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Thread started 05/19/16 3:41pm

donnyenglish

Duane Nelson Born in the Same Year as Prince

Duane was born in August 1958, just a few months after Prince was born. Is he a step brother or a half brother? If he is a half brother, then I'm assuming that his father had the child out of wedlock. Anyone know the story?

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Reply #1 posted 05/19/16 3:42pm

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donnyenglish said:

Duane was born in August 1958, just a few months after Prince was born. Is he a step brother or a half brother? If he is a half brother, then I'm assuming that his father had the child out of wedlock. Anyone know the story?

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He must be half brother or his offspring would not be in the running for some of Prince inheritance.

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Reply #2 posted 05/19/16 3:51pm

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Pretty sure he is a half brother. Their year book pics are next to each other. Remember that Prince and Tyka are the only children between Mattie and John, and I believe John was married when they got together.
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Reply #3 posted 05/19/16 4:23pm

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Damn...daddy got around. Two in the same year eek

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Reply #4 posted 05/19/16 4:29pm

donnyenglish

gigilamorosa said:

Pretty sure he is a half brother. Their year book pics are next to each other. Remember that Prince and Tyka are the only children between Mattie and John, and I believe John was married when they got together.


It is just a little odd because Prince's parents did not get a divorce until several years later. I understand that people have kids outside of their marriage often but I found it odd that Tyka did not list Duane in the original court filing. They need to do a dna test.
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Reply #5 posted 05/19/16 4:52pm

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And we wonder why Prince was so different. Imagine your dad had another son, allegedly, who is your same age and goes to your same school. eek

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Reply #6 posted 05/19/16 4:58pm

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donnyenglish said:

Duane was born in August 1958, just a few months after Prince was born. Is he a step brother or a half brother? If he is a half brother, then I'm assuming that his father had the child out of wedlock. Anyone know the story?

Duane is Prince's half brother, with Vivian Nelson. I'm not sure John & Vivian were ever married, though. John had plenty of children, but Tyka is the only other child he had with Mattie Shaw, his wife, other than Prince. They separated sometime after 1960, became estranged, and divorced around 1966. She remarried Prince's infamous stepfather, and stayed married until either died.

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The first of John & Vivian's children was born in 1940 (Sharon). Prince, and Tyka are the last children he sired. (Tyka is 2 years older than Prince.) That means he was sleeping with Vivian and Mattie around the same time.

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The thing is, most reports say Duane was born in 1959, not 1958. CJ reported his death in May 2013, and his age being 52. If he'd had a birthday already, that puts him in 1959. If he was due to be 53 that year, that puts him being born in 1960 (which is the year Tyka was born). It seems more logical that he was born in 1959.

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Reply #7 posted 05/19/16 5:13pm

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Iirc John had children by two wives before meeting Mattie. Mattie had a son, Alfred, when she & John met. John & Mattie had P & Tika. After they split Mattie married Haywood & they had Omarr. John then went on to adopt Duane when he was married to Duane's Mom.
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Reply #8 posted 05/19/16 5:37pm

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Iirc John had children by two wives before meeting Mattie. Mattie had a son, Alfred, when she & John met. John & Mattie had P & Tika. After they split Mattie married Haywood & they had Omarr. John then went on to adopt Duane when he was married to Duane's Mom. [Edited 5/19/16 17:17pm]

thanks for the explanation cuz it was definitely needed...so Duane wasnt his blood brother?

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Reply #9 posted 05/19/16 5:56pm

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nursev said:



NinaB said:


Iirc John had children by two wives before meeting Mattie. Mattie had a son, Alfred, when she & John met. John & Mattie had P & Tika. After they split Mattie married Haywood & they had Omarr. John then went on to adopt Duane when he was married to Duane's Mom. [Edited 5/19/16 17:17pm]

thanks for the explanation cuz it was definitely needed...so Duane wasnt his blood brother?


I'm pretty sure that was the story back in the day. I remember something about P finding it hard at first when his Dad got with the next woman. In fact, now I think about it I'm sure there was something about Duane's mom getting sick & passing away. John adopting him & then P & Duane becoming close.
"We just let people talk & say whatever they want 2 say. 9 times out of 10, trust me, what's out there now, I wouldn't give nary one of these folks the time of day. That's why I don't say anything back, because there's so much that's wrong" - P, Dec '15
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Reply #10 posted 05/19/16 6:01pm

nursev

NinaB said:

nursev said:

thanks for the explanation cuz it was definitely needed...so Duane wasnt his blood brother?

I'm pretty sure that was the story back in the day. I remember something about P finding it hard at first when his Dad got with the next woman. In fact, now I think about it I'm sure there was something about Duane's mom getting sick & passing away. John adopting him & then P & Duane becoming close.

So if he was adopted do his daughters have a right to anything?

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Reply #11 posted 05/19/16 6:03pm

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nursev said:



NinaB said:


nursev said:


thanks for the explanation cuz it was definitely needed...so Duane wasnt his blood brother?



I'm pretty sure that was the story back in the day. I remember something about P finding it hard at first when his Dad got with the next woman. In fact, now I think about it I'm sure there was something about Duane's mom getting sick & passing away. John adopting him & then P & Duane becoming close.

