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Thread started 07/16/08 1:01pm

Janfriend

Equally yoked?

What does this mean to people?

I had a conversation with and uppity Christian male who was listing his requirements for a wife. After the physical list, he proceeded to say she had to be Christian and I asked "why?" and he mentioned this equally yoked thing. I then asked him "So, let's say you met someone who was attractive, had he same morals and values you had, and you connected with them on an emotional and spiritual level. You would say no to a relationship because they were of a different faith?" His reply "Yes." "Why?" He said that if he had children he wouldn't want them raised in a different faith. I asked why not raise them with both faiths? "Because it would kill me to know they are not going to Heaven." rolleyes ok. I told him that he could not guarantee he was going to Heaven or anybody else in his same faith, so why not give the child both faiths and let them decide when they are an adult on what's best for them. It didn't agree with me, but I've never thought I would pass up on love because of a difference of religion...unless it's evil

What do you think about this concept?

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Reply #1 posted 07/16/08 1:04pm

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I agree with the concept. I can screw a Republican but I could never live with one lol

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Reply #2 posted 07/16/08 1:06pm

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Janfriend said:

It didn't agree with me, but I've never thought I would pass up on love because of a difference of religion...unless it's evil

What do you think about this concept?


That's the answer right there though. the majority of christians think any other faith besides their own is evil. certainly "wrong".

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Reply #3 posted 07/16/08 1:39pm

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Janfriend said:

What does this mean to people?
For anyone who follows scripture, it is an injunction from II Corinthians 6:13

"Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?"

"I don't like that man; I must get to know him better."
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Reply #4 posted 07/16/08 1:50pm

Stymie

It used to irk me but if you are going by scripture, then yeah, you're not supposed to do that.

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Reply #5 posted 07/16/08 1:59pm

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i don't think it matters, and i'm proof it doesn't matter

my mom is Catholic, my dad is RLDS. i was raised Catholic with my brothers and my parents are still married after 33 years.

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Reply #6 posted 07/16/08 2:10pm

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shrug

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Reply #7 posted 07/16/08 2:18pm

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IrresistibleB1tch said:

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For the life of me I can't see jesus image anywhere. I guess Satan is hindering my vision.

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Reply #8 posted 07/16/08 2:20pm

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I have a friend from college who's Jewish and whose dad is a rabbi and was very serious about him meeting a "nice Jewish girl." Fast forward a couple years and he's in grad school and winds up knocking up this girl who's basically a Catholic version of him with parents who want her to marry a nice CAtholic man. I could only laugh. lol

I understand it but because I'm not religious it doesn't mean a whole hell of a lot to me.
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Reply #9 posted 07/16/08 2:22pm

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lazycrockett said:



For the life of me I can't see jesus image anywhere. I guess Satan is hindering my vision.

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lol well, you know that if you hang out with the wrong crowd, you'll go blind. at least i think that's what it was... confuse

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Reply #10 posted 07/16/08 2:33pm

Stymie

guitarslinger44 said:

I have a friend from college who's Jewish and whose dad is a rabbi and was very serious about him meeting a "nice Jewish girl." Fast forward a couple years and he's in grad school and winds up knocking up this girl who's basically a Catholic version of him with parents who want her to marry a nice CAtholic man. I could only laugh. lol

I understand it but because I'm not religious it doesn't mean a whole hell of a lot to me.
[Edited 7/16/08 14:22pm]
It don't mean a whole hell of a lot to me either.

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Reply #11 posted 07/16/08 2:36pm

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Stymie said:

guitarslinger44 said:

I have a friend from college who's Jewish and whose dad is a rabbi and was very serious about him meeting a "nice Jewish girl." Fast forward a couple years and he's in grad school and winds up knocking up this girl who's basically a Catholic version of him with parents who want her to marry a nice CAtholic man. I could only laugh. lol

I understand it but because I'm not religious it doesn't mean a whole hell of a lot to me.
[Edited 7/16/08 14:22pm]
It don't mean a whole hell of a lot to me either.


