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Thread started 05/04/16 9:11pm

leslievette

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Am I the only one who feels guilty..

for listening to other artists right now? I know that sounds a little ridiculous, but I find myself feeling weird getting enjoyment out of other artists at the moment. I've been listening to P nonstop for the last 13 days. I feel like I latch on to an album for a few days and then listen to another. Right now I'm currently obsessing over 1999. I tried to put my ipod on shuffle and away from my Prince playlist to get him off my mind, but I could only get through a few songs until I felt compelled to go back. It just didn't feel right. Jeez, 13 days and I still can't seem to get it together. neutral What have you all been listening to?

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Reply #1 posted 05/04/16 9:17pm

DarlingKris

I listen to alot of MJ and a bunch of rock bands and Kpop artists to get away from the sadness. If you need a break from listening to Prince, its perfectly fine. He still loves you wink

Forever In My Life, forever in my heart. I love you Prince Rogers Nelson heart
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Reply #2 posted 05/04/16 9:27pm

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I've been alternating between Prince and Bowie. I'm sure neither one of them minds much at all wink

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Reply #3 posted 05/04/16 9:30pm

RiotPaisley

I don't want to listen to anything at all.

What I feel most guilty about though is being kind of frustrated with him recently. I was bothered by his views on homosexuality, I came out because of him- specifically Wendy and Lisa so that was hard to take but easy to ignore and look past cuz I just love him. But he recently issued some cease and desists that I was like come on dude! I always understood his views on illegal downloads and his YouTube stance and I totally respected that but The Tidal thing and some stuff I paid for disappeared from my iTunes and thought wow you're making this really hard... I still LOVED him but I was reaching a point I kinda didn't care anymore.

And then he died.
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Reply #4 posted 05/04/16 9:30pm

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I feel so Guilty. When I saw the WB Deal on tv I knew this was coming. I feel like it was a few months ago that I saw the CNN or MSNBC news of the WB deal and I knew he was going to be gone soon! I had that Last Curtain Call feeling. I feel so helpless!
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Reply #5 posted 05/04/16 9:31pm

panpac777

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History has repeated my Living Nightmare from 7 years ago!
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Reply #6 posted 05/05/16 1:01am

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RiotPaisley said:

I don't want to listen to anything at all. What I feel most guilty about though is being kind of frustrated with him recently. I was bothered by his views on homosexuality, I came out because of him- specifically Wendy and Lisa so that was hard to take but easy to ignore and look past cuz I just love him. But he recently issued some cease and desists that I was like come on dude! I always understood his views on illegal downloads and his YouTube stance and I totally respected that but The Tidal thing and some stuff I paid for disappeared from my iTunes and thought wow you're making this really hard... I still LOVED him but I was reaching a point I kinda didn't care anymore. And then he died.

and death changes things, it's the reason why I'm going to try to reach out to my old, senile, mentor before he goes. I'd regret it later if I didn't. The stupid shit doesn't endure.

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Reply #7 posted 05/05/16 1:49am

enjoyniki

I have always listened to Prince, in the car, at home, etc. since Purple Rain and no one else. At first it was hard, especially since Jenifer Hudson sang Purple Rain with so much feeling. Now that everything is on YouTube, I'm strating to have an appreciating for many songs I did not like previously. No guilt here.

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Reply #8 posted 05/05/16 2:03am

Jamzone333

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panpac777 said:

I feel so Guilty. When I saw the WB Deal on tv I knew this was coming. I feel like it was a few months ago that I saw the CNN or MSNBC news of the WB deal and I knew he was going to be gone soon! I had that Last Curtain Call feeling. I feel so helpless!



Remember the lyric in Sometimes it snows in April? Christopher died after a long hard fought civil war...Prince has battled and turned the music industry upside down. He got his masters back and all those who thought he was crazy are no longer in the industry, or have lost their stand as power brokers. In years to come, Prince's legacy will be spoken about how this fearless man fought the Goliath of the music industry. No doubt! Right now, I can't listen to a lot of Prince. I listen to Madhouse, but it hurts to hear Prince right now..we are all still in mourning.
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"A united state of mind will never be divided
The real definition of unity is 1
People can slam their door, disagree and fight it
But how U gonna love the Father but not love the Son?
United States of Division"
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Reply #9 posted 05/05/16 5:50am

cardinal

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leslievette said:

for listening to other artists right now? I know that sounds a little ridiculous, but I find myself feeling weird getting enjoyment out of other artists at the moment. I've been listening to P nonstop for the last 13 days. I feel like I latch on to an album for a few days and then listen to another. Right now I'm currently obsessing over 1999. I tried to put my ipod on shuffle and away from my Prince playlist to get him off my mind, but I could only get through a few songs until I felt compelled to go back. It just didn't feel right. Jeez, 13 days and I still can't seem to get it together. neutral What have you all been listening to?




i can't listen to him sing right now....too painful. i have been able to watch an interview here or there, but even that is hard. also not listening to anyone else either. caught an eagles song on the radio, it was ok. i don't feel guilty because he has been in my constant thoughts since he made his journey. basically i have been listening to nothing which fits, since i feel empty inside.
"If u love somebody, your life won't be in vain
And there's always a rainbow, at the end of every rain."--peace and love, dear prince.....
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Reply #10 posted 05/05/16 6:22am

djThunderfunk

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I can't listen to anyone but Prince, but I can't listen to any studio recordings. It's been live music nearly non-stop for 2 weeks, concert after concert with a few rehearsals or soundchecks mixed in...

