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Expressing one's feelings Do you think it's better to tell someone how you really feel about them or is it better just to keep it locked-up inside so one doesn't end-up making a ass out of theirself? what's your opinion? | |
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personally, I'd like to think that I can express myself and my emotions freely to someone if I feel comfortable enough to do that, but I'd advise you to be REALLY REALLY sure the other person is ready for it, otherwise it could backfire...just my 2c worth | |
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Natisse said: personally, I'd like to think that I can express myself and my emotions freely to someone if I feel comfortable enough to do that, but I'd advise you to be REALLY REALLY sure the other person is ready for it, otherwise it could backfire...just my 2c worth
I agree but how is a person suppose to know how one is feeling if they dont tell them? | |
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PurplePassion65 said: Natisse said: personally, I'd like to think that I can express myself and my emotions freely to someone if I feel comfortable enough to do that, but I'd advise you to be REALLY REALLY sure the other person is ready for it, otherwise it could backfire...just my 2c worth
I agree but how is a person suppose to know how one is feeling if they dont tell them? I agree, totally...I'm all for expressing your feelings, it's just that I've done it and it did actually backfire - I wouldn't want to see the same thing happen to you, that's all it all depends on how the person will take it you're expressing yourself to... | |
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If Paisley was here I would tell her I missed her. | |
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I agree that 2the9s is an ass. When I read about the evils of drinking, I gave up reading. | |
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The risk U take is rejection. If U can handle any answer or response from other party then go ahead and spill out ur feelings, but in my honest opinion let them do the chasing. If they are interested in U genuinely then they will put up a great chase n' fight. If not, not worth even thinking about. Crushes are fun but can leave U feeling slightly crushed if ur rejected. My advice is let em' do the chasing. | |
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PanthaGirl said: The risk U take is rejection. If U can handle any answer or response from other party then go ahead and spill out ur feelings, but in my honest opinion let them do the chasing. If they are interested in U genuinely then they will put up a great chase n' fight. If not, not worth even thinking about. Crushes are fun but can leave U feeling slightly crushed if ur rejected. My advice is let em' do the chasing
well said exactly what I was trying to put into words... | |
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With honesty you can never lose.
It's oft-stated that you should be honest, but you just can't stress it enough. It's amazing how much easier life gets, in the sense of your peace of mind, when you simply tell the truth. Honesty is always the best policy if you live by it. Not if you're always ducking in and out of honesty and dishonesty. Then you make it necessary to tell little white lies quite often. BUT, if you make it something you live by, honesty sees u right. Just my humble opinion. | |
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Honest,but NOT HURTFUL,RUDE or DEMEANING... Definitely be OPEN....Why play Games??? | |
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edit! [This message was edited Sun Jul 4 23:23:33 2004 by Emancipation88] Worlds most beloved Orger
'm like Sam the butcher bringing Alice the meat | |
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fauxnewbie said: With honesty you can never lose.
It's oft-stated that you should be honest, but you just can't stress it enough. It's amazing how much easier life gets, in the sense of your peace of mind, when you simply tell the truth. Honesty is always the best policy if you live by it. Not if you're always ducking in and out of honesty and dishonesty. Then you make it necessary to tell little white lies quite often. BUT, if you make it something you live by, honesty sees u right. Just my humble opinion. Wow - nice post. I couldn't agree more. | |
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