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Reply #12 posted 07/16/08 3:38pm

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esa said:

Janfriend said:

What does this mean to people?
For anyone who follows scripture, it is an injunction from II Corinthians 6:13

"Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?"

Does this apply to different denominations of the same faith?

Like a Baptist and an Episcopalian? or

An Orthodox Jew and a reform Jew?
[Edited 7/16/08 15:44pm]

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Reply #13 posted 07/16/08 3:44pm

Janfriend

esa said:

Janfriend said:

What does this mean to people?
For anyone who follows scripture, it is an injunction from II Corinthians 6:13

"Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?"

Who said that quote?

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Reply #14 posted 07/16/08 3:55pm

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IrresistibleB1tch said:

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lol! Me & "my man". rose

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Reply #15 posted 07/16/08 4:11pm

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Janfriend said:

esa said:

For anyone who follows scripture, it is an injunction from II Corinthians 6:13

"Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?"

Does this apply to different denominations of the same faith?

Like a Baptist and an Episcopalian? or

An Orthodox Jew and a reform Jew?
[Edited 7/16/08 15:44pm]

yup it's interdomminaltional relationshops can be harder.

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Reply #16 posted 07/16/08 4:39pm

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I sometimes think the universe is trying to tell me something. lurking

ing one day about racial prejudice, Paramahansa Yogananda said, "God is not pleased to be insulted when He wears His dark suits."
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Reply #17 posted 07/16/08 4:43pm

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LittleRedCorvette said:

I sometimes think the universe is trying to tell me something. lurking


hmmm something about cholesterol maybe? hmmm

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Reply #18 posted 07/16/08 4:47pm

Flowerz

Janfriend said:

esa said:

For anyone who follows scripture, it is an injunction from II Corinthians 6:13

"Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?"

Who said that quote?




the Bible says it... it's wise to follow what the Lord says.. He does know what's best for us..

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Reply #19 posted 07/16/08 4:48pm

Flowerz

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For the life of me I can't see jesus image anywhere. I guess Satan is hindering my vision.
wink



... and in that statement... you have said the truth... 100%

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Reply #20 posted 07/16/08 4:56pm

Flowerz

Janfriend said:

and you connected with them on an emotional and spiritual level.



.. there is no such thing as this right here.... this is where a Christian is suppose to have spiritual discernment... just cause the dude is fine, doesnt mean he is for you ... The Devil was fine.. the most beautiful thing God created, but .. he is fallen .... you dont connect with a guy just cause he looks good or he is saying all the right words to impress.... it takes time to get to know a person and if the dude's conversation doesnt line up with what the Lord would want, then he is the wrong one..... why the unequally yoke comes in is cause... people who dont believe in Jesus will pull you away from Jesus... ... yes, Solomon is a PERFECT example of this... the Bible says Solomon's heart wasnt right with God cause of all the women he married... those women were idol worshippers (which God told him to stay away from them) .. but because the women were beautiful.. Solomon went after them
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Reply #21 posted 07/16/08 5:49pm

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Dear God,
Hope you got the letter, and
I pray you can make it better down here
I don't mean a big reduction in the price of beer
But all the people that you made in your image
See them starving on their feet
'Cause they don't get enough to eat from
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Reply #22 posted 07/16/08 6:12pm

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IrresistibleB1tch said:

LittleRedCorvette said:

I sometimes think the universe is trying to tell me something. lurking


hmmm something about cholesterol maybe? hmmm

how are ya, goar-juss? hug


Cholesterol works for me! eek

Heya beautiful! Doing great and you?? hug

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Reply #23 posted 07/16/08 7:33pm

Janfriend

Flowerz said:

Janfriend said:


Who said that quote?




the Bible says it... it's wise to follow what the Lord says.. He does know what's best for us..

