SeventeenDayze said:

angel345 said:

Pray for her

Yeah please DO pray for me....nobody takes stuff seriously until it's too late (i.e. Don Cornelius and Whitney Houston)

Huh? First off, Don Cornelius nor Whitney Houston (their deaths are even in the same ball park) have anything to do with this thread or your situation.

Sorry but all I see in this thread is a desperate woman (or girl :hmm2) who keeps contacting a guy who is clearly playing with her head. His friends are playing right along with him and they all are laughing at you behind your back. The ones who distance themselves from you are actually doing themselves a favor and for the record ARE NOT JEALOUS OF YOU.

I'm sorry folks but I have to keep it real.

missfee said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Yeah please DO pray for me....nobody takes stuff seriously until it's too late (i.e. Don Cornelius and Whitney Houston)

Huh? First off, Don Cornelius nor Whitney Houston (their deaths are even in the same ball park) have anything to do with this thread or your situation.

Sorry but all I see in this thread is a desperate woman (or girl :hmm2) who keeps contacting a guy who is clearly playing with her head. His friends are playing right along with him and they all are laughing at you behind your back. The ones who distance themselves from you are actually doing themselves a favor and for the record ARE NOT JEALOUS OF YOU.

I'm sorry folks but I have to keep it real.

Drugs and suicide have nothing to do with this? As I said before, he was saying this stuff BEFORE this other fallout happened. Whatever. As I said before, I'd rather look foolish than know someone was having a hard time and not dealing with their pain. So, whatever, and how do you know who isn't jealous? Are you here?

SeventeenDayze said:

missfee said:

Huh? First off, Don Cornelius nor Whitney Houston (their deaths are even in the same ball park) have anything to do with this thread or your situation.

Sorry but all I see in this thread is a desperate woman (or girl :hmm2) who keeps contacting a guy who is clearly playing with her head. His friends are playing right along with him and they all are laughing at you behind your back. The ones who distance themselves from you are actually doing themselves a favor and for the record ARE NOT JEALOUS OF YOU.

I'm sorry folks but I have to keep it real.

Drugs and suicide have nothing to do with this? As I said before, he was saying this stuff BEFORE this other fallout happened. Whatever. As I said before, I'd rather look foolish than know someone was having a hard time and not dealing with their pain. So, whatever, and how do you know who isn't jealous? Are you here?

I don't have to be "there" where you are to have enough common sense to know that whoever you are accusing that is supposedly jealous of you really isn't. You are quite delusional and in desperate need of a therapist...or maybe a little vacation at an asylum. Honey it's you blasting all these stories here on the org. Soon as someone gives the real deal then you get all defensive.

SeventeenDayze said:

missfee said:

Huh? First off, Don Cornelius nor Whitney Houston (their deaths are even in the same ball park) have anything to do with this thread or your situation.

Sorry but all I see in this thread is a desperate woman (or girl :hmm2) who keeps contacting a guy who is clearly playing with her head. His friends are playing right along with him and they all are laughing at you behind your back. The ones who distance themselves from you are actually doing themselves a favor and for the record ARE NOT JEALOUS OF YOU.

I'm sorry folks but I have to keep it real.

Drugs and suicide have nothing to do with this? As I said before, he was saying this stuff BEFORE this other fallout happened. Whatever. As I said before, I'd rather look foolish than know someone was having a hard time and not dealing with their pain. So, whatever, and how do you know who isn't jealous? Are you here?

But I thought you two barely knew each other, and you just filed a police report on this dude?

Now you're contacting friends family, school officials about his drug problems in between?

Your story arc sure has a lot of twists and turns.

SeventeenDayze said:

angel345 said:

Pray for her

Yeah please DO pray for me....nobody takes stuff seriously until it's too late (i.e. Don Cornelius and Whitney Houston)

I already was since the first time I read this thread.

missfee said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Drugs and suicide have nothing to do with this? As I said before, he was saying this stuff BEFORE this other fallout happened. Whatever. As I said before, I'd rather look foolish than know someone was having a hard time and not dealing with their pain. So, whatever, and how do you know who isn't jealous? Are you here?

