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NuPwrSoul

Interesting gender flip on "Chocolate Box"

The more I listen to Chocolate Box (yes alexandernevermind and the others I argued with about this track, it gets better in the second half with more instrumentation esp the staggered keysynths that accompany the refrain, but back to my point...), the more I listen to Chocolate Box the more I think about those songs that Prince has written that could easily be sung by a female.

First off, the song features a gender flip in that it is the man who is the object of the woman's desire, and he's telling her basically if you want to get with this, "suga nothin here comes for free."

Then lays down some questions/conditionals... "if she ain't making bank / scared what a brutha has to say" asks what kind of car you drivin, proclaims it takes a "real woman," and complains about feet hurtin.

Without trying to stereotype, traditionally and easily, these are all things that we find women saying to men in popular music: if you want to get with me, nothing comes for free; "if HE aint making bank and scared what a SISTER has to say"; asking what kind of car he's driving; it takes a "real man"; and certainly complaining about footpain in some sexy high heels.

And of course there is chocolate box... leaving urban dictionary definitions out... Prince has used the box imagery before to refer to a woman's genitalia--with Sheila E's Toy Box.

This isn't new for Prince to do of course--he's often written songs that could easily be sung by a woman with a few he/she changes... songs whose imagery in fact is usually more fitting (traditionally). (Sex Shoooter comes to mind with all its gun/shooting/phallic references as something that could with a few switches be sung by a male).
[Edited 3/25/09 11:17am]
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Reply #1 posted 03/25/09 11:45am

hsh

NuPwrSoul said:

The more I listen to Chocolate Box (yes alexandernevermind and the others I argued with about this track, it gets better in the second half with more instrumentation esp the staggered keysynths that accompany the refrain, but back to my point...), the more I listen to Chocolate Box the more I think about those songs that Prince has written that could easily be sung by a female.

First off, the song features a gender flip in that it is the man who is the object of the woman's desire, and he's telling her basically if you want to get with this, "suga nothin here comes for free."

Then lays down some questions/conditionals... "if she ain't making bank / scared what a brutha has to say" asks what kind of car you drivin, proclaims it takes a "real woman," and complains about feet hurtin.

Without trying to stereotype, traditionally and easily, these are all things that we find women saying to men in popular music: if you want to get with me, nothing comes for free; "if HE aint making bank and scared what a SISTER has to say"; asking what kind of car he's driving; it takes a "real man"; and certainly complaining about footpain in some sexy high heels.

And of course there is chocolate box... leaving urban dictionary definitions out... Prince has used the box imagery before to refer to a woman's genitalia--with Sheila E's Toy Box.

This isn't new for Prince to do of course--he's often written songs that could easily be sung by a woman with a few he/she changes... songs whose imagery in fact is usually more fitting (traditionally). (Sex Shoooter comes to mind with all its gun/shooting/phallic references as something that could with a few switches be sung by a male).
[Edited 3/25/09 11:17am]



And your point is ?????
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Reply #2 posted 03/25/09 11:46am

NuPwrSoul

hsh said:

NuPwrSoul said:

The more I listen to Chocolate Box (yes alexandernevermind and the others I argued with about this track, it gets better in the second half with more instrumentation esp the staggered keysynths that accompany the refrain, but back to my point...), the more I listen to Chocolate Box the more I think about those songs that Prince has written that could easily be sung by a female.

First off, the song features a gender flip in that it is the man who is the object of the woman's desire, and he's telling her basically if you want to get with this, "suga nothin here comes for free."

Then lays down some questions/conditionals... "if she ain't making bank / scared what a brutha has to say" asks what kind of car you drivin, proclaims it takes a "real woman," and complains about feet hurtin.

Without trying to stereotype, traditionally and easily, these are all things that we find women saying to men in popular music: if you want to get with me, nothing comes for free; "if HE aint making bank and scared what a SISTER has to say"; asking what kind of car he's driving; it takes a "real man"; and certainly complaining about footpain in some sexy high heels.

And of course there is chocolate box... leaving urban dictionary definitions out... Prince has used the box imagery before to refer to a woman's genitalia--with Sheila E's Toy Box.

