Ottensen said:

morningsong said:

He must be really cute and she really wants him to want her, motivation to keep the ish going.

But at age 30+?

When one has little self-respect age don't matter. Most women would have told him where he could stick his 'issues' and went on about their life cause they like themselves enough.

Ottensen said:

dseann said:

I wasn't aware that there was something between you two. Now the plot thickens. You two might need to sit down and talk about a few things, mostly about how you feel about each other.

I don't think there's a relationship between the two. From what we've been told they haven't dated, they haven't bumped bellies, they just engage in childish antics to irritate one another in the workplace. Oh, and these people are supposed to be over 30

I'll wait for SD's reply before saying anything further.

dseann said:

Ottensen said:

I don't think there's a relationship between the two. From what we've been told they haven't dated, they haven't bumped bellies, they just engage in childish antics to irritate one another in the workplace. Oh, and these people are supposed to be over 30

I'll wait for SD's reply before saying anything further.

If there's any developement at all.

dseann said:

Ottensen said:

I don't think there's a relationship between the two. From what we've been told they haven't dated, they haven't bumped bellies, they just engage in childish antics to irritate one another in the workplace. Oh, and these people are supposed to be over 30

I'll wait for SD's reply before saying anything further.

Nope, we haven't "bumped bellies" as someone put it but basically he feels threatened by what I've been able to accomplish and is trying very hard to undermine it. So, it's complex because there's the personal stuff going on in the background, along with the competitiveness that he and I both have. It's a really weird dynamic.

His male ego has been bruised and he's not used to a very outspoken female who rejects his BS/nonsense, so, we've been bickering ever since. On top of that, the sexual tension between us, it's a real doozy....

SeventeenDayze said:

dseann said:

I'll wait for SD's reply before saying anything further.

Nope, we haven't "bumped bellies" as someone put it but basically he feels threatened by what I've been able to accomplish and is trying very hard to undermine it. So, it's complex because there's the personal stuff going on in the background, along with the competitiveness that he and I both have. It's a really weird dynamic.

His male ego has been bruised and he's not used to a very outspoken female who rejects his BS/nonsense, so, we've been bickering ever since. On top of that, the sexual tension between us, it's a real doozy....

Well in that case, he's just an asshole. I'm speaking from a male perspective. I've dealt with jealousy in the workplace as well and the powers that be will see his bickering for what it is. Watch your back as I said, but ignore his shit. He's staring because he's thinking up some scheme to do you in. My boss once told me to watch my back with a co-worker because he was making complaints about me which everyone knew was a bunch of bullshit.

dseann said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Nope, we haven't "bumped bellies" as someone put it but basically he feels threatened by what I've been able to accomplish and is trying very hard to undermine it. So, it's complex because there's the personal stuff going on in the background, along with the competitiveness that he and I both have. It's a really weird dynamic.

His male ego has been bruised and he's not used to a very outspoken female who rejects his BS/nonsense, so, we've been bickering ever since. On top of that, the sexual tension between us, it's a real doozy....

Well in that case, he's just an asshole. I'm speaking from a male perspective. I've dealt with jealousy in the workplace as well and the powers that be will see his bickering for what it is. Watch your back as I said, but ignore his shit. He's staring because he's thinking up some scheme to do you in. My boss once told me to watch my back with a co-worker because he was making complaints about me which everyone knew was a bunch of bullshit.

Another thing...anytime I come up with a project idea, he copies it and rushes to do it before I do but it usually ends up not being as successful. It just seems like he's super competitive with me and it doesn't help that I'm competitive as well, so it just keeps going back and forth.

I organized a film screening recently but when it was first advertised a week or so ago, he organized a film screening for two days before my event. His event had very low turnout and of course he came to mine instead, with a bigger turnout....

For a guy who can't stand me, I sure do get under his skin quite a bit....

SeventeenDayze said:

Another thing...anytime I come up with a project idea, he copies it and rushes to do it before I do but it usually ends up not being as successful. It just seems like he's super competitive with me and it doesn't help that I'm competitive as well, so it just keeps going back and forth.

I organized a film screening recently but when it was first advertised a week or so ago, he organized a film screening for two days before my event. His event had very low turnout and of course he came to mine instead, with a bigger turnout....

For a guy who can't stand me, I sure do get under his skin quite a bit....