I don't have to be "there" where you are to have enough common sense to know that whoever you are accusing that is supposedly jealous of you really isn't. You are quite delusional and in desperate need of a therapist...or maybe a little vacation at an asylum. Honey it's you blasting all these stories here on the org. Soon as someone gives the real deal then you get all defensive.

you're right, i'm wrong, i'll go away forever now, thanks!

Ottensen said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Drugs and suicide have nothing to do with this? As I said before, he was saying this stuff BEFORE this other fallout happened. Whatever. As I said before, I'd rather look foolish than know someone was having a hard time and not dealing with their pain. So, whatever, and how do you know who isn't jealous? Are you here?

But I thought you two barely knew each other, and you just filed a police report on this dude?

Now you're contacting friends family, school officials about his drug problems in between?

Your story arc sure has a lot of twists and turns.

We've known each other about six months and yes the report was filed but I didn't press charges about the text message. Just wanted something on the record because the text was sent around the same time a friend of his was trying to get close to me (long story) but just wanted something on the record in case they were cooking up something awful in the background.

Yes, but now that I found out that he's on drugs and drinking it explains the bad behavior.

I don't hate this guy. I mean, he's really pissed me off royally but my heart still loves him and worries about him. Am I my brother's keeper? It's hard to explain but that's how it is.

JustErin said:

I predicted this insanity in my very first response to this orger and you all shit on me for it. But I had a good laugh reading all the serious responses then the shift you all eventually made.

ok u got me.....we hate each other deeply and love each other deeply.....its like that

JustErin said:

I predicted this insanity in my very first response to this orger and you all shit on me for it.

But I had a good laugh reading all the serious responses then the shift you all eventually made.

JustErin said:

I predicted this insanity in my very first response to this orger and you all shit on me for it. But I had a good laugh reading all the serious responses then the shift you all eventually made.

Nuh uh, Erin I think there was actually an entire league of orgers here that called this craziness from the moment the thread jumped off and every last one of us (with the exception of one or 2 orgers) was met with,

*it's not that serious

*go away

*you're stalking me

*glad to see you're back

* you're just bitter

..hell, at one point I believe the OP even admitted in a post to you how easy it was to bait folks into responding . Trust...from the moment someone said on page one 'you're either a very silly girl or you're a troll a great number of people agreed & knew what's up. But as I pointed out in my post at #150-something, while a lot of folks initially wanted to see this chick helped (or doing better, or thinking more clearly or whatever) ,once she showed herself for being either silly/a troll indeed, most folks were like f**k it, the orgs's been slow lately-- so we might as well be entertained. Where it got a little tricky on behalf of folks that intervened with more somber posts was that they were actually not wanting younger, less experienced orgers to look at this thread & think this insanity was normal behavior when one is in the pursuit of romance. But believe me, very few people here have fallen any of this.

Ottensen said:

JustErin said:

I predicted this insanity in my very first response to this orger and you all shit on me for it. But I had a good laugh reading all the serious responses then the shift you all eventually made.

Nuh uh, Erin I think there was actually an entire league of orgers here that called this craziness from the moment the thread jumped off and every last one of us (with the exception of one or 2 orgers) was met with,

*it's not that serious

*go away

*you're stalking me

*glad to see you're back

* you're just bitter

..hell, at one point I believe the OP even admitted in a post to you how easy it was to bait folks into responding . Trust...from the moment someone said on page one 'you're either a very silly girl or you're a troll a great number of people agreed & knew what's up. But as I pointed out in my post at #150-something, while a lot of folks initially wanted to see this chick helped (or doing better, or thinking more clearly or whatever) ,once she showed herself for being either silly/a troll indeed, most folks were like f**k it, the orgs's been slow lately-- so we might as well be entertained. Where it got a little tricky on behalf of folks that intervened with more somber posts was that they were actually not wanting younger, less experienced orgers to look at this thread & think this insanity was normal behavior when one is in the pursuit of romance. But believe me, very few people here have fallen any of this.

Wow, why are you folks so angry? Geez, lol, this is nuts! LOL!

Whatever, I know that all this is true, it's NOT performance art and you're really sad to think that unless it's something you have experienced then it must not be real....geez. Have you folks never heard of people who really seriously have a love/hate thing going on? It happens and that's all I was getting at.

