Please tell..

Well depends what u mean by big. If u mean BIG big then I have no idea.

If u mean shapely then it's surely because of the sumptuous feel and alluring roundness.

fauxnewbie said:

...and??? continue

REDFEATHERS said:

Well, to be more specific, a small, lifeless ass may not inspire sexual feelings as much, and in particular a desire to enter a woman from behind in either reciprocal.

I dunno why

I just like BIG butts and I cant deny

REDFEATHERS said:

It's all about hittin' 'em from the back .....and the feel, oh the feel

fauxnewbie said:

Good answer. Also When you think about it (from a male perspective) how many sexual positions the female buttocks is involved in, you can't help but be attracted to it.

In most sexual positions, it's always within a hand grasping position. So...while it's there you want something to grab on to.

Also it's one of many places on a womans body that's soft as a pillow! The bigger the pillow the better. For comfort purposes, have you ever sat on a couch (say watchin a movie) and had a pillow sittin' on your lap? Comfortable isn't it? Now imagine (again from a male perspective) combining that said comfort with the sensation of penile-vaginal intercourse (a woman riding a man from behind comes to mind) then the purpose of preferring a larger butt truely hits home.

Thicker women are often considered fat, along with women with bigger butts. IMO when I say I like a large butt; I mean large butt, small waist, small stomach (not a six pack necessarily, just flat, a lil pouch is ok). Sounds physically impossible doesn't it? It's not Trust me, I know Picture J.Lo or Beyonce. Those are what we call ghetto booties or ghetto Asses. Cuz, the only thing 'Big' about them is their butts, everything else is proportioned to it. This look is hard to accomplish, you have to be born with it really. Some women have gone as far as having; yup you guessed it Ass implants .

Most importantly, the sexiest thing about a woman is confidence. Being proud of what she has, regardless of what society or Cosmo claims is sexy!

TheBluePrince said:

cosmo lied 2 us

As a women I would rather have some ass rather then no ass. I got ass and I love it. Besides I do not want anything tiny enough on my body, that when the wind blows it will knock me over cause I am so skinny and light.



for all the girls wit da booty


Now Shake dat ass...show me what ya working with.....

I have a heathy booty too

MostBeautifulGrlNTheWorld said:

I love ass religiously, but IMO it's more about the shape, proportion and firmness rather than size.

fauxnewbie said:

roflmao!!! that was the most intellectual statement about sex I've ever seen

A lady should have booty otherwise she just a girl!!

She gotta have a GREAT ASS

SquarePeg said:

Pick up some work by Desmond Morris. Amazing stuff and not boring at all.

Gotta represent for the men who prefer the small booty. Ghetto booty?

Conversations like this always piss me off. It outright states that a little ass isn't as sexy, and it implies that skinny girls aren't as attractive or that we're slavishly following what some stupid magazine says is attractive.


I'm skinny and have a little ass. I've never dieted or exercised and I don't give a crap what Cosmo says is hot this month.

REDFEATHERS said:

to grab at?

meow85 said:

No need to be offended, no one said a slim woman can't be sexy. It's just that for decades, women with more meat on their bones have been ridiculed and sorta left out of the whole; what's considered beautiful thing.

As I stated above;

I thought this was really interesting....

Men's Turn-ons In Priority Order:

Turn-on 1: Athletic Body Shape

Top of the attraction list for men is a woman with an athletic-looking body. A strong, fit body is a sign of health and signals a woman's ability to successfully bear his children, flee from danger and defend offspring if necessary. Most men prefer a heavier woman to a leaner one because additional fat is an aid to successful breast - feeding. One of the world's greatest sex symbols, Marilyn Monroe, was a size 16 and had very beefy legs. As far as men are concerned, no anorexic beauty could ever become a real sex symbol. So now perhaps you understand why women have an invariable crush on chocolates.


Turn--on 2: Full Breasts

The breasts of the woman at her sexual and reproductive peak - in her late teens and early twenties - are men's favourites. These are typical of the breasts seen in men's magazine centerfolds, on erotic dancers and in advertisements that trade on sex appeal.

Human female breasts tend to be permanently enlarged and only change a little during pregnancy. Most of the time they serve one clear purpose - sexual signaling.

Low-cut dresses and push-up bras emphasize this signal by creating cleavage, which mimics the rear view of a woman's buttocks. Some women are horrified when they first hear about the significance of the cleavage, while others use it to optimal advantage.

All research surveys show men love breasts in most shapes and sizes. It doesn't matter whether they are the size of a small lemon or look like watermelons - most men are keenly interested in them all and love cleavage. Check out the booming lingerie industry worldwide.


