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Reply #30 posted 05/13/16 5:21pm

98csplane

I think it is eternally sad and egregiously selfish of those surrounding Prince not to seE that he was in pain, most assuredly taking opiates, and not to try to reach him as a safeguard for Prince. I think it is very very wrong of the Jehovas Witnesses to prevent Prince from having the life saving hip surgery thereby condemning him to a life of pain. I think a mountain of blame can be laid on all those people surrounding Prince. They didn't save him. They should have.
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Reply #31 posted 05/14/16 8:50am

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Why is it so hard to think that a few of his staff suspected, they tried to help, but that Prince wanted to manage this himself and told them to butt out? I don't believe anyone from JW or even regular friends knew. This was something Prince took on himself, having heard many warnings I am sure, and decided he was going to do what he thought best for himself. In fact I am pretty sure that he got mad anytime someone tried to interfere in the way he wanted to do things. Remember how offended he was by Susan Rogers saying her life purpose was to preserve the Vault? He thought it was illegal and didn't appreciate her psychoanalyzing him either. He's not our property. He made that clear.

[Edited 5/14/16 8:53am]

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Reply #32 posted 05/16/16 7:21pm

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He was also their boss...Difficult spot. Still...

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Reply #33 posted 05/16/16 9:01pm

Goddess4Real

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Well we all know for sure when the autopsy results etc are released. sad

[Edited 5/16/16 21:02pm]

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Reply #34 posted 05/17/16 1:08am

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It is odd that there has never been a suspicion that Prince was on pain meds. The number of people he has pissed off and fired over the years, if there was any suspicions circulating in the Prince camp, someone would have come out and said something. Even if they were labelled nothing more than a disgruntled ex employee at the time, it woud be on record now. But no. Not a single utterance or insinuation. Maybe this was a very recent thing...

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Reply #35 posted 05/17/16 1:46am

NorthC

nursev said:



jesme1999 said:


nursev said:

Why did none of these associates say shit when he was alive or try to help him?



Maybe they tried ?

I doubt it or else the man wouldnt have died alone in a damn elevator sad


Trying is one thing. Him accepting help is another.
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Reply #36 posted 05/17/16 1:48am

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Rebeljuice said:

It is odd that there has never been a suspicion that Prince was on pain meds. The number of people he has pissed off and fired over the years, if there was any suspicions circulating in the Prince camp, someone would have come out and said something. Even if they were labelled nothing more than a disgruntled ex employee at the time, it woud be on record now. But no. Not a single utterance or insinuation. Maybe this was a very recent thing...

There was talk of it around 2009 IIRC. I remember even Wendy & Lisa saying in an interview (maybe even the one they did for the org?) they had heard something, rumours mainly, around then.

At the end of the day it's not like it was hard for him to cut people off from his life if he wanted to.

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Reply #37 posted 05/17/16 2:23am

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jaawwnn said:

Rebeljuice said:

It is odd that there has never been a suspicion that Prince was on pain meds. The number of people he has pissed off and fired over the years, if there was any suspicions circulating in the Prince camp, someone would have come out and said something. Even if they were labelled nothing more than a disgruntled ex employee at the time, it woud be on record now. But no. Not a single utterance or insinuation. Maybe this was a very recent thing...

There was talk of it around 2009 IIRC. I remember even Wendy & Lisa saying in an interview (maybe even the one they did for the org?) they had heard something, rumours mainly, around then.

At the end of the day it's not like it was hard for him to cut people off from his life if he wanted to.

Ive also just reread a thread from back in 2011 about Manuela posting on her Facebook page something along the lines of hoping Prince doesnt go on a TV chatshow like Charlie Sheen just did (paraphrazing), in response to a drug fueled rant Sheen went on. She then apologised later on saying she never meant to be hurtful but it was a slippery slope being surrounded by yes people and enablers.

So, it seems there were very subtle leaks about his problems going back a few years.