Not dead, not in prison, still funkin'...
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Reply #11 posted 05/05/16 7:10am

dJJ

It's all personal. You can listen to anything you want.

All music is made for people to listen too. So, nobody would want you to stick to just one artist or one album.

And if you feel that you are not being loyal to Prince, remind yourself that he was about music. He was about sharing music with others, so no worries on that part. Prince surely wanted his fans to educated themselves on music, so not restrain themselves by only listening to him.

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Reply #12 posted 05/05/16 7:22am

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The guilt I feel is different. I feel guilty that for a few years I wasn't "into" him. I didn't feel like I "knew" him with the new JW mindset, etc., and didn't follow his new music. I read the reviews of the albums then and didn't buy them. I still listened to, and LOVED, his old stuff but didn't become hardcore again until Musicology. I wish I hadn't taken "a break" when he was still with us.

Am I alone?

Eventually every cloud runs out of rain.
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Reply #13 posted 05/05/16 7:48am

Grog

I wander through the radio minefield to pass the time but when I want to really focus on music, especially with headphones, Prince continues to have the most gravitational pull of anyone on my playlists. That's just the way it is. I don't fully understand it, but I don't fight it either. I can listen to him virtually nonstop for hours, even songs I have heard hundreds of times before, and never lose interest. How is that possible?

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Reply #14 posted 05/05/16 7:58am

SPYZFAN1

Because his music is so versatile and has elements of everything (like Miles Davis). There's so many avenues you can't bored..I've been listening to a lot of jazz and European trip hop since he passed. But I've been squeezing some of his cuts in and strangely it fits.

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Reply #15 posted 05/05/16 8:21am

RiotPaisley

bigtimefan said:

The guilt I feel is different. I feel guilty that for a few years I wasn't "into" him. I didn't feel like I "knew" him with the new JW mindset, etc., and didn't follow his new music. I read the reviews of the albums then and didn't buy them. I still listened to, and LOVED, his old stuff but didn't become hardcore again until Musicology. I wish I hadn't taken "a break" when he was still with us.


Am I alone?



I've always had a hard time with the JW stuff. I found Prince while I was in Catholic school and struggling to get behind the things they preached. I got really into him around the Graffiti Bridge era and felt like he was just so spiritual on his own. That it was all just about love in a sort of bel-hippie kind of way and I really dug that. Not black or white straight or gay... We all just here to love one another. The JWs seemed to pass way to much judgment. My opinion was that he struggled so severely with the loss of his children and wanted answers. Along came the JWs who said it was his bad boy ways and such and told him to repent.

I wish he had just realized maybe it wasn't in the plan for him to have his own children. He could have easily adopted children and raised them in his image.

It really hurt when he turned on homosexuality. I just didn't understand how he went from we all in this together to alienating some of us. I still adored him despite it all and would just reinterpret some of him lyrics to fit what I wanted him to be.

I do remember though that around the time MJ died a story was online that he needed dual hip replacement but was not due to JW doctrine and was just getting through it with pain meds. I PRAYED for him ever since that he would take MJs death as a warning to just get the surgery. He could have done it in secret without their knowledge... But I guess he was faithful to that or whatever you want and to call it.

I wish he'd started his own religion. Something new and funky fresh... Devoid of segregating politics. That's what the world needs now.
Surprise, surprise.
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Reply #16 posted 05/05/16 9:18am

leslievette

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cardinal said:

i can't listen to him sing right now....too painful. i have been able to watch an interview here or there, but even that is hard. also not listening to anyone else either. caught an eagles song on the radio, it was ok. i don't feel guilty because he has been in my constant thoughts since he made his journey. basically i have been listening to nothing which fits, since i feel empty inside.

I'm able to listen to his music, but watching him is a different story. I try to watch videos on youtube and that's very difficult. Still so hard to believe.

From now on, 4 U I shall be wild 💜
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Reply #17 posted 05/05/16 9:22am

leslievette

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dJJ said:

It's all personal. You can listen to anything you want.

All music is made for people to listen too. So, nobody would want you to stick to just one artist or one album.

And if you feel that you are not being loyal to Prince, remind yourself that he was about music. He was about sharing music with others, so no worries on that part. Prince surely wanted his fans to educated themselves on music, so not restrain themselves by only listening to him.

This is true. I need to remind myself of that, thank you. I guess listening to him now is the only thing that makes me feel connected to him. Like if I stop listening to him, it makes it real. He's really gone. Guess this is just my current stage of mourning.

From now on, 4 U I shall be wild 💜
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Reply #18 posted 05/06/16 7:35am

cardinal

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leslievette said:



cardinal said:


i can't listen to him sing right now....too painful. i have been able to watch an interview here or there, but even that is hard. also not listening to anyone else either. caught an eagles song on the radio, it was ok. i don't feel guilty because he has been in my constant thoughts since he made his journey. basically i have been listening to nothing which fits, since i feel empty inside.


I'm able to listen to his music, but watching him is a different story. I try to watch videos on youtube and that's very difficult. Still so hard to believe.



yes, i am still having a hard time looking at him. i can glance at a still, and for some reason, i am ok with interviews, particularly any where he is talking about his faith (maybe focusing on his strong faith is bringing me some peace). the videos, forget it. i watched the superbowl, which was an emotional performance from him, two days after and i came apart. i knew then it was going to be a while.

"do i have a friend tonight?" --prince at his last concert in atlanta bawl
"If u love somebody, your life won't be in vain
And there's always a rainbow, at the end of every rain."--peace and love, dear prince.....
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