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PrintableThe thought of being cheated on I think. I don't know how I would honestly manage the situation should it ever rise. Calm and collected I would hope, although it's easier said than done. Because not only is there the hurt of the thought of your loved one being with someone else, but there is also the stigma of self-doubt and questioning yourself as to their actions. | |
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Being in it for the wrong reasons... from both sides. | |
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JediMaster said: gemini13 said: I just can't seem to make a relationship last for more than four years for some reason. I'm married, and it's just past the four year mark, and now we're having problems. I don't get it.
Unfortunately, that is all too common. the four and seven year marks are, statistically, the hardest years of a relationship. how come? I know the 6 month mark is difficult... I mean, like, where is the sun? | |
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NovaAngel said: Just curious. For me it's the fear of being hurt again. Meaning that if a person allows himself to be vulnerable, he also allows the possibility to be hurt. I know that that's a chance we all take but it still sucks nonetheless.
You said exactly how I feel and that's why when I actually try I almost always am let down. I'm over relationships! To Sir, with Love | |
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if they're gonna chew through the ropes this time.  | |
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What I honestly worry about....When you've been seeing eachother for say, six months.By then you know where it's headed.I'm at the point if it's not going to lead to the getting married someday, then I'm wasting both of our times.I hate having to do that someone.Really fucks me up when I hurt someone feelings etc....sucks | |
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crazyhorse said: What I honestly worry about....When you've been seeing eachother for say, six months.By then you know where it's headed.I'm at the point if it's not going to lead to the getting married someday, then I'm wasting both of our times.I hate having to do that someone.Really fucks me up when I hurt someone feelings etc....sucks
I can concur with those feelings and emotions, past & present. Hurts like hell....  | |
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PanthaGirl said: crazyhorse said: What I honestly worry about....When you've been seeing eachother for say, six months.By then you know where it's headed.I'm at the point if it's not going to lead to the getting married someday, then I'm wasting both of our times.I hate having to do that someone.Really fucks me up when I hurt someone feelings etc....sucks
I can concur with those feelings and emotions, past & present. Hurts like hell.... we are SO talking tonight, Chrissie  I hope you're OK   [This message was edited Wed Jul 7 22:04:50 2004 by Natisse] | |
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J0eyC0c0 said: Having kids. The other stuff I don't really worry about cause it's out of my control anyway. I try not to worry about what I can't change. Having a baby with the wrong person is the worst that could ever happen to me....and no, I don't have any kids.
 Thats cos you fuck girls in the wrong hole!  | |
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PEJ said: NovaAngel said: Just curious. For me it's the fear of being hurt again. Meaning that if a person allows himself to be vulnerable, he also allows the possibility to be hurt. I know that that's a chance we all take but it still sucks nonetheless.
You said exactly how I feel and that's why when I actually try I almost always am let down. I'm over relationships! Me too. At least for the present moment. But you never know, relationships have a weird way of coming 'round. But I'm kind of focusing on me right now. "I ordered no broth! Away with ye lest my cane find your backside!!"- Ralph Wiggum, Actor. | |
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NovaAngel said: PEJ said: You said exactly how I feel and that's why when I actually try I almost always am let down. I'm over relationships! Me too. At least for the present moment. But you never know, relationships have a weird way of coming 'round. But I'm kind of focusing on me right now. ME 2!!! 110% The more I focus on me the less I can get hurt. I think  To Sir, with Love | |
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My testicles.  When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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bkw said: My testicles.
gah, what are you worrying about, they disappeared eons ago. bkw's naughty bits  I mean, like, where is the sun? | |
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BobGeorge67 said: I worry about nose hair..... nothing worse than having someone look at you funny because you have't trimmed recently
AGREED. "Yardwork" is step 1 in relationship maintainence.:::laffin::: | |
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Getting BORED .....Ya Gotta Keep Me Satisfied.....I'll Leave Otherwise.... Don't want No Cheapskate worrying bout Pennies Either.... I Want Someone who Wants to Live and Wants Alot of SEX and Not Some Old Fart Can't go the ROUNDS.... | |
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NovaAngel said: Just curious. For me it's the fear of being hurt again. Meaning that if a person allows himself to be vulnerable, he also allows the possibility to be hurt. I know that that's a chance we all take but it still sucks nonetheless.
I worry most about not being loved | |
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Future child support.  | |
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worrying *period* is generally a bad idea. | |
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I don't want to be somebody's somebody
Idon't want to belong to someone...  Hey! What's the verdict?
I don't like suspense... How can U resist my burning touch? | |
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Janfriend said: NovaAngel said: Just curious. For me it's the fear of being hurt again. Meaning that if a person allows himself to be vulnerable, he also allows the possibility to be hurt. I know that that's a chance we all take but it still sucks nonetheless.
I worry most about not being loved ditto..... every relationship if U can call it that has been one-sided.... so now i keep the heart out of it and work on me.... and i have set new standards and not settle for less..... life is to short to not be happy and be luved back.....  | |
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CokeJohnson said: Mach said: nay say all ya wanna aint gonna skeer me !! I assume you are saying "scare" here.. right? If so.... chill darling.. Just trying to keep it real for ya... Lots of things could happen: 1. You could grow apart 2. He could fuck someone else (he not with U all the time is he?)
3. etc etc... Congrats on your marriage, but nothing's bullet proof in this world..  o'l wise one...
you are however right on... the list for ended relationships vary indeed. I however, do not have one to worry about (on an everyday basis), searching... observing. | |
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Getting married again... is not high on my list. To heck with conventional marriages. | |
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Natsume said: I am honestly afraid of becoming bored and wanting to move onto someone new.
I am crossing my fingers. agree   Look at me! | |
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