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Reply #38 posted 05/17/16 2:45am

jaawwnn

Rebeljuice said:

Ive also just reread a thread from back in 2011 about Manuela posting on her Facebook page something along the lines of hoping Prince doesnt go on a TV chatshow like Charlie Sheen just did (paraphrazing), in response to a drug fueled rant Sheen went on. She then apologised later on saying she never meant to be hurtful but it was a slippery slope being surrounded by yes people and enablers.

So, it seems there were very subtle leaks about his problems going back a few years.

Yeah, i'm trying to be careful in what i'm saying here because i'm going by memory, I got the impression back then that he was strongly rumoured to be taking painkillers and/or be in a great bit of hip pain and W&L basically said "we're not sure, we have heard things about him taking a lot of pills for pain but we haven't been speaking to him, we hope he's ok". It sticks out in my mind because they're pretty straight talking and if they said they heard something that'd give it some credence to me.

If this was just before he got surgery in 2010 (another rumour!) then it would make sense, but it would also make sense that he stopped taking them after getting the surgery.

But it's a lot of unconfirmed rumours piled on top of each other, along with my own faulty memory.

[Edited 5/17/16 3:24am]

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Reply #39 posted 05/18/16 9:31am

wavesofbliss

it is worth mentioning that he might have had pain with or without the surgery. I know people who have had hip surgery or back surgery or whatever and still have to manage pain. when the hips go it affects the sciatica as well. i'm sure his lower back was a mess. remember the stuff sheila said about her legs and back and she didn't do near as much jumping in her career.

it's all so sad. sad

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Reply #40 posted 05/18/16 2:44pm

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^^Little Richard had a hip replacement a few years ago and has said he has been in more constant pain after the surgery and mostly gets around in a wheelchair.

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Reply #41 posted 05/18/16 10:44pm

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Come on. People have gone from blaming Larry Graham to associates now.

We don't know what type of help they offered Prince.

What if Prince was one of the types to deny help from others. Or say he was fine.

Stop the madnesd.
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Reply #42 posted 05/19/16 4:38am

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jpav said:

What amazes me is how long he was supposedly taking these pills and we heard nothing; no rumors, no speculation, no TMZ stuff.

There is nothing wrong or illegal with taking prescribed pain pills. Millions of people take them every day.

At this point there is no proof that Prince was abusing his medication in anyway. No sign that he was being irresponsible with his pain management.

Blaming other people for not forcing a grown man to do what????? Have a surgery he may not have wanted to have???

We are all on the outside looking in and do not know what really went down and we never will.

I will not judge his friends or him based on supposition from TMZ

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Reply #43 posted 05/19/16 8:55am

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beachy said:

Why is it so hard to think that a few of his staff suspected, they tried to help, but that Prince wanted to manage this himself and told them to butt out? I don't believe anyone from JW or even regular friends knew. This was something Prince took on himself, having heard many warnings I am sure, and decided he was going to do what he thought best for himself. In fact I am pretty sure that he got mad anytime someone tried to interfere in the way he wanted to do things. Remember how offended he was by Susan Rogers saying her life purpose was to preserve the Vault? He thought it was illegal and didn't appreciate her psychoanalyzing him either. He's not our property. He made that clear.

[Edited 5/14/16 8:53am]



This! Prince was 57 years old, not 17. He made his own decisions. He knew about pain killer addiction because he was associated with people who had been thru it. You can not force a grown person into getting help they do not want. People say the same things about Nippy and Bobbi Khristin, why didnt so and so step in? Why did Cissy do something? Well, im sure they did and probably got cussed out and were told to mind their own business. I know we like to think that everyone who is an addict can be saved but its simply not the truth. First they have to admit they are an addict, which is really difficult. Then, they have to be willing to seek and accept help. It sounds so easy but when ego gets in the way...
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Reply #44 posted 05/26/16 8:01am

pnv

Rebeljuice said:

It is odd that there has never been a suspicion that Prince was on pain meds. The number of people he has pissed off and fired over the years, if there was any suspicions circulating in the Prince camp, someone would have come out and said something. Even if they were labelled nothing more than a disgruntled ex employee at the time, it woud be on record now. But no. Not a single utterance or insinuation. Maybe this was a very recent thing...