This isn't new for Prince to do of course--he's often written songs that could easily be sung by a woman with a few he/she changes... songs whose imagery in fact is usually more fitting (traditionally). (Sex Shoooter comes to mind with all its gun/shooting/phallic references as something that could with a few switches be sung by a male).
[Edited 3/25/09 11:17am]



And your point is ?????


It's an observation dude(tte), that's all... no conspiracy behind it. dayum
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Reply #3 posted 03/25/09 12:02pm

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Y'know...I don't know that it's a gender flip per se. I think what he's saying is, "I'm not into golddiggers...so what are you bringing to the table?" And he's saying it in the only socially acceptable way he can.

Lord knows the trouble he'd get into if he expected a woman to bring traditional things to the relationship (cooking his meals, cleaning his house, having sex with him whenever he wants, bearing his children). So he talks to her like a man - ie, she better have a job.

He's got a lot of goodies. She better have some, too.
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Reply #4 posted 03/25/09 12:13pm

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New Power New Power ... Give it to me!!!

can't disagree with anything you say there... you know while I do like the beat of Chocolate Box... the panting in the back ground is a bit annoying after several listens

But I can't stop moving to that beat bro
Dance... Let me see you dance
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Reply #5 posted 03/25/09 12:27pm

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"I've got a box of chocolates..."

So, is the "box of chocolate" his "package", meaning his African-American (chocolate) penis?

And if a woman sings it, would the "box" be the vagina? Usually, "box" means vagina. But if it's a "chocolate box" it could be the butthole.

Or... sometimes a man's butt is referred to as a "mangina" in gay sex. So, Prince's box of chocolates could be the butt.

But I am thinking it is his black penis, because "box" could also mean "package". And a black package (or box of chocolate) could mean his penis.
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Reply #6 posted 03/25/09 12:28pm

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By the way, I'm not meaning to offend or unnerve or be silly with that last post. Just seriously trying to analyze the lyrics.

Besides, you all are supposed Prince fans, so you should be able to handle a little crudity. (Unless you are strictly post-JW Prince fans and are offended easliy.)
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Reply #7 posted 03/25/09 2:53pm

Billmenever

Genesia said:

Y'know...I don't know that it's a gender flip per se. I think what he's saying is, "I'm not into golddiggers...so what are you bringing to the table?" And he's saying it in the only socially acceptable way he can.

Lord knows the trouble he'd get into if he expected a woman to bring traditional things to the relationship (cooking his meals, cleaning his house, having sex with him whenever he wants, bearing his children). So he talks to her like a man - ie, she better have a job.

He's got a lot of goodies. She better have some, too.

excited Interesting CD might make chocolate box the 1st listen of 3CDsstirthepot
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Reply #8 posted 03/25/09 3:04pm

Klyph

Billmenever said:

Genesia said:

Y'know...I don't know that it's a gender flip per se. I think what he's saying is, "I'm not into golddiggers...so what are you bringing to the table?" And he's saying it in the only socially acceptable way he can.

Lord knows the trouble he'd get into if he expected a woman to bring traditional things to the relationship (cooking his meals, cleaning his house, having sex with him whenever he wants, bearing his children). So he talks to her like a man - ie, she better have a job.

He's got a lot of goodies. She better have some, too.

excited Interesting CD might make chocolate box the 1st listen of 3CDsstirthepot


OR, it could be another case of Prince using a term or phrase he heard somewhere and not knowing the true way to use it (see Jack U Off).
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Reply #9 posted 03/25/09 4:28pm

PEJ

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berniejobs said:

"I've got a box of chocolates..."

So, is the "box of chocolate" his "package", meaning his African-American (chocolate) penis?

And if a woman sings it, would the "box" be the vagina? Usually, "box" means vagina. But if it's a "chocolate box" it could be the butthole.


But I am thinking it is his black penis, because "box" could also mean "package". And a black package (or box of chocolate) could mean his penis.



perhaps
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Reply #10 posted 03/25/09 4:40pm

NuPwrSoul

Klyph said:

Billmenever said:


excited Interesting CD might make chocolate box the 1st listen of 3CDsstirthepot


OR, it could be another case of Prince using a term or phrase he heard somewhere and not knowing the true way to use it (see Jack U Off).