So if he was adopted do his daughters have a right to anything?


That's a point. I don't know, need someone who's up on mpls law 4 that one.
"We just let people talk & say whatever they want 2 say. 9 times out of 10, trust me, what's out there now, I wouldn't give nary one of these folks the time of day. That's why I don't say anything back, because there's so much that's wrong" - P, Dec '15
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Reply #12 posted 05/19/16 6:03pm

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And we wonder why Prince was so different. Imagine your dad had another son, allegedly, who is your same age and goes to your same school. eek

Yikes. That must have left a mark. sad

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Reply #13 posted 05/19/16 6:07pm

nursev

NinaB said:

nursev said:

So if he was adopted do his daughters have a right to anything?

That's a point. I don't know, need someone who's up on mpls law 4 that one.

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Reply #14 posted 05/19/16 6:07pm

nursev

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funksterr said:

And we wonder why Prince was so different. Imagine your dad had another son, allegedly, who is your same age and goes to your same school. eek

Yikes. That must have left a mark. sad

and to think Prince came from all that eek

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Reply #15 posted 05/19/16 6:09pm

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One thing I'm certain of is Duane was never said to be a blood brother, always step. Or more correctly adopted brother.
"We just let people talk & say whatever they want 2 say. 9 times out of 10, trust me, what's out there now, I wouldn't give nary one of these folks the time of day. That's why I don't say anything back, because there's so much that's wrong" - P, Dec '15
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Reply #16 posted 05/19/16 6:48pm

donnyenglish

I don't think a child that is adopted by one parent becomes a "half" sibling, but I'm not a Minnesota probate lawyer.

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Reply #17 posted 05/19/16 7:00pm

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nursev said:

meagemini2 said:

Yikes. That must have left a mark. sad

and to think Prince came from all that eek

No wonder he had relationship problems.

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Reply #18 posted 05/19/16 7:10pm

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Damn...daddy got around. Two in the same year eek

got a uncle who's done that too lol

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Reply #19 posted 05/19/16 7:14pm

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donnyenglish said:

I don't think a child that is adopted by one parent becomes a "half" sibling, but I'm not a Minnesota probate lawyer.

Duane's daughter and grand-daughter filed a petition with the probate court and offered Duane's birth certificate, which lists John Nelson as his father. My question is, do they change an adoptive kid's birth certificate to add the adoptive parents?

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Reply #20 posted 05/19/16 7:42pm

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tmo1965 said:



donnyenglish said:


I don't think a child that is adopted by one parent becomes a "half" sibling, but I'm not a Minnesota probate lawyer.



Duane's daughter and grand-daughter filed a petition with the probate court and offered Duane's birth certificate, which lists John Nelson as his father. My question is, do they change an adoptive kid's birth certificate to add the adoptive parents?



I have a cousin who was adopted and yes they changed the fathers name from her bio dad to her adoptive dads name. She was crushed when she found out her bio father was taken off of her birth certificate. I'm pretty sure her bio dad was notified and he didn't contest it. This was done in California.
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Reply #21 posted 05/19/16 10:35pm

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TrivialPursuit said:



donnyenglish said:


Duane was born in August 1958, just a few months after Prince was born. Is he a step brother or a half brother? If he is a half brother, then I'm assuming that his father had the child out of wedlock. Anyone know the story?




Duane is Prince's half brother, with Vivian Nelson. I'm not sure John & Vivian were ever married, though. John had plenty of children, but Tyka is the only other child he had with Mattie Shaw, his wife, other than Prince. They separated sometime after 1960, became estranged, and divorced around 1966. She remarried Prince's infamous stepfather, and stayed married until either died.


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The first of John & Vivian's children was born in 1940 (Sharon). Prince, and Tyka are the last children he sired. (Tyka is 2 years older than Prince.) That means he was sleeping with Vivian and Mattie around the same time.


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The thing is, most reports say Duane was born in 1959, not 1958. CJ reported his death in May 2013, and his age being 52. If he'd had a birthday already, that puts him in 1959. If he was due to be 53 that year, that puts him being born in 1960 (which is the year Tyka was born). It seems more logical that he was born in 1959.


Some corrections to your post ^^ here.
Tyka was born after Prince, younger than him.
Duane died in 2011 and was 52 - it was in the obituary in the Star Tribune. Funeral at United Methodist where Prince had been married.
According to the obituary, he was a step-brother by marriage. Duane's mother died when he was still a kid, so John Nelson (Prince's father) adopted him and raised him.
He used to work for Prince, but seems there were stories of him having difficulties in the years before his death.
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Reply #22 posted 05/19/16 10:44pm

MNredandblue

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funksterr said:


And we wonder why Prince was so different. Imagine your dad had another son, allegedly, who is your same age and goes to your same school. eek



Yikes. That must have left a mark. sad



And wasn't Duane the very tall basketball star? I think the lyrics "I wish I were handsome and tall like my brother" were about Duane, right? sad
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Reply #23 posted 05/20/16 1:08am

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I cant tak about MN law, but UK law seems very similar in regards to the family line and who gets what. In the UK an adopted sibling would be entitled to an equal share of the estate. UK law asks these questions:

Does the deceased have:

1) A living spouse? No (if yes spouse gets it all)

2) Any offspring including adopted offspring, excluding step-offspring? No (if Yes then offsprings get equal share. Decendants of deceased offspring get the deceased's share)

3) Any living parent including adoptive parent, excluding step-parent? No (if yes, parent(s) get it all)

4) Any siblings including adopted, excluding step-siblings? Yes. All siblings get an equal share. Where any siblings are deceased, their descendants get the deceased's share.