So many people tell me this dude is always talking about me to others and then they ask me if we were in a relationship because he won't stop complaining about me. I mean damn if you hate someone you don't keep talking about them all the time do you? You eventually just get over it!

[Edited 2/25/12 9:51am]

JustErin said:

I am not even talking about this thread or even the one before that. I was the first person to respond to her very first why do men threads. Anyway, it is all very entertaining.

And why aren't you guys at least giving me credit from running away from that "older white dude" that I wrote about a few months ago? That guy was a clown and I ran away ASAP. So, don't get it twisted!

SeventeenDayze said:

Ottensen said:

Nuh uh, Erin I think there was actually an entire league of orgers here that called this craziness from the moment the thread jumped off and every last one of us (with the exception of one or 2 orgers) was met with,

*it's not that serious

*go away

*you're stalking me

*glad to see you're back

* you're just bitter

..hell, at one point I believe the OP even admitted in a post to you how easy it was to bait folks into responding . Trust...from the moment someone said on page one 'you're either a very silly girl or you're a troll a great number of people agreed & knew what's up. But as I pointed out in my post at #150-something, while a lot of folks initially wanted to see this chick helped (or doing better, or thinking more clearly or whatever) ,once she showed herself for being either silly/a troll indeed, most folks were like f**k it, the orgs's been slow lately-- so we might as well be entertained. Where it got a little tricky on behalf of folks that intervened with more somber posts was that they were actually not wanting younger, less experienced orgers to look at this thread & think this insanity was normal behavior when one is in the pursuit of romance. But believe me, very few people here have fallen any of this.

Wow, why are you folks so angry? Geez, lol, this is nuts! LOL!

Whatever, I know that all this is true, it's NOT performance art and you're really sad to think that unless it's something you have experienced then it must not be real....geez. Have you folks never heard of people who really seriously have a love/hate thing going on? It happens and that's all I was getting at.

So many people tell me this dude is always talking about me to others and then they ask me if we were in a relationship because he won't stop complaining about me. I mean damn if you hate someone you don't keep talking about them all the time do you? You eventually just get over it!

[Edited 2/25/12 9:51am]

Hon, no one is angry here. People are just more savvy than you give them credit for with posts and the actions they describe that don't even remotely fall into a logical, single file line.

This is what your story reads like to me.... since you are jumping to conclusions on this young man's life...

Sounds like he fucked you and you got clingy... he dumps you. You are now scorned.

So while you type on the org for kicks on your conquests, you research this man's family, friends, connections and background on him without his consent. Then when he finds out you are asking his friends questions about his life he calls you to cuss you out and tell you to leave him alone.

Bet he even threatened to put a retsraint order on you.

You come here to "feel" the situation out by getting conversation going on this young man's life. Coming here to try to justify your "concern" for his situation only reads like you are lying since your story has more new turns than maze.

Your story makes no sense at all other than what I have written. You are a stalker and dangerous out to hurt this young man if you don't get your way.

So let me tell you what you need to see... because if I knew who you were I would print this and send this to your local police station so that Nyyorican can file for a restraint order against you for his protection.

Leave him the fuck alone. He doesn't want you in his life. You are lying and everyone sees it because your story makes no sense.

If this once young hot volunteer college kid is now suicidal and strung out... within what... a week?

Goes from you NEVER having sex with him to you knowing the most peronal details about him in 3 no no no... 6 months?

You know his friends? You fish his friends for info is more like it to use it against him.

Leave that kid alone. He's too young for you and you can not expect him to have anything to do with you. He has too much on his plate and he needs to focus on his education.

Leave him alone, before his mother finds you.

If I were his mother, you'd be in jail. Because what you are doing IS criminal.

You have NO business contacting school officals or family without his knowledge or consent. You have crossed the line in amajor way, and you only do so to defame him. You wanna help him? Then stay out of his life.

Ottensen said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Wow, why are you folks so angry? Geez, lol, this is nuts! LOL!

Whatever, I know that all this is true, it's NOT performance art and you're really sad to think that unless it's something you have experienced then it must not be real....geez. Have you folks never heard of people who really seriously have a love/hate thing going on? It happens and that's all I was getting at.

So many people tell me this dude is always talking about me to others and then they ask me if we were in a relationship because he won't stop complaining about me. I mean damn if you hate someone you don't keep talking about them all the time do you? You eventually just get over it!

