By Alison Stevenson

http://www.vice.com/read/...e-blowjobs

Over the past year, I've been asked on countless occasions, "Hey, aren't you that girl who doesn't suck dick?" It happens at parties. While waiting to order a drink at a bar. On Tinder. Perhaps this shouldn't be surprising, since I told the internet that I don't give blowjobs last March, but I honestly didn't think it would be that big of a deal.

As it turns out, I was very wrong. In my piece, I wrote about how after years of men expecting me to suck their dicks without ever reciprocating, I was fed up. If men expect to get an orgasm out of a hookup—without having to give anything in return—then I would adopt that approach, too.

As much as I dislike forever being associated with blowjobs (or rather, the lack thereof), I'm glad it started a real conversation about the unfairness in the giving and receiving of pleasure during sex between heterosexual partners. Writing it was therapeutic for me, too. I'm less angry than I was then, and a lot happier with myself and how I approach sex. And while it's a little awkward when guys message me on Tinder and tell me they know who I am—the no blowjob girl—the upside is that at least they know where I stand and must agree with it on some level.

But here's the thing: Since I wrote that article, I have sucked dick. Please, legions of haters, don't take this as some sort of win. I vowed never to suck dick the same way I vowed never to eat an entire baguette in one sitting—deep down, I knew it would happen again eventually. These days, when I choose to give blowjobs, it's under particular circumstances—namely, that my partner has actually taken the time to eat me out, make me come, and respect my sexual needs. I give blowjobs when they're deserved. The problem is, they very rarely are.

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why did this article need to be written?

some guys don't eat pussy. some of those same guys are going to want you to suck their cock. you don't think that's fair. move on...oh, but please, tell the whole world about it first.

stupid.

OldFriends4Sale said:

By Alison Stevenson

July 20, 2016

http://www.vice.com/read/...e-blowjobs

Over the past year, I've been asked on countless occasions, "Hey, aren't you that girl who doesn't suck dick?" It happens at parties. While waiting to order a drink at a bar. On Tinder. Perhaps this shouldn't be surprising, since I told the internet that I don't give blowjobs last March, but I honestly didn't think it would be that big of a deal.

As it turns out, I was very wrong. In my piece, I wrote about how after years of men expecting me to suck their dicks without ever reciprocating, I was fed up. If men expect to get an orgasm out of a hookup—without having to give anything in return—then I would adopt that approach, too.

As much as I dislike forever being associated with blowjobs (or rather, the lack thereof), I'm glad it started a real conversation about the unfairness in the giving and receiving of pleasure during sex between heterosexual partners. Writing it was therapeutic for me, too. I'm less angry than I was then, and a lot happier with myself and how I approach sex. And while it's a little awkward when guys message me on Tinder and tell me they know who I am—the no blowjob girl—the upside is that at least they know where I stand and must agree with it on some level.

But here's the thing: Since I wrote that article, I have sucked dick. Please, legions of haters, don't take this as some sort of win. I vowed never to suck dick the same way I vowed never to eat an entire baguette in one sitting—deep down, I knew it would happen again eventually. These days, when I choose to give blowjobs, it's under particular circumstances—namely, that my partner has actually taken the time to eat me out, make me come, and respect my sexual needs. I give blowjobs when they're deserved. The problem is, they very rarely are.

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XxAxX said:

OldFriends4Sale said:

By Alison Stevenson

July 20, 2016

http://www.vice.com/read/...e-blowjobs

Over the past year, I've been asked on countless occasions, "Hey, aren't you that girl who doesn't suck dick?" It happens at parties. While waiting to order a drink at a bar. On Tinder. Perhaps this shouldn't be surprising, since I told the internet that I don't give blowjobs last March, but I honestly didn't think it would be that big of a deal.

As it turns out, I was very wrong. In my piece, I wrote about how after years of men expecting me to suck their dicks without ever reciprocating, I was fed up. If men expect to get an orgasm out of a hookup—without having to give anything in return—then I would adopt that approach, too.

As much as I dislike forever being associated with blowjobs (or rather, the lack thereof), I'm glad it started a real conversation about the unfairness in the giving and receiving of pleasure during sex between heterosexual partners. Writing it was therapeutic for me, too. I'm less angry than I was then, and a lot happier with myself and how I approach sex. And while it's a little awkward when guys message me on Tinder and tell me they know who I am—the no blowjob girl—the upside is that at least they know where I stand and must agree with it on some level.

But here's the thing: Since I wrote that article, I have sucked dick. Please, legions of haters, don't take this as some sort of win. I vowed never to suck dick the same way I vowed never to eat an entire baguette in one sitting—deep down, I knew it would happen again eventually. These days, when I choose to give blowjobs, it's under particular circumstances—namely, that my partner has actually taken the time to eat me out, make me come, and respect my sexual needs. I give blowjobs when they're deserved. The problem is, they very rarely are.

