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Jada Pinkett Smith On Breaking The Rules Of Her "Intact" Marriage, Gossip About Her Relationship & Working Out LESS For


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Jada Pinkett Smith redefines the little black dress in the latest issue of Net-a-Porter's The Edit. See the gorgeous pics inside and find out how she and Will Smith broke free from the conventional rules of their "Intact" relationship.

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As she preps for a starring role a Fish Mooney in the upcoming FOX series "Gotham", 42-year-old Jada Pinkett-Smith posed atop a balcony in New York City in a few sexy black dresses. The classic pictorial was captured for the glossy mag Net-a-Porter's The Edit, an off-shoot of the fashion e-commerce company, and shot by Chris Colls.

In the accompanying article, Jada talks about her charitable work and efforts (eg. raising awareness about sex-trafficking), how she and Will have broken the rules about traditional relationships too make their "Intact" marriage work, how she feels about all the rumors about her "Intact" marriage, and confronting the aging process ('I look better than ever and I work out less. I’m never in the gym for [more than] 45 minutes'). Must be nice!

Here are the highlights and more ridiculously fabulous pics:

On loving Will and breaking the rules of relationships:

The thing I’ve realized about sex trafficking is that every single woman is susceptible to being trafficked. It doesn’t matter what your background is, your economic status, what language you speak or the color of your skin. A lot of people want to believe it only happens to poor girls, and that’s not true. When I talk to these girls, I see myself, I see my mother, I see my daughter, I see my girlfriends, I see my sons. There are a lot of boys being trafficked as well, so this is a people problem.”

On how she handles gossip about an open marriage and her sexuality:

The coping technique is knowing what the truth is – there’s no better technique. When you know that what’s going on in your house is so the opposite [of what’s being said], and you also know that when there’s mystery, people fill in the gaps, that’s OK,” she says. “And then you look back at it and look at how creative people can be, and it’s kind of entertaining. We can laugh because it’s so ridiculous. But I get it. I don’t take it personally.”

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On playing a villain in the new series "Gotham":

“Playing a villain is really about diving into your own personal shadows. I wouldn’t say it’s easy, but it’s definitely fun,”

On aging:

You know what?” she says with a laugh, “I don’t know if I feel stronger than ever, but I do feel better than ever. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve learned that it’s about being physical every day. You don’t have to go to the gym if that’s not your thing. You can go outside your door and walk around your block. “You can take a brisk walk, a light jog, a slow stroll if you want! I feel like, as I’ve gotten older, I look better than ever and I work out less. I’m never in the gym for [more than] 45 minutes.”

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On sex-trafficking:

“When your daughter comes to you and is like, ‘Hey Mom, do you know that there are people selling girls my age for sex in this country?’ My first response was, ‘Oh no, that doesn’t happen here.’ Then I did my research and I thought, ‘How could this be going on here and I not know?’ I felt ashamed and, being a woman in an industry that has a voice, I just felt this enormous amount of responsibility to at least let other people know. ‘Guess what guys? It’s not just happening over there. It’s happening right here.’ I just had to get that word out.”

On her most shocking discovery about sex-trafficking around the world:

The thing I’ve realized about sex trafficking is that every single woman is susceptible to being trafficked. It doesn’t matter what your background is, your economic status, what language you speak or the color of your skin. A lot of people want to believe it only happens to poor girls, and that’s not true. When I talk to these girls, I see myself, I see my mother, I see my daughter, I see my girlfriends, I see my sons. There are a lot of boys being trafficked as well, so this is a people problem.”

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On raising Jaden and Willow and letting them make mistakes:

I want my kids to be happy and I want them to be themselves. I was saying to a friend the other day, ‘Remember, our kids are not us.’ They’re not. Sometimes we’re trying to fix things that happened to us or projecting [onto them], and that’s a terrible, terrible trap.”

