paintedlady said:

and please stop trolling for dick at your workplace, its bad form.

Thank you !

Visionnaire said:

imago said:

Honey, we are men! We are complex beings capable of all manner of juxtapositions! We can bend the laws of pyshics. Just this morning, I ordered an extra large pepsi in an extra small cup.

I can hate you while loving you.

I have also been known to pay unfaltering attention to you while intensely ignoring you.

So the short answer is, yes.

Yes, men are complex beings.
And so are women.
In the end, I guess it can be concluded that all people are complex beings.
Which, if that puts all of us on the same level, means that, compared to each other, we're not that complex at all.

My entire post was actually just bullshit though.

"Small Pepsi in a large cup", "unfaltering attention while ignoring...", etc.

All bullshit.

paintedlady said:

If he's talking trash about you at all, then how the HELL do you figure he's in love with you?

Where did you make the leap that if he stares at you then he must "be in love"???

WTF?

Honestly you know what this scenario sounds like...I'll tell you.

Folks are talking about you... it could be about your attitude/body/attitire... which he seemily does NOT like...

then he looks at you laughing quietly at himself because of all the wise cracks that were shared to him AND BY HIM at YOUR expense...

he could be thinking :oofph... is that where that smell is coming from??... her shit's rotten!:

and you're the silly one thinking :Oooo look at him looking! I think he loves me!!!:

You would be foolish to get into any relationship with him... and please stop trolling for dick at your workplace, its bad form.

That's basically it.

missfee said:

paintedlady said:

If he's talking trash about you at all, then how the HELL do you figure he's in love with you?

Where did you make the leap that if he stares at you then he must "be in love"???

WTF?

Honestly you know what this scenario sounds like...I'll tell you.

Folks are talking about you... it could be about your attitude/body/attitire... which he seemily does NOT like...

then he looks at you laughing quietly at himself because of all the wise cracks that were shared to him AND BY HIM at YOUR expense...

he could be thinking :oofph... is that where that smell is coming from??... her shit's rotten!:

and you're the silly one thinking :Oooo look at him looking! I think he loves me!!!:

You would be foolish to get into any relationship with him... and please stop trolling for dick at your workplace, its bad form.

That's basically it.

She needs to just ignore him.

She shouldn't have any time for this type of nonsense.

She deserves a man who is not afraid to approach her in a respectful way... until then she should just focus on her job.

A little patience on her part and she will meet a great guy in due time IMHO.

paintedlady said:

missfee said:

That's basically it.

She needs to just ignore him.

She shouldn't have any time for this type of nonsense.

She deserves a man who is not afraid to approach her in a respectful way... until then she should just focus on her job.

A little patience on her part and she will meet a great guy in due time IMHO.

He's not man... he's a boy.

These types of boys have Waste Of Time written all over their forehead. Just keep it movin'.

1.) EVERYONE talks shit about her all the time but you know, THEY are all the ones that are crazy

2.) EVERY dude likes....no loves her, is jealous...even though they also talk shit about her and act like they can't stand her

3.) This chick clearly has no grasp on reality

4.) I tried to warn you all about #3 after her very first post in her first stupid ass thread

5.) Where's Cuddles? He should post a pic of himself

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I was like that with someone when I was... 16.

he really hates u hun

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JustErin said:

1.) EVERYONE talks shit about her all the time but you know, THEY are all the ones that are crazy

2.) EVERY dude likes....no loves her, is jealous...even though they also talk shit about her and act like they can't stand her

3.) This chick clearly has no grasp on reality

4.) I tried to warn you all about #3 after her very first post in her first stupid ass thread

5.) Where's Cuddles? He should post a pic of himself

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Lawd, yall, how come I don't know anything about this orger.

It seems like an alter of Desire2006 or Gold319 (same person)

imago said:

JustErin said:

1.) EVERYONE talks shit about her all the time but you know, THEY are all the ones that are crazy

2.) EVERY dude likes....no loves her, is jealous...even though they also talk shit about her and act like they can't stand her

3.) This chick clearly has no grasp on reality

4.) I tried to warn you all about #3 after her very first post in her first stupid ass thread

5.) Where's Cuddles? He should post a pic of himself

[Edited 2/5/12 21:34pm]

Lawd, yall, how come I don't know anything about this orger.

It seems like an alter of Desire2006 or Gold319 (same person)

Are you kidding me? You haven't seen the slew of "why men do this and that" threads from the past couple of months?

SeventeenDayze said:

PunkMistress said:

Okay, this thread does it.

You are either a very silly girl, or a troll.

Why do you even bother writing here if you're annoyed?

Because we're fatigued of the immaturity and block-headedness of it all.

Little boys are taught to stifle and swallow their feelings. Anger and violence are "okay" and manly; tears are not. So if he's hurt and sad that you don't return the feelings, the only "acceptable" reaction is to lash out. It's also, I believe, the reason for a lot of domestic violence. We need to raise our boys better as a whole.

JustErin said:

1.) EVERYONE talks shit about her all the time but you know, THEY are all the ones that are crazy

2.) EVERY dude likes....no loves her, is jealous...even though they also talk shit about her and act like they can't stand her

3.) This chick clearly has no grasp on reality

4.) I tried to warn you all about #3 after her very first post in her first stupid ass thread

5.) Where's Cuddles? He should post a pic of himself

paintedlady said:

If he's talking trash about you at all, then how the HELL do you figure he's in love with you?

Where did you make the leap that if he stares at you then he must "be in love"???

WTF?

Honestly you know what this scenario sounds like...I'll tell you.