Turn-on 3: Long Legs

The sight of a woman who has legs seemingly up to her armpits always creates a lasting impression on men. The principle behind a woman's legs as a sexual signal is simple. The more leg a man can see, and the longer her legs are, the sexier she looks to him because it draws attention to the area where her left and right legs meet. Conversely, if a woman's sexual organs lay under her armpit, her legs would hardly attract a second glance. Instead, he'd notice what beautiful biceps and triceps she had! As it is, you never hear a man tell a woman she has beautiful long arms. When a girl reaches puberty; however, her legs undergo rapid lengthening as hormones flood her body and change her into a woman. Her extra-long legs become a powerful non-verbal signal telling males she is sexually maturing and is now capable of childbearing. This is why long legs have always been associated with potent sexuality.

Most men also prefer women with rounded, thicker legs to those with thinner, muscular legs, because additional fat highlights the sex difference between male and female legs, and is an indicator of better lactation. He likes her legs to look athletic but is turned off if she looks like she could play for England in the Cup.

The shortness of woman's dress and the height of her heels vary with her menstrual cycle. She will unconsciously select more revealing dresses and higher heels when she is ovulating. Maybe that's a good lesson for parents: lock up your daughters between the fourteenth and eighteenth day after their period!


Turn-on 4: Rounded Hips/Small Waist

For centuries, women have put up with corsets and all manner of waist-shrinking contraptions to achieve the perfect hourglass figure. During the nineteenth century; the ideal waist size for a girl was when her age matched her waist in inches.

A woman in excellent health and most capable of successfully bearing children has a hip-to-waist ratio of 70 per cent, that is, her waist is 70 per cent the size of her hips. Men begin to lose interest when the ratio exceeds 80 per cent and, for most men, the greater the ratio--either up or down--the less attentive he will be. Women whose ratios exceed 100 per cent attract little interest as this kind of ratio shows fat distribution around the womb and ovaries. It time you check the ratio on the women you know and your degree of attraction as well!


Turn-on 5: Hemispherical Buttocks

Men find rounded, peach-shaped buttocks most attractive. Wearing designer jeans has become popular as they highlight the buttocks and give them a firm, rounded look. High-heeled shoes make the wearer arch her back, push out her buttocks, and make her wiggle when she walks which invariably draws male attention. So you now know why high heels are so popular with women.

Turn-on 6: Flat Belly

Women have more rounded bellies than men, and a flat, smooth belly sends out a clear signal that they're not pregnant, and therefore available to male suitors. This is why gymnasiums and yoga classes everywhere are packed with women doing abdominal exercises, trying to achieve that perfect ironing-board stomach.

Belly dancing has recently made a popular reappearance as a form of exercise, although few women have any idea of its origins. It was originally performed by harem girls for their masters and was used by the dancer to bring the master to orgasm by sitting on him and performing a series of muscular gyrations and thrusts. Hawaiian and Tahitian pelvic dancing has similar origins and these dances survive today under the genteel guise of "traditional folk dancing". Next you are part of the belly dancing session, check the rhythmic movement of the belly.

Turn-ons 7 &: 8: Arched Back and Vulva

Curves and arches indicate femininity and fertility, while geometric and angular shapes shout masculinity. Men the world over, therefore, love curvy women. A woman's upper back is narrower than a man's, her lower back is wider and her lower spine is more arched than his. Extra arching in the back makes the buttocks protrude and thrusts the breasts forward. Ask any woman to assume a sexy standing posture and her first position will usually be an exaggerated back arch and hip-tilt with one or both arms placed on her hips, to take up more space and so be more likely to attract attention. If you're skeptical about this, ask any women to stand and do her best to act sexy: Go on - try it right now.

Turn-on 9: Long Neck

Male necks evolved as shorter, thicker and stronger structures than female necks to protect against being snapped during hunting or battle. This left the longer, thinner, tapered female neck as a powerful signal of gender difference, which men kiss and love to see adorned with jewels, and cartoonists exaggerate to highlight femininity. It's also the part of the body where 'necking' takes place between lovers.


http://harmony.indiatimes...ower2.html

I can't stand those really thin women. I like a woman to have a figure.....I do have a thing for women that are curvy.

althom said:

Ride a wild horse, ride baby ride.....

luv4u said:

althom said:

Ohhhhh babyyyyy

applekisses said:

All 4 tha SEXOFIT!

senik said:

Motherfucker thats the 1st thing we've ever agreed on!




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Very interesting reading - thanx guys

Curvy and a decent size, no waifs. We are talking size 14 (UK sizing) and over.

wildchaotic said:

yeah baby, she gotta have some junk in da trunk!

PoorLittleBastard said:

Not true, fucking your mother..... we can shout snap on that can't we! SNAP!





Oi!, that ain't your pocket money, it's for yo mamma..... she knows what it's for

These are for her to

Senik

Ur Momma may be old but like she says "it feel better when they got no teeth"


All hail SENIK's Mamma!!