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Thread started 03/28/15 4:50pm

bigboy784

My friend just sent me a positive uplifting letter about me not getting any women. What do you think about this letter?

Well, to be honest with you...I think if you want women to like you, you got to chat them up. Talk to them. Speak to them. Not a lot of girls are into shy guys who keep to themselves. You got to be interesting and entertaining. Your conversation must be tight to where she's having a good time and is feeling a lot better than she did before you spoke to her. Thats just how it works. Women love to talk.

I think the reason why its been so hard for you is because you haven't really been around people. You just kind of distance yourself away from people and now you find it hard because you haven't been around them so long. Not just with girls, but with everybody. You haven't lived life. Social skills with people in general is something that you may need to work on.

..And dont worry about what those lunchladies say about you not being able to get a woman. They only know what you tell them. It has nothing to do with how you look at all. But by you acting the way you do, they wouldn't think you were pulling girls but when you tell them you're not, that just proves them right. You're not a bad looking brother, Lardell...you just a bit on the timid/ nerdy side when it comes to women.

When speaking to them, throw in ONE compliment. Dont overdo it. Just be entertaining, funny, smile, make them feel good and just be positive and above all, CONFIDENT.

The guy has to take the lead and make them be interested in him if thats what he really wants. Usually women dont walk up to you and tell you that they're interested, even if they are. They may tell their friends and give you hints but most of the time, they will never tell you straight up. I learned later in life, that no matter how much you groom yourself, if you aint got the courage to speak to women, you will always be alone.

Take baby steps, improve yourself little by little..and pretty soon, you're going to be saying "Man, if these women dont get away from me!"

You'll be ok. Good luck.
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Reply #1 posted 03/31/15 4:47pm

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i think it's a nice letter. quite cheery and encouraging. good advice

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