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lol that was a good line

Wonder how she'd feel about a guy who loves to eat pussy, but doesn't care if you blow him afterwards? I don't have Tinder, Alison, but hit me up here on the org we should chat .

OldFriends4Sale said:

XxAxX said:

lol that was a good line

a great line in a spirited piece on the topic of oral sex inequality~!

Why wouldn't a guy want to return the favor? Lazy? Selfish lover?

kewlschool said:

Why wouldn't a guy want to return the favor? Lazy? Selfish lover?

why should he have to? maybe he doesn't want to. maybe it's not his thing. maybe he doesn't want to put his face where he's not 100% certain that six dicks weren't just ganging up on (which, given the casual sex context of the article, isn't entirely beyond the realm of possibility).

the question should be, why complain about? why blame anyone for not doing something they don't want to do? move on. find the guy that's comfortable eating a stranger's snatch.

she can do what she wants. she doesn't have to go down. nobody has to go down. she comes off as an entitled twat, trying to make a feminist argument and looking stupid, in my opinion.

peedub said:

kewlschool said:

Why wouldn't a guy want to return the favor? Lazy? Selfish lover?

why should he have to? maybe he doesn't want to. maybe it's not his thing. maybe he doesn't want to put his face where he's not 100% certain that six dicks weren't just ganging up on (which, given the casual sex context of the article, isn't entirely beyond the realm of possibility).

the question should be, why complain about? why blame anyone for not doing something they don't want to do? move on. find the guy that's comfortable eating a stranger's snatch.

she can do what she wants. she doesn't have to go down. nobody has to go down. she comes off as an entitled twat, trying to make a feminist argument and looking stupid, in my opinion.

If you think about the average bar hoppers that only go to bars or clubs to find a hook-up, the chances of her meeting a jerk and getting a dick in her face are probably pretty high. It's probably the same type of guy to send her dick selfies on his phone. She probably just got tired of seing a dick after dick in her face. But you have a point. I don't think I would go down on a stranger like that either. You never know what is down there or how it is going to smell. No wonder Prince used to bathe his women. I wonder if he enjoyed eating snatch. I guess I would get a thread locked if I ever asked that question in another forum.

Geez...

PliablyPurple said:

Wonder how she'd feel about a guy who loves to eat pussy, but doesn't care if you blow him afterwards? I don't have Tinder, Alison, but hit me up here on the org we should chat .

No need to wonder. She had a guy who does just that, once a week. She enjoyed it.

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Sorry girls but your thing is not that nice, does not look great and it's in and not out like penis, lloks like an alien really, not something i would like to eat.

Lot of misunderstandings about the author here, might want to read her original article. She said she does not enjoy giving, period. And check out her pics.

[Edited 7/21/16 17:45pm]

214 said:

Sorry girls but your thing is not that nice, does not look great and it's in and not out like penis, lloks like an alien really, not something i would like to eat.

You think dicks look better?

The part that I don't get is her attitude. She clearly understands that she's hooking up with Guys on Hook-up sites...The First thing you do is make sure you and the other person are on the same page. If the other party is not into Oral or any other sexual act then you move on....I mean, it sounds as if these Dudes told her they wanted a Suck'n Go and then she gets Mad every time they pull their pants up and leave without pleasing her...The Writer of the article is a complaining about Nothing...There are plenty of Dudes on hook-up sites that will Eat her pussy even if she's the ugliest Woman in the world...

With the Technology we have today, Blind Dates should be a thing of the past and there are sites that feature locals looking to satisfy ANY desire you have....Being responsible, trusting your instincts and being aware of your surroundings should always be your first line of defense should you meet strangers online...

AnonymousFan said:

214 said:

Sorry girls but your thing is not that nice, does not look great and it's in and not out like penis, lloks like an alien really, not something i would like to eat.

You think dicks look better?

Yes i do, not all of them of course; some don't look good.

214 said:

AnonymousFan said:

You think dicks look better?

Yes i do, not all of them of course; some don't look good.

We can say the same about vagina's

Empress said:

214 said:

Yes i do, not all of them of course; some don't look good.

We can say the same about vagina's

Sorry but not, they all look like aliens to me, but what do i know don't like women in a sexual way.

Tell the world how you really feel!

214 said:

Horsefeathers said:

214 said:

Sorry girls but your thing is not that nice, does not look great and it's in and not out like penis, lloks like an alien really, not something i would like to eat.

Meanwhile if I had a skeletal structure like a cat, I'd never get anything done.

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214 said:

Horsefeathers said:

214 said: Meanwhile if I had a skeletal structure like a cat, I'd never get anything done.

[Edited 7/22/16 14:24pm]

He means he would give head to himself if he could.

purplethunder3121 said:

214 said:

[Edited 7/22/16 14:24pm]

He means he would give head to himself if he could.

i wouldn't do that, never.

214 said:

purplethunder3121 said:

He means he would give head to himself if he could.

i wouldn't do that, never.

Are you flexible enough to do that if you wanted? I read where a famous porn star was able to do that. But that might just be gossip.