On the value of women in society and respecting feminine energy

"It’s really tough. I feel like the connection to the value of women on a bigger scale has decreased tremendously. Even though you look and go, ‘Women have so many opportunities,’ it’s like, ‘Yeah, but at what cost?’ Are women valued for being women, or are women valued when they have more masculine qualities? Men and women encompass both female and masculine energies, but it seems like when the feminine is present, it’s not respected.”

Watch hottie Jada this fall of FOX's "Gotham" starting Monday, September 22nd.

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Reply #1 posted 07/22/14 5:56pm

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i think they're great. they look happy together

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Reply #2 posted 07/22/14 6:04pm

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My marriage has been really rocky lately. My wife recently suggested we attend marriage counselling, but my heart wasn't in it. I sat there thinking "if only Jada Pinkett Smith would show me the way.. I know everything would be alright"

And now this

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Reply #3 posted 07/22/14 6:15pm

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MoBettaBliss said:

My marriage has been really rocky lately. My wife recently suggested we attend marriage counselling, but my heart wasn't in it. I sat there thinking "if only Jada Pinkett Smith would show me the way.. I know everything would be alright" And now this Pwaise da lawd pray

I wish she'd write a self help book! idea

I'm the mistake you wanna make
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Reply #4 posted 07/22/14 6:18pm

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She should be giving advice on the stalkers who lie about having worked for them, go on websites to post how their marriage is "intact" and secretly break into their houses to sniff Will's tighty whities for his semen aroma. evillol

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Reply #5 posted 07/22/14 6:19pm

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is "intact" some kind of codeword? why is it in quotatation marks? confuse

I'm the mistake you wanna make
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Reply #6 posted 07/22/14 6:23pm

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old news confused

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Reply #7 posted 07/22/14 6:47pm

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OMG!! your STILL "sucking" his dick?! omfg

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Reply #8 posted 07/22/14 6:57pm

Stymie

Are you forgetting all the couples who have been married more than twenty years? I could name lots. Also, you know what they want you to know. For all you know their marriage is on thin ice. It's not like she'd share that part.

I also want to thank you for taking them from being one of my favorite couples to one of my least favorites.
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Reply #9 posted 07/22/14 7:08pm

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OMG!! your STILL "sucking" his dick?! omfg



hello there... where have you been?

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Reply #10 posted 07/22/14 9:21pm

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Stymie said:

Are you forgetting all the couples who have been married more than twenty years? I could name lots. Also, you know what they want you to know. For all you know their marriage is on thin ice. It's not like she'd share that part. I also want to thank you for taking them from being one of my favorite couples to one of my least favorites.



yeahthat My parents just celebrated their 54th wedding anniversary party

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Reply #11 posted 07/22/14 10:35pm

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This is a still young HOLLYWOOD couple! That the BLOGS tried to tear apart STILL STANDING!

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Reply #12 posted 07/22/14 11:34pm

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talk to the hand Why would anyone get excited over twenty years? Talk to me when you reach 50 years.

I also most note that the fact that she is openly talking about her marriage is a big red flag of see my marriage is great and I'm going to show you, although in private it might not be as great.

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Reply #13 posted 07/23/14 6:11am

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ZombieKitten said:

is "intact" some kind of codeword? why is it in quotatation marks? confuse


This is what intact means.




So I'm pretty sure that means that both Will and Jada have testicles.

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Reply #14 posted 07/23/14 6:56am

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tinaz said:



OMG!! your STILL "sucking" his dick?! omfg


She better be...women can add a lot to their 'get away with this' list if they suck a dick at least a couple times a month. Use that opportunity to make requests as well. Your yes:no ratio will be better than what is typical.
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Reply #15 posted 07/23/14 8:18am

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Stymie said:

Are you forgetting all the couples who have been married more than twenty years? I could name lots. Also, you know what they want you to know. For all you know their marriage is on thin ice. It's not like she'd share that part. I also want to thank you for taking them from being one of my favorite couples to one of my least favorites.

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Reply #16 posted 07/23/14 3:14pm

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Stymie said:

I also want to thank you for taking them from being one of my favorite couples to one of my least favorites.

