need a hug? here ya go

solandsky said:

HEY YOU ASK FOR HONEST OPINION

AND POOK GONNA GIVE IT TO YA!

POOK GONNA GIVE IT TO YA!

POOK GONNA COME TO ORG AND DELIVER TO YA!

Honestly i would give you the boot. Never worship another man and be married to or even dating me. A poster would have been enough. He has to feel that if you had a chance with prince you would leave him in a heartbeat. Need a real woman and not a groupie for a wife.
He should cut you loose. Sorry to be blunt but i jus roll dat way.

CHEECHWIZARD said:

CHEECHWIZARD said:

To each their own, but

The symbol does stand for music...would he get mad if you had AC/DC or KISS
tatted (WTF, I said tatted...) on your arm?

My solution, get hubby's name tatted () by your crotch...that'll show him his
importance in your life compared to

POOK BEEN BAD MONKEY

GIVE ILL ADVICE

TO DESPERATE WOMAN

BAD BAD MONKEY

MAYBE LADY POOK

HAVE UNSEEN TATTOO

UNDER FURRY ASS

The only reason he should have the right to trip if the man's name on your body is someone you realistically have the chance to fuck. He's trippin and needs to calm down

wildchaotic said:

I see you have the same situation and may be a little tender to my response.
But really, what kind of man let's his wife mark her body with another mans name?
The only men i can think of that will allow this has:

a.Been big time pussywhipped
b.Had his spinal column removed
c.Has something on the side and only stays so you won't take him to court.

CHEECHWIZARD said:

It isn't like she's getting an ex boyfriends name or the name of someone she can actually get. She's getting a symbol that represents a person that gave her musical memories. The dude is jealous and needs to be medicated if he can't handle somethings so minute in the scale of things.

OH yeah, it's against the law for me to get married but I knew you'd need my advice

Your body is your own. He needs to get over it quick.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Then buy a poster or a program. What that tatto says is "If Prince gave me the chance i would let him hit it". And when the guy is with his wife, he don't want to see no name of another man while he is hittin it? If it is some late night booty call maybe, but not on his wife!!!! Maybe i'm a little outdated to think the woman should worship the man she is with? Why marry him if you worship another?

CHEECHWIZARD said:

touchy...now.

~For heaven sakes use this energy elsewhere... I have so many ideas to where/what. Higher sense of power, help me.

CHEECHWIZARD said:

Who says she's worshipping Prince? "if given the chance"....please. Be realistic here. When she lays down and her husband sticks his cock in her, aint that enough to tell him who she's really with? I can't believe how insecure so much of the male race is.

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[This message was edited Tue Jul 20 17:06:28 2004 by SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy]

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Wutz the longest relationship you have ever been in? I only want to know whether you speak from experience or speculation. Jus like in my other debate i have been there!!
And he can have his cock in her and few others might too. Jus because you are hittin it at that moment doesn't verify she is yours, she is yours at that moment. It is all the things she does that give you the security you need. If an era of 50% divorce rate, actions speak so much louder.....

CHEECHWIZARD said:

3 years. That long enough? I lived with a seriously delusional jealous maniac and when guys get that bent, it's usually because they have a guilt complex.

CHEECHWIZARD said:

I see we have a one dimensional philosopher here, none f the above apply, I just think she should do what she wants to regards the tat. After all he was fully aware of her liking of prince and should be cool. The attitude coming across here and of his "supporters" is of a poor mamas boy who believe that the woman is meat.

wildchaotic said:

Yeah, that's it. You nailed it!!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Were you monogamous all three years? I mean what i have read of you comes across as someone who is into a series of encounters. Why am i even debating this with you?

Cheech Said


Was i hittin a little too close to home Wut you describe is a relationship of expectation. The very thing that cause bad relationships. The he/she can change and everything will be fine. Don't try to be some superhero. jus be you and speak from a real place you can resonably achieve. Painting the "i'm gonna give you the world" only leads to heartache. Learn your flaws and deal with them. Learn their flaws and deal with them too. Let them learn your flaws and deal with them also. Then you have a sound foundation. The purpose of relationships is to simply be yourself. So much easier and stable that way. Takes all the fakeness out it.



I believe I read this in another post regarding being yourself and no fakeness, The girl has and is doing so, some contradiction occuring here.

CHEECHWIZARD said:

wildchaotic said:

You make a valid point. I am not saying she shouldn't do what her heart desires. I'm just sayin that i wouldn't put up with it. I am not just gonna accept any flaw and make them my wife. If she had the tat goin in that would be something different. If i had a doubt that she wanted a tattoo of another mans name after we are together i am out like a scout on a new route. And for those in relationships where this goes on i say if it works for you do it. As long as you two are happy who gives a fuck what anyone else thinks. The problems is when one of you isn't happy.

I only wonder how many guys give the same kind of consideration to their women. Based on some of the responses, this sounds like a control issue more than it does about her scrawling another man's name on her body.

My ex used to turn off the TV when we'd bang because he didn't want me to look at the newscasters and think about them while we were doing it. Hello! The newscaster isn't in our bed!

This is a ridiculous argument. That dude needs to get over it.

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[This message was edited Tue Jul 20 18:28:02 2004 by SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy]

You people! Didn't she say that tattoo on her arm reads "ADORE" - how is that another man's name??? OMFG.

To be truthful, I wouldn't get a tattoo without my husband's consent, and he wouldn't get one without mine. We are a team and each other's opinions and feelings play an enormous part in our decision making, because together we believe we can make better choices.

Revolution said:

Reply of the month!

Hey Ya'll I'm back Supa Funky, I luv u Let me go back a little, HotThang was over this afternoon n she said that I should have mentioned that he is ANTI-TATTOO period...whatever! He has issues steming from his dads' request that he NEVER get a tattoo(HIM NOT ME). Now my mother -n -law is tellin' me that she thinks that he may have n issue bcuz her n my husbands dad were divorced kinda as a result of a jealousy fit that he had nvolving Prince (2 long 2 go n2,some Springer type shit). Again,I did discuss it w/him,n he said that he did'nt want me 2 get one. I ask him 2 do stuff all the time n he DOES NOT!! As far as him havin' 2 c it while we r makin' love,he does'nt have 2 c it dammit! It's on my arm,but it does'nt bother his ole' stankin' ass 2 get down while listenin' 2 disc 2 of Emancipation or many other Prince songs 4 that matter!
I'm tired of his shit what can I say? He's bein' so childish,it's very unattractive.
Supa Funky if u r ever n Atlanta WE MUST GO PLAY
So now what ya'll got 2 say??? POOK keep u r opinions 2 u r self man!

solandsky said:

Same thang i said before. There are tons of things in that post that just scream disaster.

I wonder if she would like it if he tattood Halle Berry on his arm?

At then end of the day it's not the tattoo that matters anyway. You can agree or disagree with his stance, but you have to realize that she choose to get a tattoo over the health of her relationship and her marriage. It's her choice and her body, but it may eventually cost her the marriage. Perhaps she shouldn't be married to someone who has such different beliefs on the subject but the point is that he does and she did not respect them.

Ah the debate rages on, my feelings as expressed before, go for what you want. The respect card has been raised by certain people. If soland truly did not respect him then the tat would be there already.

Chose to get a tattoo over health of her marriage!!! Sounds like a daytime chat show. Put the shoe on the other foot and you will find most men tend to be pig headed and do what they want anyway, but once again we see a woman on that 2 way street who is a least willing to communicate only to have a resounding no, what I say goes.

I still say tattoo away and good luck.

Meant to say Keep on tattooing.