EmmaMcG said:

SeventeenDayze said:

I think you're right. I think when I walk down the street and certain guys try to flirt it's because I think on the surface I look like a librarian or something. I think some guys have a fixation with nerdy girls. Otherwise, it boggles my mind why guys talk to me when I'm very dressed down and have glasses on.

Or maybe you're just better looking than you give yourself credit for?

Awww shucks Thanks for the compliment

SeventeenDayze said:

Okay, so I have a question for guys who are hetero and in a relationship (or have previously been in a long-term relationship). How many times do you think you have sex with a woman before you kind of get "bored" with seeing her body.

The time when her body changes?

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In relationships for me its less about getting bored of the sex and more about that post lust relationship reality setting in and how you deal with it. I can have great sex and sexual response to my gf years into the relationship if the relationship is still strong with passion and we both keep the intimacy fresh. I can get bored sexually within weeks or years or never.. its all about what both me and the other person do to maintain the chemistry.

lezama said:

In relationships for me its less about getting bored of the sex and more about that post lust relationship reality setting in and how you deal with it. I can have great sex and sexual response to my gf years into the relationship if the relationship is still strong with passion and we both keep the intimacy fresh. I can get bored sexually within weeks or years or never.. its all about what both me and the other person do to maintain the chemistry.

Yeah I guess if a relationship is just based on the physical stuff too soon then it would be nearly impossible to have an established relationship. Sounds like you have a certain level of maturity as well. Are you over 40? LOL

Ace said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Okay, so I have a question for guys who are hetero and in a relationship (or have previously been in a long-term relationship). How many times do you think you have sex with a woman before you kind of get "bored" with seeing her body.

The time when her body changes?

Um yeah okay

SeventeenDayze said:

lezama said:

In relationships for me its less about getting bored of the sex and more about that post lust relationship reality setting in and how you deal with it. I can have great sex and sexual response to my gf years into the relationship if the relationship is still strong with passion and we both keep the intimacy fresh. I can get bored sexually within weeks or years or never.. its all about what both me and the other person do to maintain the chemistry.

Yeah I guess if a relationship is just based on the physical stuff too soon then it would be nearly impossible to have an established relationship. Sounds like you have a certain level of maturity as well. Are you over 40? LOL

Lol. I'm getting there.. I'm 37.

lezama said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Yeah I guess if a relationship is just based on the physical stuff too soon then it would be nearly impossible to have an established relationship. Sounds like you have a certain level of maturity as well. Are you over 40? LOL

Lol. I'm getting there.. I'm 37.

So did you have this same train of thought when you were say 23?

SeventeenDayze said:

lezama said:

Lol. I'm getting there.. I'm 37.

So did you have this same train of thought when you were say 23?

No way. I was impulsive as hell. It took me another 7 years or so to realize life was more than just receiving pleasure from the world.

lezama said:

SeventeenDayze said:

So did you have this same train of thought when you were say 23?

No way. I was impulsive as hell. It took me another 7 years or so to realize life was more than just receiving pleasure from the world.

That's funny So it seems like most of the guys who have answered this thread are over 30 I assume!

I tend to get bored after about 6-8 weeks.

EvilAngel said:

I tend to get bored after about 6-8 weeks.

Wow, that's a short period of time! LOL Any execeptions to this rule at all? Ever? LOL

Ace said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Okay, so I have a question for guys who are hetero and in a relationship (or have previously been in a long-term relationship). How many times do you think you have sex with a woman before you kind of get "bored" with seeing her body.

The time when her body changes?

Yeah pretty much

SeventeenDayze said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Okay, so I have a question for guys who are hetero and in a relationship (or have previously been in a long-term relationship). How many times do you think you have sex with a woman before you kind of get "bored" with seeing her body. I see how guys lust after Nicki Minaj because of her body but I'm sure Meek Mill has probably seen it all 1,000 times by now. Is it likely that he's tired of her? I've always wondered about this. Reminds me of those Totsie Pop commercials...so, how many times do you have sex before it gets old?

MEMO: Men do NOT have biological clocks!

NinaB said:

UncleJam said:

If you're just talking about sex, the guy will never get bored...as long as the woman does what he wants her to and allows him to do whatever he wants.

Now see when I was around 12 I asked my Mum & Aunt about certain sexual acts, my question was "Am I going to have to do that when I get older & have a boyfriend?"...The reply was a very confident & unanimous "NO! you don't HAVE to do ANYTHING you don't WANT to do"...& I went happily on my way. Over the last 20+ years I have heard NUFF horror stories from traumatized & disturbed grown & young women who unfortunately were never given the same direction. Do u have a daughter? Would u tell her that? (What u said)...coz there's some sick fucks out there, a lot of them who come across as cool to their friends & fam. Different story when you're a female in their bed. [Edited 11/25/15 0:21am]

What kind of acts are you talking about here? There was a Canadian TV presenter who got fired two years ago coz his kink was that he liked to take women to his apartment and beat the crap out of them. He says it was always consensual. The women disagree. Is that what you mean by "horror stories"? Or are we just talking dicks up the ass? (Forgive my crude language, I mean no harm).

midnightmover said:

NinaB said:

midnightmover said:

What kind of acts are you talking about here? There was a Canadian TV presenter who got fired two years ago coz his kink was that he liked to take women to his apartment and beat the crap out of them. He says it was always consensual. The women disagree. Is that what you mean by "horror stories"? Or are we just talking dicks up the ass? (Forgive my crude language, I mean no harm).

