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Thread started 11/18/14 8:27pm

breakdown2k14

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my dad has a brain tumor

Found out today my dad has a brain tumor. What exactly does that mean? He told me that if they do surgery he could possibly come out mental. In 2012 his wife past away.she had cincle cell and died from overdosing on her medicine.I'm all that he has.for the past year he's had trouble keeping his balance and often falls.he Cant hold onto anything without dropping it.he's on 12 different medicines.sometimes he takes medicine and wakes up in the middle of the night stumbling his words and falling down throughout the house and i have go help him back in his room.then the next day he roll have no memory of it. One incident last summer,he was eating a pork chip and accidentally swallowed a pork chop bone.luckily I was here and I had to perform the heimlic. He was messed up on bis medicine when be ate the pork chop.I'm 25 and mg dad is 50.I support him and I love him a lot.he fold me he's still in love with his wife that passes away and told me he doesn't ever want me to leave the house. But I would like go do that one day but if I did I would be worried about him. Now that he has a brain tumor I'm even more worried. Has anyone been In A similar situation?
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Reply #1 posted 11/18/14 10:03pm

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I had a friend who had one and it disappeared on it's own. My aunt had cancer tumors in the brain and died with in 3 months of diagnosis.

Sorry to hear about your situation. If you want more information youo should go with your dad to one of his Doctor appointments and start to learn about options.

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Reply #2 posted 11/19/14 8:53am

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breakdown2k14 said:[quote]Found out today my dad has a brain tumor. What exactly does that mean? He told me that if they do surgery he could possibly come out mental.

Is that what the doctors told him? Is it cancerous or non-cancerous?
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Reply #3 posted 11/19/14 9:41am

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"Come out mental"?? - I think you and your Dad should educate yourselves on brain tumours and the affects it can have. By having a better understanding, it will allow you to deal with the situation better.
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Reply #4 posted 11/19/14 9:53am

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kewlschool is correct: In the future go to the doctor with your father. When people are diagnosed with an illness its not uncommon for them to feel overwhelmed, scared, and shocked at the turn of events. It would help if your father had another set of ears, to ask questions he may not not have considered, follow up questions, and lend support.

You should know what medications he's taking, what and why. Check to see if he's taking them as prescribed... some medication require you to eat before taking them others require you to avoid certain foods, for example. Tell his doctor(s) what you've witnessed and check to see if your father is being over medicated or if some of the medications are interacting... causing more harm then good. If you haven't already, get a medication pill box organzier from any drug store. It makes it easier for you and for him to keep up when, at what time(s), and how pill per day he suppose to take. Always keep a list of his prescriptions with you when you go to the doctor and in case of emergencies, give you father a list to keep in his wallet.

When you know all the specifics about his brain tumor / illness, than the both of you will have a better understanding of what he'll need in terms of help, support, and treatment. Hang in there...


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Reply #5 posted 11/19/14 9:55am

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The brain is a very complex, delicate yet resilient organ, there are many possibilities. There is no one answer fits all you can get on the internet. You MUST speak with your father's doctor, FIRST, to even begin to understand what's happening. You can go from there in your research.
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Reply #6 posted 11/19/14 3:55pm

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sorry to hear your news. there are many possible outcomes for brain cancer. i hope your dad fully recovers

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