Jack U Off is another perfect example of reversed gender role... and I find it hard to believe that Prince wouldn't have known what it meant.
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Reply #11 posted 03/25/09 5:10pm

JayJai

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berniejobs said:

"I've got a box of chocolates..."

So, is the "box of chocolate" his "package", meaning his African-American (chocolate) penis?

And if a woman sings it, would the "box" be the vagina? Usually, "box" means vagina. But if it's a "chocolate box" it could be the butthole.

Or... sometimes a man's butt is referred to as a "mangina" in gay sex. So, Prince's box of chocolates could be the butt.

But I am thinking it is his black penis, because "box" could also mean "package". And a black package (or box of chocolate) could mean his penis.

falloff
U gave this alot of thought huh? lol
I swear the words "HATER" is wayyy over-rated...smh
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Reply #12 posted 03/25/09 5:35pm

Copycat

Here are a few more:

"Get It Up" (Singing to his penis or...)
"Violet The Organ Grinder" (Is he Violet or simply a narrator?)
"We Can Funk" ( " I can be a girl or a boy. I can be your toy.")
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Reply #13 posted 03/25/09 6:07pm

berniejobs

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JayJai said:

berniejobs said:

"I've got a box of chocolates..."

So, is the "box of chocolate" his "package", meaning his African-American (chocolate) penis?

And if a woman sings it, would the "box" be the vagina? Usually, "box" means vagina. But if it's a "chocolate box" it could be the butthole.

Or... sometimes a man's butt is referred to as a "mangina" in gay sex. So, Prince's box of chocolates could be the butt.

But I am thinking it is his black penis, because "box" could also mean "package". And a black package (or box of chocolate) could mean his penis.

falloff
U gave this alot of thought huh? lol


Not really. That's just honestly the first and only references I think it could be about...
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Reply #14 posted 03/25/09 6:15pm

PEJ

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Copycat said:

Here are a few more:

"Get It Up" (Singing to his penis or...)
"Violet The Organ Grinder" (Is he Violet or simply a narrator?)
"We Can Funk" ( " I can be a girl or a boy. I can be your toy.")




anybody mention if I Was Ur Girlfriend?
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Reply #15 posted 03/26/09 6:59am

JayJai

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berniejobs said:

JayJai said:


falloff
U gave this alot of thought huh? lol


Not really. That's just honestly the first and only references I think it could be about...

Well damn neutral lol
I swear the words "HATER" is wayyy over-rated...smh
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Reply #16 posted 03/27/09 10:18am

funkii

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PEJ said:

Copycat said:

Here are a few more:

"Get It Up" (Singing to his penis or...)
"Violet The Organ Grinder" (Is he Violet or simply a narrator?)
"We Can Funk" ( " I can be a girl or a boy. I can be your toy.")




anybody mention if I Was Ur Girlfriend?


i don't believe this is relevant
this is about being a best friend, connecting with your woman on a different level

it's not about being a female
You saw the apple
hanging on the tree,
But missed the orchid
in your gaze
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Reply #17 posted 03/27/09 11:42pm

PEJ

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funkii said:

PEJ said:





anybody mention if I Was Ur Girlfriend?


i don't believe this is relevant
this is about being a best friend, connecting with your woman on a different level

it's not about being a female



2 each their own shrug
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Reply #18 posted 03/28/09 4:24am

PussInJuice

lol
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Reply #19 posted 03/28/09 5:54am

emesem

berniejobs said:

JayJai said:


falloff
U gave this alot of thought huh? lol


Not really. That's just honestly the first and only references I think it could be about...


dude you are either flame or really disturbed. Metaphors do not need to refer to a literal subject. They just compare things that are unrelated without using "like" or "as."