...During sex another guy unexpectedly walkin in to join in (friend/fam of the male)...unexpected, unwanted, violent strangling... consensual acts/sex switching to rape...being spat/urinated on/verbaly abused/psychologicaly abused...agreed to being tied to a chair with light weight spanking/role play...didn't agree to being beat with a belt/threatened with death.......... [Edited 12/13/15 7:52am]

This is all from different friends of yours?

midnightmover said:

NinaB said:

midnightmover said:

This is all from different friends of yours?

Strangers, acquaintances etc...just a few off the top of my head

Well, don't let it scare you off men. The acts you describe would be alien to me and I don't think I'm in the minority.

midnightmover said:

SeventeenDayze said:

EvilAngel said:

I tend to get bored after about 6-8 weeks.

Wow, that's a short period of time! LOL Any execeptions to this rule at all? Ever? LOL

Nope. It sucks big time. Every single woman I've dated think it means I'm not interested anymore, but that's not the case. The first few weeks I'm hypersexual, but it doesn't last long. Two months into the relationship I'm fine with having sex once a week. Women (at least the ones I've dated) always think they did something wrong.

EvilAngel said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Wow, that's a short period of time! LOL Any execeptions to this rule at all? Ever? LOL

Nope. It sucks big time. Every single woman I've dated think it means I'm not interested anymore, but that's not the case. The first few weeks I'm hypersexual, but it doesn't last long. Two months into the relationship I'm fine with having sex once a week. Women (at least the ones I've dated) always think they did something wrong.

Wow, that's interesting. Do you think that will ever change for you?

Here's my $.02. I've been with my girl more than 13 years. It's like learning and playing an instrument. We get better together and it gets more exciting as we get more skilled with each other. I know what she likes and she knows what I like, but we'll keep getting better as we move forward. I can't think that a musician would be bored after playing a guitar a handfull of times. We keep learning and growing as we age.

oldmanjohnson said:

Here's my $.02. I've been with my girl more than 13 years. It's like learning and playing an instrument. We get better together and it gets more exciting as we get more skilled with each other. I know what she likes and she knows what I like, but we'll keep getting better as we move forward. I can't think that a musician would be bored after playing a guitar a handfull of times. We keep learning and growing as we age.

Interesting, thanks for sharing!

SeventeenDayze said:

Okay, so I have a question for guys who are hetero and in a relationship (or have previously been in a long-term relationship). How many times do you think you have sex with a woman before you kind of get "bored" with seeing her body. I see how guys lust after Nicki Minaj because of her body but I'm sure Meek Mill has probably seen it all 1,000 times by now. Is it likely that he's tired of her? I've always wondered about this. Reminds me of those Totsie Pop commercials...so, how many times do you have sex before it gets old?

Same as for "homo" guys.

sro100 said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Okay, so I have a question for guys who are hetero and in a relationship (or have previously been in a long-term relationship). How many times do you think you have sex with a woman before you kind of get "bored" with seeing her body. I see how guys lust after Nicki Minaj because of her body but I'm sure Meek Mill has probably seen it all 1,000 times by now. Is it likely that he's tired of her? I've always wondered about this. Reminds me of those Totsie Pop commercials...so, how many times do you have sex before it gets old?

Same as for "homo" guys.

this can apply to women too

SeventeenDayze said:

Okay, so I have a question for guys who are hetero and in a relationship (or have previously been in a long-term relationship). How many times do you think you have sex with a woman before you kind of get "bored" with seeing her body. I see how guys lust after Nicki Minaj because of her body but I'm sure Meek Mill has probably seen it all 1,000 times by now. Is it likely that he's tired of her? I've always wondered about this. Reminds me of those Totsie Pop commercials...so, how many times do you have sex before it gets old?

I don't remember ever getting bored of a girl's body per se.

However I have sometimes known from the start that I wouldn't stay forever with a girl because I didn't fancy her body enough.

Another thing is after some months I got sexually bored with each of the 4 girls I tried living with in the past, and 2 of those were Hollywood class so I was pretty puzzled because they just couldn't have been hotter. So that, among several other reasons, have decided me not to ever share an appartment with a GF, ever.

databank said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Okay, so I have a question for guys who are hetero and in a relationship (or have previously been in a long-term relationship). How many times do you think you have sex with a woman before you kind of get "bored" with seeing her body. I see how guys lust after Nicki Minaj because of her body but I'm sure Meek Mill has probably seen it all 1,000 times by now. Is it likely that he's tired of her? I've always wondered about this. Reminds me of those Totsie Pop commercials...so, how many times do you have sex before it gets old?

I don't remember ever getting bored of a girl's body per se.

However I have sometimes known from the start that I wouldn't stay forever with a girl because I didn't fancy her body enough.

Another thing is after some months I got sexually bored with each of the 4 girls I tried living with in the past, and 2 of those were Hollywood class so I was pretty puzzled because they just couldn't have been hotter. So that, among several other reasons, have decided me not to ever share an appartment with a GF, ever.

That's interesting...seems like most of the guys on here said the opposite of what you said. Perhaps you'll never settle down then with a woman and have a traditional marriage then right?

SeventeenDayze said:

databank said:

I don't remember ever getting bored of a girl's body per se.

However I have sometimes known from the start that I wouldn't stay forever with a girl because I didn't fancy her body enough.

Another thing is after some months I got sexually bored with each of the 4 girls I tried living with in the past, and 2 of those were Hollywood class so I was pretty puzzled because they just couldn't have been hotter. So that, among several other reasons, have decided me not to ever share an appartment with a GF, ever.

That's interesting...seems like most of the guys on here said the opposite of what you said. Perhaps you'll never settle down then with a woman and have a traditional marriage then right?

No I definitely won't.