And you're loving every minute of it, no?

MacDaddy said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Another thing...anytime I come up with a project idea, he copies it and rushes to do it before I do but it usually ends up not being as successful. It just seems like he's super competitive with me and it doesn't help that I'm competitive as well, so it just keeps going back and forth.

I organized a film screening recently but when it was first advertised a week or so ago, he organized a film screening for two days before my event. His event had very low turnout and of course he came to mine instead, with a bigger turnout....

For a guy who can't stand me, I sure do get under his skin quite a bit....

And you're loving every minute of it, no?

What makes you think I'm enjoying this game? It's like he and I plan to run into each other just to ignore each other, LOL!

Is this the first dude you were talking about on here or the other dude? Or is this a different person altogether?

What gives you the impression that he's in love with you? Judging by what you've said here, he can't stand you.

I still can't wrap my mind around why you love drama so much.

Vendetta1 said:

Is this the first dude you were talking about on here or the other dude? Or is this a different person altogether?

What gives you the impression that he's in love with you? Judging by what you've said here, he can't stand you.

I still can't wrap my mind around why you love drama so much.

If he can't stand me then why does he always go to events, etc. where he knows I'll be there and he's got nothing to do with any of the planning of it, etc.

Why do you always complain about my posts, if you don't like what I'm writing, why bother commenting on it?

SeventeenDayze said:

Vendetta1 said:

Is this the first dude you were talking about on here or the other dude? Or is this a different person altogether?

What gives you the impression that he's in love with you? Judging by what you've said here, he can't stand you.

I still can't wrap my mind around why you love drama so much.

If he can't stand me then why does he always go to events, etc. where he knows I'll be there and he's got nothing to do with any of the planning of it, etc.

Why do you always complain about my posts, if you don't like what I'm writing, why bother commenting on it?

You didn't answer the first questions.

Who said I didn't like what you're writing? I think you are hilarious.

And I think you love drama.

Vendetta1 said:

SeventeenDayze said:

If he can't stand me then why does he always go to events, etc. where he knows I'll be there and he's got nothing to do with any of the planning of it, etc.

Why do you always complain about my posts, if you don't like what I'm writing, why bother commenting on it?

You didn't answer the first questions.

Who said I didn't like what you're writing? I think you are hilarious.

And I think you love drama.

It's the Puerto Rican dude but in his mind he's black and since I'm a black girl I guess it's making him that much more crazy because he loves the sistas I reckon!

Thanks for saying I'm hilarious though.

Hey, I don't start this stuff with this guy but when you're dealing with two people who love to ignore each other and are immature in that regard, yes it's going to seem like someone likes drama....

SeventeenDayze said:

Vendetta1 said:

You didn't answer the first questions.

Who said I didn't like what you're writing? I think you are hilarious.

And I think you love drama.

It's the Puerto Rican dude but in his mind he's black and since I'm a black girl I guess it's making him that much more crazy because he loves the sistas I reckon!

Thanks for saying I'm hilarious though.

Hey, I don't start this stuff with this guy but when you're dealing with two people who love to ignore each other and are immature in that regard, yes it's going to seem like someone likes drama....

This post is a hot damn mess.

JustErin said:

This woman lives completely in her mind.

And it's nice to know that you stop by and visit to see what's happening too

JustErin said:

Yes, I find the pathetic entertaining.

So, what's your point for being on this thread? If you are so "above me" since I'm pathetic, why don't you start another thread about how wonderfully perfect your life is? I'll be waiting here....

No thanks, I'm perfectly comfortable in here laughing at your expense.

SeventeenDayze said:

Do you guys think it's possible that sometime a guy can hate a woman because he loves her? Are there just some guys who cannot deal with their feelings like that? I know a guy who tells me and others how much he can't stand me but everytime I look up he's starting at me and then looks away!

Yes but it is an unhealthy love rooted in a need to control and subdue. If you were to love such a man back, he would cease to be in love with you. Keep your distance and carry a knife just in case.

HotGritz said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Do you guys think it's possible that sometime a guy can hate a woman because he loves her? Are there just some guys who cannot deal with their feelings like that? I know a guy who tells me and others how much he can't stand me but everytime I look up he's starting at me and then looks away!

Yes but it is an unhealthy love rooted in a need to control and subdue. If you were to love such a man back, he would cease to be in love with you. Keep your distance and carry a knife just in case.