Paul wrote II Corinthians and the verse (14 not 13) sates in regular English "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness" I see that as a believer in God being with someone who does believe in God or wicked people

However, I can't find anything like this is the Torah

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Reply #24 posted 07/16/08 7:34pm

Janfriend

Flowerz said:

Janfriend said:

and you connected with them on an emotional and spiritual level.



.. there is no such thing as this right here.... this is where a Christian is suppose to have spiritual discernment... just cause the dude is fine, doesnt mean he is for you ... The Devil was fine.. the most beautiful thing God created, but .. he is fallen .... you dont connect with a guy just cause he looks good or he is saying all the right words to impress.... it takes time to get to know a person and if the dude's conversation doesnt line up with what the Lord would want, then he is the wrong one..... why the unequally yoke comes in is cause... people who dont believe in Jesus will pull you away from Jesus... ... yes, Solomon is a PERFECT example of this... the Bible says Solomon's heart wasnt right with God cause of all the women he married... those women were idol worshippers (which God told him to stay away from them) .. but because the women were beautiful.. Solomon went after them
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No one said anything about attractiveness being the decider. Emotional and spiritual connection has nothing to do with looks and there is such a thing as those two

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Reply #25 posted 07/16/08 7:39pm

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esa said:

Janfriend said:

What does this mean to people?
For anyone who follows scripture, it is an injunction from II Corinthians 6:13

"Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?"


What does "unbelievers" mean? One person is Catholic...they believe in God and Jesus. The other is Methodist or Baptist...they believe in God and Jesus. Who is the unbeliever? Who is "dark" and who is "light?"
confuse

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Reply #26 posted 07/16/08 7:41pm

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Janfriend said:

Flowerz said:





the Bible says it... it's wise to follow what the Lord says.. He does know what's best for us..

Paul wrote II Corinthians and the verse (14 not 13) sates in regular English "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness" I see that as a believer in God being with someone who does believe in God or wicked people

However, I can't find anything like this is the Torah



.. huh? .. the Torah is God telling the Jews to abstain from the Gentiles and everything related to them, they could not marry outside their race (Deuteronomy)... God even said they couldnt eat certain foods.. alot of foods actually .. He told Moses (and Joshua).. there were times they could take the spoils of their enemies (when they were defeated).. and there were other times God said 'No, dont touch the unclean thing' of the enemy .... there is even in the Gospels (the Gospel John 4:9 a Samaritan woman) where the disciplines could not preach to the Gentiles, only to their brethren the Jews.....and it was talking about Jews laws of the OT

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Reply #27 posted 07/16/08 7:46pm

Flowerz

Janfriend said:

No one said anything about attractiveness being the decider. Emotional and spiritual connection has nothing to do with looks and there is such a thing as those two



how are you gonna be emotional n spiritually connected to someone you dont know? ..he can know the Bible from Genesis to Revelations.. and that means nothing.... the true colors of a person dont come out til later...

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Reply #28 posted 07/16/08 8:00pm

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esa said:

For anyone who follows scripture, it is an injunction from II Corinthians 6:13

"Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?"


What does "unbelievers" mean? One person is Catholic...they believe in God and Jesus. The other is Methodist or Baptist...they believe in God and Jesus. Who is the unbeliever? Who is "dark" and who is "light?"
confuse



..anyone who rejects Jesus as the Messiah and doesnt believe the Gospel ... Catholics are believers, Methodists are believers, Baptists are believers.....an 'unbeliever' doesnt accept Jesus or what He says in His Word....

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Reply #29 posted 07/16/08 8:05pm

Janfriend

Flowerz said:

Janfriend said:

No one said anything about attractiveness being the decider. Emotional and spiritual connection has nothing to do with looks and there is such a thing as those two



how are you gonna be emotional n spiritually connected to someone you dont know? ..he can know the Bible from Genesis to Revelations.. and that means nothing.... the true colors of a person dont come out til later...


Who said anything about someone you don't know? You don't become emotionally and spiritually connected with someone right away. It takes getting to know them over time. A long time

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