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Reply #17 posted 07/23/14 3:51pm

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:stirthepot:


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Reply #18 posted 07/23/14 4:51pm

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JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

is "intact" some kind of codeword? why is it in quotatation marks? confuse


This is what intact means.




So I'm pretty sure that means that both Will and Jada have testicles.

lol

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Reply #19 posted 07/24/14 10:14am

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Jada Pinkett-Smith says her niece was given a date r@pe drug

Screen Shot 2014-07-23 at 1.32.53 PMS*xual assault is a serious problem in our country and one of the reasons the problem persists is because people don’t speak up about it. Jada Pinkett Smith is doing a great service to women everywhere by talking about the issue, particularly in relation to the #JusticeforJada movement that has occurred around the country.

The movement started when Jada Smith, a 16-year old girl chose to speak publicly about being assaulted and the ridiculed on social media. Jada Pinkett Smith, who shares the same first and last name as the little girl who was attacked, made some comments about the issue on her Facebook page.

Speaking with US Magazine, the older Jada spoke about why the issue affected her so much.

“If you saw what I put on Facebook, you also saw that this could happen to any woman that we know, and the unfortunate part is that my niece was given a date-rape drug that weekend,” she tells Us. “Thank God—she’s 20—so thank God that nothing happened because she was with some responsible guys that took care of her, and with three of her friends … ”

Pinkett-Smith says that she had to speak with her daughter about the incident shortly after it occurred.

“I’m not a conventional parent, which I take a lot of pride in,” she said. “The first thing I had my niece do was sit down with my daughter and a couple of her friends and tell her about that experience. I don’t just sit with Willow and go, ‘Hey, this is what Mommy thinks.’ …

“What I do with Willow is I give her the opportunity to be empowered by having herself first. Because when you allow a person to be an individual and you allow a person to have power within and have confidence on who they are, you’ll never have to look into the eyes of a man and question whether it’s a yes or a no. She’s gonna be very clear: No. She’s gonna be very clear: Yes. And she’s gonna be in a position to be able to determine how to protect herself. Know when you’re in danger. … ”

Date rape is a consistent concern for women, and occurs on many college campuses in particular. Some of the ways to combat the problem are to teach men to avoid assaulting women and to teach women to avoid men who might harm them. This could include making sure that you never leave your drink when you go out and avoiding becoming intoxicated when you’re not in a safe environment.

Jada is not only beautiful. But is inspirational to women everywhere. I admire her strength. That is a good reason why Will married this

phenomenal woman!!

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Reply #20 posted 07/24/14 2:08pm

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I still love and accept you for who you are KCool. The org is glad you came out of Wills closet <3 the org wouldn't be the same without you.

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Reply #22 posted 07/28/14 11:45pm

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Does anyone actually care??? Give two shits? Anyone... anyone... neutral

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Reply #23 posted 07/30/14 5:05am

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I'm really trying to give a fuck. smile

People have told me I look a bit like Jude Law. I think it's because when they asked to see a picture of me I sent them a picture of Jude Law.
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Reply #24 posted 07/30/14 9:13am

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I'm really trying to give a fuck. smile

lol

I am interested in these stories because I remember 20 years ago reading Ebony magazine and Will and Jada were one of the hottest couples.

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Reply #25 posted 07/30/14 3:57pm

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[img:$uid]http://pic80.picturetrail.com:80/VOL2084/9118410/23710928/398366626.jpg[/img:$uid]

The beautiful Jada & her good friend prince

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Reply #26 posted 07/30/14 11:46pm

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Stymie said:


Are you forgetting all the couples who have been married more than twenty years? I could name lots. Also, you know what they want you to know. For all you know their marriage is on thin ice. It's not like she'd share that part. I also want to thank you for taking them from being one of my favorite couples to one of my least favorites.



yeahthat My parents just celebrated their 54th wedding anniversary party


woot!
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