If MN law is the same, then Duane's decendants are entitled to his share. If Prince had adopted a son, that son would have gotten everything because he was legally his son, so I dont see why the law would be any different for Duane. He was adopted by Prince's father and so was legally Prince's brother. Tyka may not have realised this and so left him out innocently and didnt mean any malice.

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Reply #24 posted 05/20/16 1:30am

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artist76 said:

TrivialPursuit said:



donnyenglish said:


Duane was born in August 1958, just a few months after Prince was born. Is he a step brother or a half brother? If he is a half brother, then I'm assuming that his father had the child out of wedlock. Anyone know the story?




Duane is Prince's half brother, with Vivian Nelson. I'm not sure John & Vivian were ever married, though. John had plenty of children, but Tyka is the only other child he had with Mattie Shaw, his wife, other than Prince. They separated sometime after 1960, became estranged, and divorced around 1966. She remarried Prince's infamous stepfather, and stayed married until either died.


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The first of John & Vivian's children was born in 1940 (Sharon). Prince, and Tyka are the last children he sired. (Tyka is 2 years older than Prince.) That means he was sleeping with Vivian and Mattie around the same time.


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The thing is, most reports say Duane was born in 1959, not 1958. CJ reported his death in May 2013, and his age being 52. If he'd had a birthday already, that puts him in 1959. If he was due to be 53 that year, that puts him being born in 1960 (which is the year Tyka was born). It seems more logical that he was born in 1959.


Some corrections to your post ^^ here.
Tyka was born after Prince, younger than him.
Duane died in 2011 and was 52 - it was in the obituary in the Star Tribune. Funeral at United Methodist where Prince had been married.
According to the obituary, he was a step-brother by marriage. Duane's mother died when he was still a kid, so John Nelson (Prince's father) adopted him and raised him.
He used to work for Prince, but seems there were stories of him having difficulties in the years before his death.

---- One of those awful tabloids said John left P's family went back to his first wife and had Duane. John then returned to P 's mom and stayed until 1966. Basically the article stated that Duane was raised as P's half brother but that later the family found out he was not John's biological brother and that is the reason he was left off the list of heirs. This was in a stupid tabloid so this could be bull.
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Reply #25 posted 05/20/16 6:29am

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nursev said:

Damn...daddy got around. Two in the same year eek

'Like father, like son.'

Edit: I mean the getting around - not the children.

[Edited 5/20/16 6:30am]

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Reply #26 posted 05/20/16 6:45am

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If Duane was indeed an adopted son of John's, he is not blood related to Prince as a half-sibling and therefore Duane's offspring are not entitled to a share of his estate. The siblings, whether half or full MUST have BLOOD relation to the decedent (Prince). So bye Victoria and Briana. Money hungry vultures!

Also a point to note is that yes, when a child is legally adopted, the name of the adopted parent(s) is placed on their birth certificates.

I hate all of this. None of these people worked for that money yet feel entitled! They didn't even have a relationship with the man.

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Reply #27 posted 05/20/16 9:54am

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lavie said:

If Duane was indeed an adopted son of John's, he is not blood related to Prince as a half-sibling and therefore Duane's offspring are not entitled to a share of his estate. The siblings, whether half or full MUST have BLOOD relation to the decedent (Prince). So bye Victoria and Briana. Money hungry vultures!



Also a point to note is that yes, when a child is legally adopted, the name of the adopted parent(s) is placed on their birth certificates.



I hate all of this. None of these people worked for that money yet feel entitled! They didn't even have a relationship with the man.



This is false. Adopted children are recognized as full legal siblings of non adopted children in the same family under the law.
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Reply #28 posted 05/20/16 11:22am

nursev

HuMpThAnG said:

nursev said:

Damn...daddy got around. Two in the same year eek

got a uncle who's done that too lol

lol

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Reply #29 posted 05/20/16 11:24am

Eileen

lavie said:

Money hungry vultures!

I hate all of this. None of these people worked for that money yet feel entitled! They didn't even have a relationship with the man.


The locals involved are so far are doing nothing more than following the law, and everything that is happening right now is solely due to Prince's seeming decision to use MN's intestate inheritance laws for division of his estate. He's the one who decided they were entitled, so far as is currently known.

If a will or trust surfaces and people then behave in an untoward manner in defiance of Prince's decision, there may then be justification for concern. Right now all such comments are simply disrespectful and nasty towards Prince's decision and his family members.


Not to mention, in all the side-eye commentary about his family, nobody seems to posit who else in the world DID "work for that money" and is therefore entitled to it instead.

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