Start organizing a large memorial? I know many keep talking about what Tyka said for August, but nothing has been announced and for fans that live else where around the world that would want to attend many won't be able to come for whatever is thown, because there won't be ample time to book flights, get off work, etc. Apologies to the mods if this has been flat out asked yet I know the same questions keep being asked over and over in new threads, and that's the thing that strikes me so much. There are so many new ppl here including myself because it's like there's no where else to go we just want to honor him some formal way. Could something be held at First Ave or some large venue? Anyone here able to reach out to Shelia, Morris, Mayte, anyone for help? I'd be happy to offer any help I can in planning such an event, hell I'll sweep the floors after, it just seems like something should be done. Prince obviously had a soft spot for the org here seeing as all other fan sites were shut down can't we all stand up as one and organize? Would anyone here be up to actually doing it, like volunteering time, any special services (musicians for a tribute, artists, etc) in order to throw something together? I know family and friends are hurting and we aren't the priority but hence the point to the post.

Sad to see Doritos are a bigger interest than trying to pull something together. I have the ability to contact someone who was friends with P but out of the inner workings who was pretty upset by all this too and I think he'd of been down. I don't want to say who because he's a (funk) legend in his own right. I know what I suggested was a bit of a fluffy dream but geesh.

I would not be able to go to MN and I live in TN because of my job and lack of funds to travel. Would it be possible to have it flimed even if it is merely cell phone footage for those of us that would not be able to attend? Or possibly live streamed over the internet even?

I wasn't whining about anything, just throwing an idea out into the ether so to speak. I just find it disappointing that with such a large group of fans here no one would try to do something not only in MN but on the east and west coasts as well. If no one tries or pushes for such things nothing come to fruition. I'll let sleeping dogs lie.

But...but...that's so much harder than just screaming "Gimme!!"

I feel like locally, in whatever region, memorials or fan get togethers are/have been happening this whole time. I get that people want a memorial but just like mentioned, it's difficult because of world wide fans, not everyone will be able to attend no matter where it's held. (with the exception of that possible 'tour' thing) so I definitely encourage people to check in their own locations for fan get togethers (or start some ) too, at least in the meantime.

ForeverPaisley said:

I feel like locally, in whatever region, memorials or fan get togethers are/have been happening this whole time. I get that people want a memorial but just like mentioned, it's difficult because of world wide fans, not everyone will be able to attend no matter where it's held. (with the exception of that possible 'tour' thing) so I definitely encourage people to check in their own locations for fan get togethers (or start some ) too, at least in the meantime.

babynoz said:

I didnt post the past couple of days due to being back and forth to the hospital with my back. Im pretty much bedridden at the moment but at least the pain is a bit more under control now. What I had suggested before is if anyone here knows tyka we should ask first and foremost what if anything she might need us to do. That is always the first thing done when someone passes, but as far as I know that courtesy has not been extended yet. At least you are asking. She may need volunteers in which case we could sponsor members who are able to represent us at the event. Or she might even like an org plaque for PP? Somebody around here must have a way to ask her? If she doesnt need us, then it would be appropriate to organize something amongst ourselves.

Sorry to hear that about your back I got my own back issues and it's a living hell, I sincerely hope U feel better. I'm glad to see atleast a couple of ppl get what I mean tho. I know it's weird to say I feel guilty but I do for the reason this man gave his all to us and now to just sit and not do something in honor of him... IDK I'm not built that way, I like to honor those that made the world a better place. He didn't owe me anything but I feel I owe him something. Seems like the show of support for such event(s) would not only help us as supporters of his but also seem a comfort to family and friends.

ForeverPaisley said:

I feel like locally, in whatever region, memorials or fan get togethers are/have been happening this whole time. I get that people want a memorial but just like mentioned, it's difficult because of world wide fans, not everyone will be able to attend no matter where it's held. (with the exception of that possible 'tour' thing) so I definitely encourage people to check in their own locations for fan get togethers (or start some ) too, at least in the meantime.

Exactly what I'm suggesting. Just on a larger scale with entertainment and such instead of having some dance party in some club where like 12 ppl show up.

ACharmed1 said:

babynoz said:

I didnt post the past couple of days due to being back and forth to the hospital with my back. Im pretty much bedridden at the moment but at least the pain is a bit more under control now. What I had suggested before is if anyone here knows tyka we should ask first and foremost what if anything she might need us to do. That is always the first thing done when someone passes, but as far as I know that courtesy has not been extended yet. At least you are asking. She may need volunteers in which case we could sponsor members who are able to represent us at the event. Or she might even like an org plaque for PP? Somebody around here must have a way to ask her? If she doesnt need us, then it would be appropriate to organize something amongst ourselves.

Sorry to hear that about your back I got my own back issues and it's a living hell, I sincerely hope U feel better. I'm glad to see atleast a couple of ppl get what I mean tho. I know it's weird to say I feel guilty but I do for the reason this man gave his all to us and now to just sit and not do something in honor of him... IDK I'm not built that way, I like to honor those that made the world a better place. He didn't owe me anything but I feel I owe him something. Seems like the show of support for such event(s) would not only help us as supporters of his but also seem a comfort to family and friends.

There are ways to honor someone without a big public memorial. Volunteer for a youth organization. Donate to a music program. (I'm giving the piano I learned to play on as a child to a local preschool for underprivileged children.)

There is absolutely nothing and nobody stopping you from honoring Prince - except yourself. No, it isn't some big rally you can go to and say, "Look at me - I'm a Prince fan!" But if Prince taught us anything, it's that small, anonymous gestures can be the most meaningful and worthy of them all.

Genesia said:

There are ways to honor someone without a big public memorial. Volunteer for a youth organization. Donate to a music program. (I'm giving the piano I learned to play on as a child to a local preschool for underprivileged children.)

