yes?

no?

discuss

no

HELL YES, It's cheating!!! Why would I want to kiss my girl, after she was just sucking some other dudes dick? Why would she want to kiss me, after I was just giving another woman head?



I love how people try to bend things into their favor, or for it to be considered okay.


smh......

YES... If it's not being done by the person you are in a relationship with UNLESS, you have "an understanding" with your partner.

To me - absolutely.

But every couple has the right to make up their own rules about what cheating is and what it isn't.

Of course, though I do agree couples retain the prerogative to set their own rules.

[Edited 7/6/13 15:50pm]

Some consider looking at Porn (on the sly) as cheating! Also, if you're just flirting.

so, yes.

Yes. Absolutely yes.

If you have to ask, then the answer's yes.

Yes. There's even such a thing called "emotional cheating" that doesn't even involve any sexual contact.

thekidsgirl said:

YES... If it's not being done by the person you are in a relationship with UNLESS, you have "an understanding" with your partner.

Yeah that^^^

HELL YEAH IT'S CHEATING!!!!

missfee said:

Yes. There's even such a thing called "emotional cheating" that doesn't even involve any sexual contact.

I was having this exact discussion with someone a few days ago. We were trying to figure out which is worse, a sexual cheat or an emotional cheat? I kinda lean towards the emotional cheat as being worse because you can go outside of your relationship and have sex with someone once or twice and get it out of your system. You don't really need to have any feelings towards them. But, an emotional cheat? That involves a bond and usually goes on for a really long time.

Of course it is.

Picture yourself walking in your bedroom and seeing your lover getting tuned-up, legs sprawled open moaning like crazy in mid-orgasm, not even flinching when you stroll in..... just loving your neighbor's oral stimulation.

Now answer that for yo'self!

It wouldn't bother me either way.

I have no pride.Jesus would be proud(pride part)

paintedlady said:

Picture yourself walking in your bedroom and seeing your lover getting tuned-up, legs sprawled open moaning like crazy in mid-orgasm, not even flinching when you stroll in..... just loving your neighbor's oral stimulation.

Now answer that for yo'self!

I'd enjoy the show.

No, of course not.


Oral and Anal don't count.

If you are receiving oral sex from any woman other than you girlfriend/wife, then it's definitely cheating AND an act of adultery. The only exception to the rule is if you're in an open relationship/marriage and your girlfriend/wife knows about it BEFORE you received the oral sex from the other woman.

Efan said:

If you have to ask, then the answer's yes.

LOL yes!!

Someone recently made me understand that even lap dances are cheating.

Now, there may be degrees of cheating (like internet chats), but receiving physical sexual stimulation from someone other than your partner is generally going to be seen as a no-no for the other person.

NDRU said:

Someone recently made me understand that even lap dances are cheating.

Now, there may be degrees of cheating (like internet chats), but receiving physical sexual stimulation from someone other than your partner is generally going to be seen as a no-no for the other person.

GREAT friggin thought!!!!

I just though about something.......If you're getting a lapdance & you cum on yourself, should that be considered cheating???

This whole thread....

KidaDynamite said:

This whole thread....

Your dick/pussy gets wet by someone other than your partner...you cheating!

G3000 said:

Your dick/pussy gets wet by someone other than your partner...you cheating!

So if you're watching porn.....that's cheating?

Tittypants said:

I just though about something.......If you're getting a lapdance & you cum on yourself, should that be considered cheating???

That's kind of the point. If she rubs her body against you and you get off on it, then really what's the difference between there being clothes in between you or having just a condom between you?

But everyone feels differently about the topic, obviously