Yes I believe it was a very recent thing!!!!
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Reply #45 posted 05/26/16 1:18pm

jjam

I seem to recollect that most people who've worked for Prince signed non disclosure agreements.

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Reply #46 posted 05/28/16 7:23am

mailaccount63

nursev said:



BillieBalloon said:


nursev said:


I dont wanna turn this into a JW thread...but I truly believe they told him he couldnt have surgery then after he died they back tracked and said they didnt...just so sad.



Really? But JW do have surgery it's not against their faith.

There is no other good reason for him not to have the hip surgery except that they influenced him not to eek I mean Prince was a smart man and Im sure he made his own decision, but I feel like they had a part in that decision.



For some sects of JWs, it IS against their faith.
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Reply #47 posted 05/28/16 7:24am

mailaccount63

nursev said:



BillieBalloon said:


nursev said:


I dont wanna turn this into a JW thread...but I truly believe they told him he couldnt have surgery then after he died they back tracked and said they didnt...just so sad.



Really? But JW do have surgery it's not against their faith.

There is no other good reason for him not to have the hip surgery except that they influenced him not to eek I mean Prince was a smart man and Im sure he made his own decision, but I feel like they had a part in that decision.



For some sects of JWs, it IS against their faith. [Edited 5/28/16 7:30am]
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Reply #48 posted 05/28/16 7:32am

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Goddess4Real said:

Well we all know for sure when the autopsy results etc are released. sad

[Edited 5/16/16 21:02pm]



They are only going to tell us what they want us to know.
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Reply #49 posted 05/28/16 7:33am

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98csplane said:

I think it is eternally sad and egregiously selfish of those surrounding Prince not to seE that he was in pain, most assuredly taking opiates, and not to try to reach him as a safeguard for Prince. I think it is very very wrong of the Jehovas Witnesses to prevent Prince from having the life saving hip surgery thereby condemning him to a life of pain. I think a mountain of blame can be laid on all those people surrounding Prince. They didn't save him. They should have.


Agreed.
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Reply #50 posted 05/28/16 12:19pm

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LittleBLUECorvette said:

Come on. People have gone from blaming Larry Graham to associates now. We don't know what type of help they offered Prince. What if Prince was one of the types to deny help from others. Or say he was fine. Stop the madnesd.



Truly insane. Probably a warped perspective borne out of anger and pain at Prince's death,

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Reply #51 posted 05/29/16 12:46am

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98csplane said:

I think it is eternally sad and egregiously selfish of those surrounding Prince not to seE that he was in pain, most assuredly taking opiates, and not to try to reach him as a safeguard for Prince. I think it is very very wrong of the Jehovas Witnesses to prevent Prince from having the life saving hip surgery thereby condemning him to a life of pain. I think a mountain of blame can be laid on all those people surrounding Prince. They didn't save him. They should have.


Agreed.
RIP Prince. We will NEVER forget you. Thank you so much.

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Reply #52 posted 06/10/16 9:01am

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nursev said:

BillieBalloon said:

nursev said: Really? But JW do have surgery it's not against their faith.

There is no other good reason for him not to have the hip surgery except that they influenced him not to eek I mean Prince was a smart man and Im sure he made his own decision, but I feel like they had a part in that decision.


yeahthat

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Reply #53 posted 06/10/16 2:05pm

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nursev said:

jesme1999 said:

nursev said: Maybe they tried ?

I doubt it or else the man wouldnt have died alone in a damn elevator sad

What were they supposed to do, kidnap him and tie him to a hospital bed? That's illegal in al fifty states, you know. lol You can't MAKE a grown ass man do anything he doesn't want to do, even if you want to. If he wanted to live with it, that was his right as he was of age to make that choice. Which he apparently did.