The box of chocolates from this stupid song doesn't need to mean a genital no matter how hard you want it to. It just means that "going out with me/having sex with me/dancing with me/life with me/ IS LIKE a box of chocolates"

So when Forest Gump says "Life is a box of chocolates" you dont need to rack your brains thinking about whether he is referring to his butt!
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Reply #20 posted 03/28/09 6:38am

clay

Klyph said:

Billmenever said:


excited Interesting CD might make chocolate box the 1st listen of 3CDsstirthepot


OR, it could be another case of Prince using a term or phrase he heard somewhere and not knowing the true way to use it (see Jack U Off).


in the 70s, sexual terms like "jack u off" and giving "head" were interchangeable for both men and women. he came from that era so I don't see a role reversal, just a dual role in the terms. listen to some old richard pryor. he freely used to use the terms referring to women.
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Reply #21 posted 03/28/09 7:10am

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Genesia said:

Y'know...I don't know that it's a gender flip per se. I think what he's saying is, "I'm not into golddiggers...so what are you bringing to the table?" And he's saying it in the only socially acceptable way he can.

Lord knows the trouble he'd get into if he expected a woman to bring traditional things to the relationship (cooking his meals, cleaning his house, having sex with him whenever he wants, bearing his children). So he talks to her like a man - ie, she better have a job.

He's got a lot of goodies. She better have some, too.


Interesting take on it Genesia.
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Reply #22 posted 03/28/09 8:21am

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berniejobs said:

"I've got a box of chocolates..."

So, is the "box of chocolate" his "package", meaning his African-American (chocolate) penis?

And if a woman sings it, would the "box" be the vagina? Usually, "box" means vagina. But if it's a "chocolate box" it could be the butthole.

Or... sometimes a man's butt is referred to as a "mangina" in gay sex. So, Prince's box of chocolates could be the butt.

But I am thinking it is his black penis, because "box" could also mean "package". And a black package (or box of chocolate) could mean his penis.


eek boff lol
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Reply #23 posted 03/28/09 8:29am

mritchey

Gender Flipping? Prince? Who ever would have thought he would do something controversial like that?

Whatever it is about ... my booty is shakin when I listen to it!
Look at me, Baby! What can I say? Ain't no other fish in the sea!
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Reply #24 posted 03/28/09 8:57am

2elijah

NuPwrSoul said:

The more I listen to Chocolate Box (yes alexandernevermind and the others I argued with about this track, it gets better in the second half with more instrumentation esp the staggered keysynths that accompany the refrain, but back to my point...), the more I listen to Chocolate Box the more I think about those songs that Prince has written that could easily be sung by a female.

First off, the song features a gender flip in that it is the man who is the object of the woman's desire, and he's telling her basically if you want to get with this, "suga nothin here comes for free."

Then lays down some questions/conditionals... "if she ain't making bank / scared what a brutha has to say" asks what kind of car you drivin, proclaims it takes a "real woman," and complains about feet hurtin.

Without trying to stereotype, traditionally and easily, these are all things that we find women saying to men in popular music: if you want to get with me, nothing comes for free; "if HE aint making bank and scared what a SISTER has to say"; asking what kind of car he's driving; it takes a "real man"; and certainly complaining about footpain in some sexy high heels.

And of course there is chocolate box... leaving urban dictionary definitions out... Prince has used the box imagery before to refer to a woman's genitalia--with Sheila E's Toy Box.

This isn't new for Prince to do of course--he's often written songs that could easily be sung by a woman with a few he/she changes... songs whose imagery in fact is usually more fitting (traditionally). (Sex Shoooter comes to mind with all its gun/shooting/phallic references as something that could with a few switches be sung by a male).
[Edited 3/25/09 11:17am]



Interesting observation. I have to go back and read the lyrics again. I have to agree that you do hear these type of lyrics mainly coming from female artists. Rarely do you hear male artists expressing this type of message towards women. Actually, I find more male artists than women, expressing in their lyrics how they feel(or love) a woman or on the other hand, the machoistic (forgive me if that is not such a term, for lack of a better one) what they can do or will do to her "sexually" sort of bragging about their "chocolate box" so-to-speak.

As, in the real world, you do find many females inquiring what a man has to offer "her" to "get with this."

Not to give away details of the video, based on your observation made in your post, in the video, it does kind of looks like the male character is challenging the female in a certain point of the vid, as though he is saying to her "Okay, so what can you do or have to offer me , to get with this?" as she is doing the same...in other words, it works both ways.
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