Folks are talking about you... it could be about your attitude/body/attitire... which he seemily does NOT like...

then he looks at you laughing quietly at himself because of all the wise cracks that were shared to him AND BY HIM at YOUR expense...

he could be thinking :oofph... is that where that smell is coming from??... her shit's rotten!:

and you're the silly one thinking :Oooo look at him looking! I think he loves me!!!:

You would be foolish to get into any relationship with him... and please stop trolling for dick at your workplace, its bad form.

[Edited 2/5/12 21:34pm]

annnnnd thurrre you have it folks, if after the 4th thread and Erin & Paintedlady's posts this woman still doesn't get it, I believe I'll just have to go with what's behind Door #3 (and that would be PunkMistress's reply, because this is getting ridiculous.

missfee said:

imago said:

Lawd, yall, how come I don't know anything about this orger.

It seems like an alter of Desire2006 or Gold319 (same person)

Are you kidding me? You haven't seen the slew of "why men do this and that" threads from the past couple of months?

I barely read my own threads.

PunkMistress said:

We're worthless slugs who spend most of our time overestimating our own importance.

SeventeenDayze said:

Do you guys think it's possible that sometime a guy can hate a woman because he loves her? Are there just some guys who cannot deal with their feelings like that? I know a guy who tells me and others how much he can't stand me but everytime I look up he's starting at me and then looks away!

[Youtube Prince music snip - luv4u]

Prince wrote a song about it

is this the same "Older White Guy' about whose advances you created that memorable thread???

XxAxX said:

is this the same "Older White Guy' about whose advances you created that memorable thread???

Yup... And the person that bitches about their co-worker harassing them yet trying to get their attention non-stop.

connorhawke said:

PunkMistress said:

We're worthless slugs who spend most of our time overestimating our own importance.

is someone frying balogna in here?

thought I smelled some fried balogna sammitches coming from here.

SeventeenDayze said:

Do you guys think it's possible that sometime a guy can hate a woman because he loves her? Are there just some guys who cannot deal with their feelings like that? I know a guy who tells me and others how much he can't stand me but everytime I look up he's starting at me and then looks away!

The guy might hate you because he loves you and knows that he has no chance of getting you.

His staring might be an indication of an obsession. Seriously look into that for your own protection. It might be nothing, but it's better to be err on the side of caution in this instance.

Have a listen to Prince's "I Hate You" and have a chuckle.

dseann said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Do you guys think it's possible that sometime a guy can hate a woman because he loves her? Are there just some guys who cannot deal with their feelings like that? I know a guy who tells me and others how much he can't stand me but everytime I look up he's starting at me and then looks away!

The guy might hate you because he loves you and knows that he has no chance of getting you.

His staring might be an indication of an obsession. Seriously look into that for your own protection. It might be nothing, but it's better to be err on the side of caution in this instance.

Have a listen to Prince's "I Hate You" and have a chuckle.

For some of you wondering if it's the older white dude of a few weeks ago the answer is NO!

Dseann----yes, the problem that I am having is letting it go. It seems like we both hate each other but cannot and will not leave each other alone. This is the weirdest feeling I've ever had about a guy. It's just tough to put it into words. There's a lot of stuff that's been happening to him as of late and it's made me really re-think some things...I dunno, seems like no matter how much I want to hate him and forget him, it's impossible.

missfee said:

imago said:

Lawd, yall, how come I don't know anything about this orger.

It seems like an alter of Desire2006 or Gold319 (same person)

Are you kidding me? You haven't seen the slew of "why men do this and that" threads from the past couple of months?

Some eye opening threads

[Edited 2/7/12 6:59am]

SeventeenDayze said:

dseann said:

The guy might hate you because he loves you and knows that he has no chance of getting you.

His staring might be an indication of an obsession. Seriously look into that for your own protection. It might be nothing, but it's better to be err on the side of caution in this instance.

Have a listen to Prince's "I Hate You" and have a chuckle.

For some of you wondering if it's the older white dude of a few weeks ago the answer is NO!

Dseann----yes, the problem that I am having is letting it go. It seems like we both hate each other but cannot and will not leave each other alone. This is the weirdest feeling I've ever had about a guy. It's just tough to put it into words. There's a lot of stuff that's been happening to him as of late and it's made me really re-think some things...I dunno, seems like no matter how much I want to hate him and forget him, it's impossible.

I wasn't aware that there was something between you two. Now the plot thickens. You two might need to sit down and talk about a few things, mostly about how you feel about each other.

angel345 said:

missfee said:

Are you kidding me? You haven't seen the slew of "why men do this and that" threads from the past couple of months?

Some eye opening threads

[Edited 2/7/12 6:59am]

dseann said:

SeventeenDayze said:

For some of you wondering if it's the older white dude of a few weeks ago the answer is NO!

Dseann----yes, the problem that I am having is letting it go. It seems like we both hate each other but cannot and will not leave each other alone. This is the weirdest feeling I've ever had about a guy. It's just tough to put it into words. There's a lot of stuff that's been happening to him as of late and it's made me really re-think some things...I dunno, seems like no matter how much I want to hate him and forget him, it's impossible.

I wasn't aware that there was something between you two. Now the plot thickens. You two might need to sit down and talk about a few things, mostly about how you feel about each other.

I don't think there's a relationship between the two. From what we've been told they haven't dated, they haven't bumped bellies, they just engage in childish antics to irritate one another in the workplace. Oh, and these people are supposed to be over 30

He must be really cute and she really wants him to want her, motivation to keep the ish going.

morningsong said:

He must be really cute and she really wants him to want her, motivation to keep the ish going.

But at age 30+?