Alternately, he may very well have tried to do something about it, and it might have failed. Arthritis could have set in. Any number of things could have happened. Stop blaming everyone else for Prince's choices. He knew very well what to do, and he either did or he didn't try to remedy it. We have no idea.

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Reply #54 posted 06/17/16 8:49pm

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nursev said:



SoulAlive said:


nursev said:

All these associates can kiss my ass. I wont be buying any of their stuff. I feel like they knew his circumstances for years and did nothing.



I think that the people who worked for him and saw him on a daily basis should have tried a powerful intervention.He nearly died on that plane ride after the Atlanta shows!! That should have been the wake-up call for these people.

agreed 100%


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Reply #55 posted 06/17/16 8:51pm

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cardinal said:

nursev said:

And why didnt his so called "religious brothers" know he was taking all this shit? Since they loved him so much....shit is sad.



i have hesitated bringing lg's name up, but if they were so close, doing bible studies for hours, etc. how could larry not see something? if not the pills, the pain, then the disability, something.

this man gave to everyone around him, and when he needs someone, he gets fucking squat.

words escape me


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Reply #56 posted 06/26/16 12:27pm

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Very sad. But I have to say, in the wake of our grief it's not fair to judge or cast blame on his work associates. Prince was , for all intents and purposes the master of his own universe who literally controlled every aspect and detail of the world he created for his work and creative environment, and when the man said jump the only acceptable response was "how high". With the exception of a few distinctmusicians, those in his employ were ( no matter how favored or praised) were ultimately still on unequal footing with him and the lesser part of a leveraged relationship. What examples have we ever had in showbiz, or even in history where the underling sees a confusing or challenging situation and then not only confronts the Head but then backs them into a corner attempting to force a change? That would be if they had any idea about the real extent of what was going on to begin with. Generally people have family members and loved ones that step into the intervention role when they face these kinds of issues. Perhaps that would be a more feasible idea to think about...where were his closest peeps? Or even more important, how much did they really know or not know that could hinder any way that they could have reached out and expressed their concerns? What role did his belief system play in him perhaps avoiding surgery (BC of the potential blood transfusion issue) and thus increasing a secret reliance on opioid patches to dull his obvious physical agony? There are so many variables at play to reduce this all to a simple black and white "they" did nothing. Stars of a certain mould and era run their environments the way dictators run countries,and if you manage to make it into their realm the best you can usually hope for is that they will at least be a benevolent dictator. Not until recent years have we seen or heard anything like that where Prince was concerned. He wasn't exactly known for his chill where his dominion over all things and people surrounding him was concerned.
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Reply #57 posted 06/26/16 7:07pm

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It is interesting: We have 3 or 4 threads on this site reaching the almost the same conclusions. See the thread: "BREAKING NEWS: Prince died of an opioid overdose: law enforcement official

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Reply #58 posted 06/26/16 7:31pm

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98csplane said:

I think it is eternally sad and egregiously selfish of those surrounding Prince not to seE that he was in pain, most assuredly taking opiates, and not to try to reach him as a safeguard for Prince. I think it is very very wrong of the Jehovas Witnesses to prevent Prince from having the life saving hip surgery thereby condemning him to a life of pain. I think a mountain of blame can be laid on all those people surrounding Prince. They didn't save him. They should have.


yeahthat

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Reply #59 posted 06/26/16 9:32pm

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This would I guess sorta explain why he didn't do normal tours anymore just dates here and there to rest up in between. Too late now we can't blame nobody and say what should of been done because prince died doing what he loved performing and to think he didn't let the pain stop him from giving us the funk.i cry a little harder now because I didn't go to the Atlanta show and in the back of my mind I kept thinking might be my last chance there will never be another prince as long as this world keeps on turning. Even though he left behind a huge legacy of music it's not the same for me love can never say goodbye
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