This is why I'm your biggest fan.

ThruTheEyesOfWonder said:

HotGritz said:

Yes but it is an unhealthy love rooted in a need to control and subdue. If you were to love such a man back, he would cease to be in love with you. Keep your distance and carry a knife just in case.

This is why I'm your biggest fan.

And how did i bypass the above exchange between erin and seventeen? i didn't even make popcorn.

HotGritz said:

ThruTheEyesOfWonder said:

This is why I'm your biggest fan.

And how did i bypass the above exchange between erin and seventeen? i didn't even make popcorn.

Now I just got an email out of the blue from a friend of his asking me on a date.....man this is like too much!!!!!

SeventeenDayze said:

HotGritz said:

And how did i bypass the above exchange between erin and seventeen? i didn't even make popcorn.

Now I just got an email out of the blue from a friend of his asking me on a date.....man this is like too much!!!!!

DDDEEELLLLEEETTTTEEEEE and/or RRRRUUUUNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!

Vendetta1 said:

SeventeenDayze said:

It's the Puerto Rican dude but in his mind he's black and since I'm a black girl I guess it's making him that much more crazy because he loves the sistas I reckon!

Thanks for saying I'm hilarious though.

Hey, I don't start this stuff with this guy but when you're dealing with two people who love to ignore each other and are immature in that regard, yes it's going to seem like someone likes drama....

This post is a hot damn mess.

Sure is...

FYI... Puerto Ricans ARE black.

Puerto Ricans aren't black.... hilarious! Many of us do try to hide that fact that we are black though.

I AM 100000000000% PURE Puerto Rican BTW. I come from a long line of jibaros. Jibaros are peasant mountain folk... which are dark skinned Tainos mixed with African and European blood due to the slave trades. We are just as black as any other people in the Caribbean... oh wait, they aren't black either.

Unless you were referring to someone "acting black" which opens a whole new can of non-pc worms altogether.

OK carry on.

HotGritz said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Now I just got an email out of the blue from a friend of his asking me on a date.....man this is like too much!!!!!

DDDEEELLLLEEETTTTEEEEE and/or RRRRUUUUNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!

Hahaha yeah I find it a bit suspect that his friend wants to ask me out knowing all this BS is going on....

SeventeenDayze said:

dseann said:

The guy might hate you because he loves you and knows that he has no chance of getting you.

His staring might be an indication of an obsession. Seriously look into that for your own protection. It might be nothing, but it's better to be err on the side of caution in this instance.

Have a listen to Prince's "I Hate You" and have a chuckle.

For some of you wondering if it's the older white dude of a few weeks ago the answer is NO!

Dseann----yes, the problem that I am having is letting it go. It seems like we both hate each other but cannot and will not leave each other alone. This is the weirdest feeling I've ever had about a guy. It's just tough to put it into words. There's a lot of stuff that's been happening to him as of late and it's made me really re-think some things...I dunno, seems like no matter how much I want to hate him and forget him, it's impossible.

Oh.....he sounds like the perfect guy for you to marry! Time for a trip to vegas!!!

SeventeenDayze said:

Vendetta1 said:

You didn't answer the first questions.

Who said I didn't like what you're writing? I think you are hilarious.

And I think you love drama.

It's the Puerto Rican dude but in his mind he's black and since I'm a black girl I guess it's making him that much more crazy because he loves the sistas I reckon!

Thanks for saying I'm hilarious though.

Hey, I don't start this stuff with this guy but when you're dealing with two people who love to ignore each other and are immature in that regard, yes it's going to seem like someone likes drama....

ummmm....can I get a translator....for some reason I cannot seem to decipher this bullshit

StillGotIt said:

SeventeenDayze said:

It's the Puerto Rican dude but in his mind he's black and since I'm a black girl I guess it's making him that much more crazy because he loves the sistas I reckon!

Thanks for saying I'm hilarious though.

Hey, I don't start this stuff with this guy but when you're dealing with two people who love to ignore each other and are immature in that regard, yes it's going to seem like someone likes drama....

ummmm....can I get a translator....for some reason I cannot seem to decipher this bullshit

He doesn't like to claim he's puerto rican, dude passes off like a black man (he's real light skinned though)....long story

Ok, so earlier we were telling each other where to go, now we're talking again....damn this is weird!