There is absolutely nothing and nobody stopping you from honoring Prince - except yourself. No, it isn't some big rally you can go to and say, "Look at me - I'm a Prince fan!" But if Prince taught us anything, it's that small, anonymous gestures can be the most meaningful and worthy of them all.

Already have done something several times over privately. "Look at me- I'm a Prince fan!"...really? If someone sees it that way then NO memorials should be held eh? Someone should tell Spike no more parties cause it's just ppl just trying to show off.

[Edited 6/20/16 13:57pm]

ACharmed1 said:

Genesia said:

There are ways to honor someone without a big public memorial. Volunteer for a youth organization. Donate to a music program. (I'm giving the piano I learned to play on as a child to a local preschool for underprivileged children.)

There is absolutely nothing and nobody stopping you from honoring Prince - except yourself. No, it isn't some big rally you can go to and say, "Look at me - I'm a Prince fan!" But if Prince taught us anything, it's that small, anonymous gestures can be the most meaningful and worthy of them all.

Already have done something several times over privately. "Look at me- I'm a Prince fan!"...really? If someone sees it that way then NO memorials should be held eh? Someone should tell Spike no more parties cause it's just ppl just trying to show off.

Yeah...not the most apt example. Spike's event was at least as much about Spike as it was about Prince. (That whole parading the symbol guitar around was ridiculous.)

Far be it from me to tell people they shouldn't organize something. The problem is, everybody thinks somebody else (the family, in particular) should organize it - and foot the bill for it. Knock yourself out - and good luck.

Genesia said:

Yeah...not the most apt example. Spike's event was at least as much about Spike as it was about Prince. (That whole parading the symbol guitar around was ridiculous.)

Far be it from me to tell people they shouldn't organize something. The problem is, everybody thinks somebody else (the family, in particular) should organize it - and foot the bill for it. Knock yourself out - and good luck.

Yes, I felt that way about that guitar thing too - I do think a fan memorial is too hard though, because so many of us live in different countries and to be honest, to watch one live streaming would make me even more depressed because I would want to be there but cannot. I would love to get together with Prince fans where I live in Australia, but I am the only one I know in my area .............

I do think we just have to wait for an official one arranged by the family in August - if it goes ahead.

Genesia said:

Someone correct me if I am wrong but, from all the interviews and reading personal accounts by folks who have interacted with him (some even on this board) I get the distinct impression that he would not want a huge deal made of his passing but would rather each of us if we are truly a fan do something for someone else and not for the sake of being able to say " Look What I Did" such as the examples Genesia depicted in her statement below. Sure I wouldn't mind getting to meet some of you folks simply to make a new friend who shares my taste his music and appreciates the FINE LOOKING man he was but after reading Genesia's quote I realize that a big memorial/party in his honor might just make Prince come back and haunt us all in a bad way!

Genesia said:

There are ways to honor someone without a big public memorial. Volunteer for a youth organization. Donate to a music program. (I'm giving the piano I learned to play on as a child to a local preschool for underprivileged children.)

There is absolutely nothing and nobody stopping you from honoring Prince - except yourself. No, it isn't some big rally you can go to and say, "Look at me - I'm a Prince fan!" But if Prince taught us anything, it's that small, anonymous gestures can be the most meaningful and worthy of them all.

Genesia said:

Yeah...not the most apt example. Spike's event was at least as much about Spike as it was about Prince. (That whole parading the symbol guitar around was ridiculous.)

Far be it from me to tell people they shouldn't organize something. The problem is, everybody thinks somebody else (the family, in particular) should organize it - and foot the bill for it. Knock yourself out - and good luck.

Agreed. But then again Spike is famous I'm not, so I wouldn't get anything other than the pleasure of knowing others like me can go somewhere, dance our butts off enjoy some tributes by other artists and celebrate this mans life. I agree with your point about ppl thinking the family should foot the bill, to which is why I said I'd gladly donate my time to do something. Even if something were thrown together and I couldn't attend atleast I gave my part to help others get over their grief, and hopefully smile.

babynoz said:

Lol. I keep seeing the word closure on multiple threads. I'm not sure if people realize how much being of assistance at a time like this is healing in and of itself.

It's not lost on me that P being deeply private would no doubt not expect a big bash for him but what should we all do dance in our rooms blasting his music say a quite thanks and be done? I mean he did let the Org stay open and the Peach and Black guys continue Podcasts with out shutting it all down. Clearly he didn't mind some accolades and praise.

I think its a lovely idea but hard to pull off. I live in an area with few Prince fans and most people look at me like I'm crazy if I talk about him. So instead I think I'll plant a little private memorial garden and

put together a little book of pictures, quotes, and a timeline.

Thank you Prince.org for listening - I'm new to the org and I hope its okay to post.

Hard to pull off but not impossible. I feel like with everyone being quiet as time passes so do ppls memories. Kind of like out of sight out of mind. It's actually a good thing so many friends and those close to him are keeping mum but I wish something be done now rather than later to honor him. I hear what U R saying sonshine. I agree with most except to say where his remains are concerned should be private. And as far as expense is concerned if enough ppl donated their time and talents that would keep costs down. $ would be needed mainly for securing a venue and all that goes with it UNLESS a venue would agree to donate their services as well. Hard I know but it bares repeating not impossible.

Namelessfan said:

I think its a lovely idea but hard to pull off. I live in an area with few Prince fans and most people look at me like I'm crazy if I talk about him. So instead I think I'll plant a little private memorial garden and

put together a little book of pictures, quotes, and a timeline.

Thank you Prince.org for listening - I'm new to the org and I hope its okay to post.

Lavender and violets are a must!