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For the women, preferably married. ,for those that are in a long relationship....do you ever want to just SHAKE SOME SENCE INTO YOUR PARTNER?
snap at him for no reason?
fantisize about taking seperate vacations.....?
been happliy married 29 years...but some days....DAMMMMMM! | |
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yes of course!
after some particularly awful vacations together, I take most of mine separately now I need time away from all of them once a year I've decided
We want such different things out of a vacation
I like cities and sightseeing and nature and modern stuff and comfort, art, food, fun and friends.
He likes third world places and truly slumming it. I have allergies and food intolerances and just don't wanna be itchy and stuff!
I won't say I snap at him for no reason - he gives me reason enough. I'm the mistake you wanna make | |
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this is my opinnion, of course, so everybody calm yo tits: life-long marriages aren't for everyone; if people just stopped 5 f minutes to think about themselves, they would avoid a lot of pain and stress, and lots of disillusionment [Edited 8/10/14 0:01am] | |
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I'm not married but I imagine if I got married within the next 5-10 years I'd probably be really skilled at knowing when to keep silent and find other ways to convey what my thoughts were. But, if buttons were pushed for too long, I'd bring out the big guns (figuratively speaking) and roar like a lion until he got some sense into him. How's that? Trolls be gone! | |
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I think my wife would like to spend every single second with me and never leave my arms after her most recent, very separate vacation. I don't see much fighting in our future. MY COUSIN WORKS IN A PHARMACY AND SHE SAID THEY ENEMA'D PRANCE INTO OBLIVION WITH FENTONILS!! | |
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you got jokes, uh? | |
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but some days....DAMMMMMM!
Yep, I couldn't agree more.
We've always done stuff separately and as a couple. Its been a sticking point.. I'm a loner and he doesn't like being alone. I'm more into sports, so I have a group of guys I go to the baseball games with. I like world travel, he only wants to go on fishing vacations. Snapping? Guilty as charged. Most of my moodiness was related to work, retirement solved that... I'd like to think. So, every year, I treat him and his friends to a fishing vacation somewhere and he takes in a baseball and football game with me.
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That's very true. I've had my fair share of pain, stress, and moments of futility. The man I'm married too, percentage wise hasn't been the main cause for those tuff moments. Life. | |
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Havent felt the need to .. so far alls good. | |
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forget relationship, I feel like that about everyone that's a shit disturber | |
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In all my relationships I wanted to spend every single second with my boyfriend and never leave his arms. I hate to go on a vacation without my partner when I am in a relationship. Time with the person I love most is the most precious thing on the planet for me. With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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ooops wrong thread, sorry [Edited 8/15/14 10:59am] [Edited 8/15/14 10:59am] With a very special thank you to Tina: Is hammer already absolute, how much some people verändern...ICH hope is never so I will be! And if, then I hope that I would then have wen in my environment who joins me in the A.... | |
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i shout at him sometimes & he loves it | |
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Isn't that what marriage is about? For better or worse. Spouses drive us mad at times, but we should love them enough to accept our differences and agree to disagree. Just like when you become a parent, being in a relationship doesn't define you. You should always be an individual first and foremost. It's just as important to do stuff without your partner as it is to make quality time with your partner. Imo. | |
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My husband and I have only been together about 10 years, married one. I still love vacations with him. But I also have trips with the ladies too.
He annoys me and I annoy him, but he's still the best, and my best bud.
I can say that being married and in a long term with him has been wonderful to me. I love the shhh outta him.
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Congrats on 29 years.
No More Haters on the Internet. | |
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cant' breath
I don't recall President Kenndy relating this to blowjobs. | |
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By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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a double slap for you two.
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By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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so true....
there are so many reasons why i snap...menopause,,,,health issues, hormones, medications... Just going through a rough patch.
this too shall pass.
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