[Edited 2/25/12 9:51am]

Hon, no one is angry here. People are just more savvy than you give them credit for with posts and the actions they describe that don't even remotely fall into a logical, single file line.

Yes because everything in life, especially love and hate, fall into a logical, single file line. As to the person who posted about me "F-ing" this guy, we've never had sex, kissed or ANYTHING AT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!

JustErin said:

I am not even talking about this thread or even the one before that. I was the first person to respond to her very first why do men threads. Anyway, it is all very entertaining.

Nope, I agreed with you from the first post on.

I found this all entertaining at first, but the more she posts, the more she comes off as a nutjob stalker. I find no entertainment in that .... just sadness, and concern for a young man that bit off more than he bargained for.

paintedlady said:

This is what your story reads like to me.... since you are jumping to conclusions on this young man's life...

Sounds like he fucked you and you got clingy... he dumps you. You are now scorned.

So while you type on the org for kicks on your conquests, you research this man's family, friends, connections and background on him without his consent. Then when he finds out you are asking his friends questions about his life he calls you to cuss you out and tell you to leave him alone.

Bet he even threatened to put a retsraint order on you.

You come here to "feel" the situation out by getting conversation going on this young man's life. Coming here to try to justify your "concern" for his situation only reads like you are lying since your story has more new turns than maze.

Your story makes no sense at all other than what I have written. You are a stalker and dangerous out to hurt this young man if you don't get your way.

So let me tell you what you need to see... because if I knew who you were I would print this and send this to your local police station so that Nyyorican can file for a restraint order against you for his protection.

Leave him the fuck alone. He doesn't want you in his life. You are lying and everyone sees it because your story makes no sense.

If this once young hot volunteer college kid is now suicidal and strung out... within what... a week?

Goes from you NEVER having sex with him to you knowing the most peronal details about him in 3 no no no... 6 months?

You know his friends? You fish his friends for info is more like it to use it against him.

Leave that kid alone. He's too young for you and you can not expect him to have anything to do with you. He has too much on his plate and he needs to focus on his education.

Leave him alone, before his mother finds you.

If I were his mother, you'd be in jail. Because what you are doing IS criminal.

You have NO business contacting school officals or family without his knowledge or consent. You have crossed the line in amajor way, and you only do so to defame him. You wanna help him? Then stay out of his life.

People like you remind me of why I lurked on the Org damn-near a decade before creating an account...

SeventeenDayze said:

JustErin said:

I am not even talking about this thread or even the one before that. I was the first person to respond to her very first why do men threads. Anyway, it is all very entertaining.

And why aren't you guys at least giving me credit from running away from that "older white dude" that I wrote about a few months ago? That guy was a clown and I ran away ASAP. So, don't get it twisted!

If you can figure this clown out, then you should be able to figure out the rest of these clowns, but kudos to you

SeventeenDayze said:

paintedlady said:

This is what your story reads like to me.... since you are jumping to conclusions on this young man's life...

Sounds like he fucked you and you got clingy... he dumps you. You are now scorned.

So while you type on the org for kicks on your conquests, you research this man's family, friends, connections and background on him without his consent. Then when he finds out you are asking his friends questions about his life he calls you to cuss you out and tell you to leave him alone.

Bet he even threatened to put a retsraint order on you.

You come here to "feel" the situation out by getting conversation going on this young man's life. Coming here to try to justify your "concern" for his situation only reads like you are lying since your story has more new turns than maze.

Your story makes no sense at all other than what I have written. You are a stalker and dangerous out to hurt this young man if you don't get your way.

So let me tell you what you need to see... because if I knew who you were I would print this and send this to your local police station so that Nyyorican can file for a restraint order against you for his protection.

Leave him the fuck alone. He doesn't want you in his life. You are lying and everyone sees it because your story makes no sense.

If this once young hot volunteer college kid is now suicidal and strung out... within what... a week?

Goes from you NEVER having sex with him to you knowing the most peronal details about him in 3 no no no... 6 months?

You know his friends? You fish his friends for info is more like it to use it against him.

Leave that kid alone. He's too young for you and you can not expect him to have anything to do with you. He has too much on his plate and he needs to focus on his education.

Leave him alone, before his mother finds you.

If I were his mother, you'd be in jail. Because what you are doing IS criminal.

You have NO business contacting school officals or family without his knowledge or consent. You have crossed the line in amajor way, and you only do so to defame him. You wanna help him? Then stay out of his life.

People like you remind me of why I lurked on the Org damn-near a decade before creating an account...

Truth only hurts if you don't want to hear it dear.

I am telling you this for your own good... your story reads like you are a scorned stalker.

and to be specific, the reason why I made my conclusion is because you contacted his professors and parents.

Contacting his parents and professors was crossing the line into wacko-stalkerville.

[Edited 2/25/12 10:21am]

Ottensen said:

Pomade said:

Please, don't point out the inconsistencies in this yarn. You'll ruin the social experiment.

I really don't know what to make of all of this. It boggles the mind.

morningsong said:

Ottensen said:

I really don't know what to make of all of this. It boggles the mind.

Yeah that pic pretty much sums it up....

SeventeenDayze said:

morningsong said:

Yeah that pic pretty much sums it up....

Obviously you enjoy picking through it, me I'd toss it in the trash and move on to something else. But I'll admit I'll peek in time to time and watch you pick at it.

morningsong said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Yeah that pic pretty much sums it up....

Obviously you enjoy picking through it, me I'd toss it in the trash and move on to something else. But I'll admit I'll peek in time to time and watch you pick at it.

Well, I actually feel bad for the guy because he's been having a hard time the past few months. We have to learn how to accept the fact that nobody's perfect and even though he's really pissed me off royally in the past, my heart goes out to him. People who I know that were his closest friends, people he considered like family, talk a lot of -ish about dude now and they go back years...he's having a hard time. Sometimes, I wish I were heartless but I'm not. But, for some reason, I've really been worried about this dude as of late. He's not doing good....

SeventeenDayze said:

morningsong said:

Obviously you enjoy picking through it, me I'd toss it in the trash and move on to something else. But I'll admit I'll peek in time to time and watch you pick at it.

Well, I actually feel bad for the guy because he's been having a hard time the past few months. We have to learn how to accept the fact that nobody's perfect and even though he's really pissed me off royally in the past, my heart goes out to him. People who I know that were his closest friends, people he considered like family, talk a lot of -ish about dude now and they go back years...he's having a hard time. Sometimes, I wish I were heartless but I'm not. But, for some reason, I've really been worried about this dude as of late. He's not doing good....

You "feel bad for him"????

What part of filing a restraint order against him and trying to get him kicked out of school shows that you are trying to help him?

If you ask me, he last thing he needs is your "help".

paintedlady said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Well, I actually feel bad for the guy because he's been having a hard time the past few months. We have to learn how to accept the fact that nobody's perfect and even though he's really pissed me off royally in the past, my heart goes out to him. People who I know that were his closest friends, people he considered like family, talk a lot of -ish about dude now and they go back years...he's having a hard time. Sometimes, I wish I were heartless but I'm not. But, for some reason, I've really been worried about this dude as of late. He's not doing good....

You "feel bad for him"????

What part of filing a restraint order against him and trying to get him kicked out of school shows that you are trying to help him?

If you ask me, he last thing he needs is your "help".

...and the last thing the justice system and bona fide victims of predators and stalkers need are BS cases of females crying wolf & and playing around with their safety resources.

So I have been ignoring papi for a minute and now suddenly he has started contacting me again. He basically sent out an email to a group of us asking to help with a situation where a person is homeless and needs help getting a solution to their problem. He asked for everyone to help. I happen to know the homeless person and had been previously trying to get assistance for them, so I was already involved. Papi decided to email me and told me not to show up at a meeting that's going to be tonight. I mean seriously, why would he email me telling me not to be there? What does he get out of this?

You are priceless.

I think you're just a little too intense for him right now, of course I don't think that'll make a difference.

morningsong said:

You are priceless.

I think you're just a little too intense for him right now, of course I don't think that'll make a difference.

I didn't go precisely because I knew the only reason he sent that stupid email is because he wanted me there. When I ignore him he always finds an excuse to get my attention again, so I'll just keep on ignoring him to see how much longer he'll keep trying to get my attention.